BEYOND ONLINE, THERE IS ALSO A BLIND DATE: I consider the idea, success rate,tips, stories, etc.*(Cont’d)”

Vol. 3, No. 5, Monday, May 7th2012

TITLE: “BEYOND ONLINE, THERE IS ALSO A BLIND DATE:  I consider the  idea, success rate,tips, stories, etc.* (Cont’d) ” 

INTRODUCTION

This week, I will continue on with my romance theme and the blind date subject.  But now, I will look at the ‘blind date’ -particularly the stories: …the good, the bad …and …..the ugly.  My book of the week is The Blind Date Survival Guide: A Practical and Funny [Paperback] – Jeff Nagel (Author), Jessica Robison (Illustrator) (Editor’s Note: This is a continuation of the post from last week – part of a series on dating, relationships and marriage.) 

PREVIEW: Next week, I will do my annual post on Mother’s’ Day with an update for this year.  (Editor’s Note: This is another post in a continuing series on holidays and special  dates.) 

MY LIFE & TIMES*

Do I have any blind dating stories?  I have some…several my own experiences…others from friends … and still others through research.

Very Good (VG): Here’s one far to the good. My mother was the matchmaker. She knew a man who lived in her building. He was older, looking to meet a lady in order to get married. She met this woman – her boyfriend was killed in a car accident. My mother invited them both over for coffee. They hit it off. They eventually married, had two children and were lived happily ever after. The added touch was that this gentleman bought my Mom an expensive dress to say, “Thank you”. Wasn’t that sweet? 

Good: The story in the movie titled, “Sleepless in Seattle” is a fix-up story, with a twist: little boy goes looking for a girl for his Dad, finds her, brings them together and everyone lives happily ever after.

Not Good Enough: I had a fix-up. He called me every night for a week. We then went on our first date. He was really a good guy screwed on straight. He was a perfect gentleman… a really nice guy. But alas, the chemistry was not there. I had no interest. Afterwards, he called one night asking to go out again. I gracefully declined.  He said that it will be an honor to stay friends and keep in touch with me. He never called back. My friends said that he was really broken up about this.

Bad #1: I remember one in particular. At first, he seemed polite and well-educated. But he showed himself to discriminate, being critical of other national origins. He was very rude,  I was completely taken aback … I did not expect it.  I recognized that he was an idiot… In a half hour, it was over and I walked away…good riddance!

Bad #2: Here’s another. A woman co-worker was trying to find a mate for her daughter. She went beyond matchmaking – she put an ad in a newspaper!  We would hear her screening the potential dates.  You see the phone number in the ad was not her daughter’s, but the mother`s at work.  Apparently, she found a date for her daughter.  As we heard later, the young man came to the door for her daughter and made a racial remark about her next door neighbor.  He then took the daughter to McDonald’s and told her that she would have to pay her own way that evening.  Needless to say, the date ended early.  P.S. We were very entertained with this woman’s dating stories of her daughter.

Bad #3:  He was rich and I was set up by a mutual acquaintance. He wanted to know what I did for a living” He said:  “You are a real beauty.”  He was full of himself. He was aggressive. He spoke of his family. Later, he drove to a lovers’ lane spot. He tried to kiss me. My body language said: “I don’t think so ” I also said: “I don’t know you …it’s the first date ” After this misstep, he then asked if he could see me again. I said: “No.”

Ugly: I was lucky…I personally did not experience anything real ugly. But I did some research. Here are a few that I found. There once was a  girl who chewed with her mouth open. Her date saw much too much. Or did you hear of the guy who flirted with the waitress with his date beside him.  And then there was the fellow who drank so much ….wait for it….that he had to call his mother in the middle of the meal to come pick him up from the restaurant. Indeed, there are some real horror stories out there.

THE AUTHOR: Jeff Nagel 

Jeff Nagel is a New York business man. He is exploring the world of blind dates, searching the perfect date. He has credibility from impressive statistics: 137 blind dates in 16 states in the U.S. and overseas.

SERIES/COLLECTION

 Books/Articles:

 1989 – The Blind Date Survival Guide a Practical and Funny Guide to Meeting the Person of Your Dreams [Well, Practically Funny] (Paperback) 

 THE BOOK:  The Blind Date Survival Guide: A Practical and Funny [Paperback] – Jeff Nagel (Author), Jessica Robison (Illustrator)

Nagel has some words of advice. He sees the blind dating as a process. He has techniques – he takes you step-by-step sharing with you many  He answers the earth shaking questions: (a) “How to avoid the good night kiss.” (b) “Why meeting for dinner is the worst choice for a blind date?” (c) “Why you should never eat lobster on a blind date?” (d) “Why grandparents are the worst people to get names from?” (e) “Why health clubs are terrible places to meet people?” He also thinks that blind dates can be funny. It’s a book – it`s seems light, but I think that more information is always beneficial. 

 CONCLUSION

Sometime in our lives, most of us have had a date not to write home about. Most people can personally relate to these stories even the weird ones-

Personal Comments

I say:

  • The risk of a bad date is always there…but you never know if it will be the start of something beautiful. And you might even have a great time.
  • If you’re on a blind date and it’s not going well, end the evening as early as you can.
  • I agree with my Mom. She used to say: “A person has to eat a ton of salt with a man before you know what he’s all about.”  The meaning is that it takes a life time to really know a person.

 The Point

 It’s correct to say that you cannot succeed unless you try. This applies to blind dating.

ANTOINETTE’S TIP SHEET* 

A single should:  

1.      Say to family, friends and acquaintances: “Find me a match!” (Add:  “I won’t be mad if it doesn’t work out.”  This is important as most people need a push, not wanting any flack, prefering not to get involved.    

2.      Get as much information as you can about your blind date. 

3.      Go in with no expectations 

4.      Dress appropriately – first impressions are important 

5.      Go with a positive attitude.   

6.      Be yourself 

7.      Be honest 

8.      Be careful; to this end,  

a.       Drive yourself  

b.      Meet at a public place 

c.       Drink as little alcohol as possible 

d.      Keep your wits about you  

e.       Go with your instincts – if your date doesn’t look or act right, make an excuse and get out of there without delay.   

9.      Start the conversation on what you know about the person and go from there.   

10.  Try to get to know the person.   

11.  Listen to the person  

12.  Take it really SLOW if it gets romantic.  

Tell me about the date of your lifetime that ended with marriage…or, tell me about the unsuccessful date that became one of your funny stories of lifetime experiences. Either way, I want to hear about it.   

And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*
Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
ALP
“Books are life; and they make life better!*”
P.S. Big News: There are big changes coming to my blog – Please stay tuned.
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P.P.S. #3 I am on Linkedin. Consider becoming a connection? Visit  www.linkedin.com – Antoinette La Posta
*TM/© 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved.
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ANNEX I: NEED SOMETHING FURTHER? TRY AN ANECDOTE OR A QUOTE:

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #1: Rebecca Romijn-Stamos: Hello!!
“Lucky lads who dated Rebecca Romijn-Stamos in high-school were often bemused by her father’s efforts to put them at ease. “When they used to pick me up,” she once “ (Source:  Anecdotage) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=238)

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #2: 20 / 20 Vision?
“At a state banquet one day, Mrs. Sargent Shriver, the wife of the US ambassador to France, found herself seated beside French president Charles de Gaulle.

Such was her affection for the man that, as the meal drew to a close, she remarked, “Mr. President, I only regret that you’re not twenty years younger and that I’m not twenty years younger.”

Some time later, Mrs. Shriver casually repeated the remark to Mme de Gaulle. “Ah, yes, Mrs. Shriver,” (Source:  Anecdotage) - http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=677)

 S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #3: Frankly Brilliant
“After the death of his wife in the early 1770s, Benjamin Franklin considered marrying the attractive widow of the famous philosopher Helvetius.

One day, after a long period during which his other commitments had prevented him from seeing her, she chided him for not having visited sooner. “Madam,” Franklin wisely replied, “I am waiting until the nights are longer.” (Source:  Anecdotage) - http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=11036)

S & R* QUOTE #1: Dr. Seuss

“We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.” (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/love/)

 S & R* QUOTE #2: Katharine Hepburn

“Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then.”

 (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/love/index15.html)

 S & R* QUOTE #3: – Lily Tomlin

“If love is the answer, could you rephrase the question?”

(Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/love/index18.html)

 ANNEX II
SCHEDULE I
“IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
“For today, my word/phrase(s) are:  “dating”;

Dating

Dating, a form of courtship which may include any social activity undertaken by, typically, two persons with the aim of assessing each other’s suitability as a partner.”  (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dating)

SCHEDULE II
STUDY/STATISTICS

SCHEDULE III
S & R* NEWS ALERT* #1:
How to grow together after the wedding by Melissa Wallace

“Planning a wedding was tough enough with differing opinions, an endless to-do list, and playing peacemaker with various family members. Now that the big day is over and you and your sweetie can finally catch your breath, you may be wondering how to make the most of the months ahead to get your marriage off to a great start.

Date night. Romanticism can get thrown out the window when you’re suddenly dealing with double the load of laundry and dirty dishes. Go on a date with your spouse at least once a week to regroup and keep that fire going.

Share a hobby. You and your spouse may already have a sport or activity you both enjoy, but if you don’t, consider looking into your community centre listings and try something new. You may discover a new love for dance, ultimate Frisbee, or wine tasting.

Appreciate each other. Say thank you often and avoid brewing resentment. Just make sure you mean it. Your spouse knows when you’re being genuine and when you’re being fake. Note: apply the same to the words, I’m sorry.

Go out with friends. Don’t forget about all the people who kept you sane the weeks before your wedding and took on your stress to give you your perfect day. Your friends will be ecstatic to see a calmer version of their friend again.

Give of yourselves. Love is a wonderful thing and it should be shared with those who don’t often feel it. Consider donating your time to volunteer at a soup kitchen or share your talents at a seniors home. Or sponsor a child through an international development organization like Christian Children’s Fund of Canada. Through sponsorship, you and your spouse can write letters to a child living in poverty to show that you care.”www.newscanada.com

S & R* NEWS ALERT* #2: Want your partner to pop the question? Fix your finances first

“There’s no denying it: wedding season is in full bloom. But if you want your own happily ever after in the near future, you may want to check your personal finances first. According to a recent poll from TD Canada Trust, 77% of Canadians say they would not marry someone who was bad at managing their personal finances or if they held excessive debt.

TD Canada Trust offers advice to Canadians in relationships who are ready to take the next step:

Honesty is the best policy: Being open and honest is an important part of establishing a healthy financial foundation. If you’re saving for a down payment on a home but your partner is thinking about their next spending spree, you might be headed for some challenges. Although it can be difficult to open up about your finances, doing so can prevent big headaches down the road.

Create a plan, together: Once you’ve discussed what both parties bring to the table financially, make a plan of action, together. There can be benefits to pooling your assets, like helping each other service existing debts or lowering your household’s overall tax burden. Speak with a financial advisor who can help you create a tailored plan that works for both of you.

Retain some financial independence: While it can be worthwhile to combine finances, it is important to have individual financial goals outside of those you have as a couple. For instance, having a credit card and bills in your own name that you pay back in full and on time will help build your personal credit rating. Similarly, saving regularly through contributions from your paycheque into a Tax Free Savings Account (TFSA) or your RRSP will help you build a healthy nest egg for your future together.” www.newscanada.com

*TM/© 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved

 

 

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“BEYOND ONLINE, THERE IS ALSO A BLIND DATE: I CONSIDER THE IDEA, SUCCESS RATE, TIPS, STORIES, ETC.*”

 Vol. 3, No. 4, Monday, April 30th 2012 

TITLE: “BEYOND ONLINE, THERE IS ALSO A BLIND DATE:  I consider the  idea, success rate,tips, stories, etc.*” 

INTRODUCTION

This week, I will continue on with my romance theme … looking at the ‘fix-up’. The usual reaction to this phrase is to turn your nose up in the air as if you are smelling rotten eggs and to utter the exclamation, “Uggghh”. However, this is what everyone really wants, but no one will admit it. I say: “Let’s take the blind date out of the shadows!”  My book of the week is “The Blind Date Guide to Dating” [Paperback] by Frank Thompson (Author). (Editor’s Note: This is another post in a continuing series on dating, relationships and marriage.) 

PREVIEW: Next week, I will continue on with my romance theme, then further looking at the ‘blind date’ -the stories: …the good, the bad and …..the ugly. (Editor’s Note: This is another post in a continuing series on dating, relationships and marriage.) 

 MY LIFE & TIMES*

I have personally experienced the ‘blind date’. 

I was a” blind dater” during my single days. I was always very appreciative.  My friends set me up on blind dates several times. Knowing both people, they thought there was a possibility of a connection and perhaps even a relationship set-to-happen. On the other hand, if the date doesn’t work out, so be it … there was no obligation to continue. 

I have also been a “fixer-upper” – I have played matchmaker. A number of years ago, I arranged for a young lady in my office and a young man, who worked for the same institution, to meet.  I was asked to accompany them for lunch.  I noticed sparks between them.  She confessed to me that she was interested, but he never followed up.  She eventually found another job and left.  I ran into him one day and I asked him why he didn’t call the young lady.  His answer was that he was interested, but he didn’t know why he didn’t call her.  He explained that it was the story of his life.  How sad!  He had missed a change of possibly being with someone, with whom, he might have had a relationship. His insecurities got in the way.

I also recall that my mother arranged a blind date for a friend.  The couple married and the marriage was successful. 

Do I approve of arranging or accepting an offer for a blind date?  I definitely do. I encourage my daughter to accept when the opportunity arises. You never know. 

 THE AUTHOR: Frank Thompson

Frank Thompson is an author – 30 books to his credit; he is also a filmmaker and a film historian.  He lives in North Hollywood, California. More to the point, Thompson has been a writer for the real-life TV show called “Blind Date”. 

 SERIES/COLLECTION
Books/Articles:

Some of his books are:

 Tim Burton’s Nightmare Before Christmas: The Film-The Art-The Vision

THE BOOK:  The Blind Date Guide toDating [Paperback] by Frank Thompson

This LITTLE book is a byproduct of the program. It is part HOW-TO and part joke book. It could help daters lighten up and possibly provide ideas for a clever witticism to roll out on the date-to-come.  Read it – you might learn something and have a laugh or two.    

 CONCLUSION

Opinions are divided when it comes to blind dates. Many say that they want it. Others emphatically say, NO! But everyone has thought about it. If single, so should you.

 Personal Comments

 I say:

  • This is the  part of matchmaking … the oldest set up way – today it is called the blind date.
  • The goal of the matchmaker, most times female, is to help two eligible singles to meet and ultimately make a perfect couple. 
  • Often times, the person arranging the blind date knows the two people and thinks that there could be a match. But there is a risk of being blamed if the date goes wrong.
  • If the two people have nothing in common, chances are it won’t work.  But then again, it’s a question of chemistry.  
  • For the daters, a blind date is an adventure. It’s a no brainer. There is an element of surprise to it. First, getting to know a stranger could be exciting. In addition, keep in mind,  that on this date, there is a possibility of meeting new people, one leading to the person of your dreams. 
  • Yes, it’s taking a chance. 

o       There is a risk that it could be a long, boring evening, but, on the other side of the coin, it could be a very pleasant evening.

o       Remember, if the blind date doesn’t work, there is no commitment to continue.

o       The opportunity far outweighs the inconvenience of a disaster night. A blind date could be a dud; but on the other hand, it could be the start of something very good.   

o       A blind date could be a life changer. 

  • No longer single, I wholeheartedly encourage you

The Point

 If single, consider a blind date.

 ANTOINETTE’S TIP SHEET*

A single should:

 1.      Say to family, friends and acquaintances: “Find me a match!” (Add:  “I won’t be mad if it doesn’t work out.”  This is important as most people need a push, not wanting any flack, prefering not to get involved.  

 2.      Get as much information as you can about your blind date.

 3.      Go in with no expectations

 4.      Dress appropriately – first impressions are important

 5.      Go with a positive attitude 

 6.      Be yourself

 7.      Be honest

 8.      Be careful; to this end,

 a.       Drive yourself

 b.      Meet at a public place

 c.       Drink as little alcohol as possible

 d.      Keep your wits about you

 e.       Go with your instincts – if your date doesn’t look or act right, make an excuse and get out of there without delay. 

 9.      Start the conversation off with what you know about the person and go from there. 

 10.  Try to get to know the person. 

 11.  Listen to the person

 12.  Take it really SLOW if it gets romantic.

Tell me about the date of your lifetime that ended with marriage … or, tell me about the unsuccessful date that became one of your funny stories of lifetime experiences. Either way, I want to hear about it. 

And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*
Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
ALP
“Books are life; and they make life better!*”
P.S. Big News: There are big changes coming to my blog – Please stay tuned.
P.P.S. #1 I have a TWITTER page. Consider becoming a follower? Visit www.twitter.com -   saveandread
P.P.S. #2 I also have a FACEBOOK page. Consider becoming a friend? Visit: www.facebook.com – Alp Save Andread – please check it out.
P.P.S. #3 I am on Linkedin. Consider becoming a connection? Visit  www.linkedin.com – Antoinette La Posta
*TM/© 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved.
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 ANNEX I: NEED SOMETHING FURTHER? TRY AN ANECDOTE OR A QUOTE:

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #1: Wendy Liebman – Blind Dates
“Wendy Liebman was often set up by her friends on blind dates, with mixed results. “I’ve been on so many blind dates,” she once exclaimed, “I should get a free dog!” 

(Source: Anecdotage.com) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=2046)

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #2: Rebecca Romijn-Stamos: Hello!!

“Lucky lads who dated Rebecca Romijn-Stamos in high-school were often bemused by her father’s efforts to put them at ease. “When they used to pick me up,” she once recalled, “Dad would open the front door… completely naked.” (Source: Anecdotage.com) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=238)

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #3:  Going Deaf
“One day in April 2003, Jay Leno learned that Bill Clinton was said to be going deaf. “I thought he was going blind,” Leno remarked. “Have you seen the women he was dating!?”  (Source: Anecdotage.com) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=11928) 

S & R* QUOTE #1: Washington Irving 

“Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.”

(Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/love/index10.html)

S & R* QUOTE #2:  Jimi Hendrix 

“When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace.”

(Source: Wisdom Quotes) -  http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/love/index12.html)

S & R* QUOTE #3: Mary Parrish

“Love vanquishes time. To lovers, a moment can be eternity, eternity can be the tick of a clock.”

 (Source: Wisdom Quotes) - http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/love/index12.html)

ANNEX II
SCHEDULE I
“IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
“For today, my word/phrase(s) are:  “blind dates”; “dating”; “”

Blind date

“A “blind date” is a date between two people who have not previously met.”

(Source: Wikipedia, the Free Encyclopedia)- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blind_date) 

Dating is a form of courtship consisting of social activities done by two persons with the aim of each assessing the other’s suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse.” (Source: Wikipedia, the Free Encyclopedia)- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dating)

SCHEDULE II
STUDY/STATISTICS:

“Friends remain an excellent way for people to meet people, according to sociologist Edward Laumann of the University of Chicago, who wrote that “A real person––whatever his relationship to you, be it friend or kinsman or co-worker––is still far and away the most reliable kind of way to meet someone.”[142] However, the Internet promises to overtake friends in the future, if present trends continue, according to an article in USA Today.[47][142] A friend can introduce two people who don’t know each other, and the friend may play matchmaker and send them on a blind date. In The Guardian, British writer Hannah Pool was cynical about being set up on a blind date; she was told “basically he’s you but in a male form” by the mutual friend.[143] She googled her blind date’s name along with the words “wife” and “girlfriend” and “partner” and “boyfriend” to see whether her prospective date was in any kind of relationship or gay; he wasn’t any of these things.[143] She met him for coffee in London and she now lives with him, sharing a home and business.[143] When friends introduce two people who don’t know each other, it’s often called a blind date.

People can meet other people on their own or the get-together can be arranged by someone else.  Matchmaking is an art based entirely on hunches, since it is impossible to predict with certainty whether two people will like each other or not.  One matchmaker advised it was good to match “brains as well as beauty” and try to find people with similar religious and political viewpoints and thinks that like-minded people result in more matches, although acknowledging that opposites sometimes attract.[141] “ (Source: Wikipedia, the Free Encyclopedia)- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dating) 

SCHEDULE III
S & R* NEWS ALERT* #1: How to grow together after the wedding By Melissa Wallace

“Planning a wedding was tough enough with differing opinions, an endless to-do list, and playing peacemaker with various family members. Now that the big day is over and you and your sweetie can finally catch your breath, you may be wondering how to make the most of the months ahead to get your marriage off to a great start.

Date night. Romanticism can get thrown out the window when you’re suddenly dealing with double the load of laundry and dirty dishes. Go on a date with your spouse at least once a week to regroup and keep that fire going.

Share a hobby. You and your spouse may already have a sport or activity you both enjoy, but if you don’t, consider looking into your community centre listings and try something new. You may discover a new love for dance, ultimate Frisbee, or wine tasting.

Appreciate each other. Say thank you often and avoid brewing resentment. Just make sure you mean it. Your spouse knows when you’re being genuine and when you’re being fake. Note: apply the same to the words, I’m sorry.

Go out with friends. Don’t forget about all the people who kept you sane the weeks before your wedding and took on your stress to give you your perfect day. Your friends will be ecstatic to see a calmer version of their friend again.

Give of yourselves. Love is a wonderful thing and it should be shared with those who don’t often feel it. Consider donating your time to volunteer at a soup kitchen or share your talents at a seniors home. Or sponsor a child through an international development organization like Christian Children’s Fund of Canada. Through sponsorship, you and your spouse can write letters to a child living in poverty to show that you care.” www.newscanada.com

S & R* NEWS ALERT* #2: How to find your one and only By Maja Begovic

“We all want to find the person we are meant to be with. That special someone we are totally enamored by, connected to, and head-over-heels in love with. Just in time for a fresh start this Valentine’s Day, here are some pearls of wisdom that may eventually help bring you and your beloved together: 

Believe in your soul mate and be patient

Fate doesn’t work on a schedule. Your soul mate might cross your path when you’re eight or 80 years old. If you can believe in love even when life doesn’t seem to be taking you in that direction you’re already halfway there.

Make yourself a better person

Next, begin the process of self-improvement. Be the type of person people fall in love with. If you think you need a better job or education, go back to school. If you want to improve your health, go to the gym and get in shape. If you want to expand your horizons, then begin to volunteer or get involved with a non-profit organization like Christian Children’s Fund of Canada (www.ccfcanada.ca) and see how improving the lives of people living in poverty can help bring new perspective into your own life.

Don’t hate being single

Honour the state of not yet having a mate. Enjoy your life, go out with friends, and pursue paths of self-improvement. Spend time fine-tuning skills, nurturing interests, and having adventures. Study, take courses, and do things that help you grow personally, spiritually, and professionally. Live fully and stay open. Love may not be far behind.

How will I know when I do find my soul mate?

Your soul mate will be a person you will feel a very strong and passionate connection with, as well as an old connection. In other words, you will feel as if you have known the person for a long time, even though you may have just met him or her recently. Even in moments of doubt and fear, open your arms to love. Know that every step you take in the direction of love will bring your true love closer to you.” www.newscanada.com

*TM/© 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved

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BEYOND ONLINE – THERE IS SPEED DATING: I consider the questions, rules, game, success rate, tips!*

Vol. 3 , No. 3, Monday, April 23rd, 2012

TITLE: “BEYOND ONLINE – THERE IS SPEED DATING: I consider the questions, rules, game, success rate, tips!*”

INTRODUCTION

With spring in your step and romance in the air, I will talk about speed dating.  Can you find love at a speed dating event?  Apparently, some people do. My book of the week is “Surviving Internet and Speed Dating [Paperback]  by Joanne Schoenwald (Author) My topic is then dating of the speedy kind. I was thinking maybe some of you out there in Internetland are wondering what this is all about. If with an inquiring mind, stay put and I will give you a fast one …two. (Editor’s Note: This is another post in a continuing series on dating, relationships and marriage.)

PREVIEW (April 29-30, 2012):

Next week, I will continue on with my romance theme, then turning my attention to the fix-up. The usual reaction to this phrase is to turn your nose up in the air as if you are smelling rotten eggs and to utter the exclamation, “Uggghh”. However, this is what everyone really wants, but no one will admit it. I say: “Let’s take the blind date out of the shadows!” (Editor’s Note: This is another post in a continuing series on dating, relationships and marriage.)

MY LIFE & TIMES*

Although I was not against speed dating, I never went to an event.  My friends had participated on numerous occasions, but none found possible suitors.  On the contrary, they complained that the men who they met there were insincere and just wanted a good time. But I have done some research.

THE AUTHOR: Joanne Schoenwald

Joanne Schoenwald has worn many hats: teacher, massage therapist, office administrator, editor.  Now, she works as a holistic practitioner and workshop facilitator. Schoenwald writes fiction and non-fiction books.  She has a passion for nature animals, funny movies, good books and strawberry daiquiris.  She lives with her husband in Blackbutt, south-east Queensland, Australia. She is the founder and President of Charlie’s Angels Horse Rescue Inc.

SERIES/COLLECTION

Some of Joanne’s more notable achievements and publications:

  • Our Miracle Foal, published in the Spring 2011 issue of Equine News.
  • Top 10 finalist for the 2011 Finch Memoir Prize for the manuscript, Webs of Light, an account of Joanne’s 16 years spent with her horse and the way he changed her life.
  • Self-published Woodford Virgins, novel, on Lulu.com, 2011.
  • Horses as Lawnmowers, June 2010, featured in The Horse Report.
  • Shortlisted for the Text Publishing Prize for Young Adult and Children’s writing for her manuscript Wildfire 2009
  • The Power of the Positive (Writing Queensland, February 2009).
  • Winner 2007 One Book Many Brisbanes short story award for Not in Mitchelton
  • Australia’s Invaders 1 and 2 (high school resource books, Knowledge Books and Software, 2007)
  • Elephant’s Way (feature article, Australia’s Nova magazine, May 2008)
  • Daisy Philosophy 101: Canine Advice for Living Each Moment (feature article, Spheres magazine, May 2008)
  • My Life as a Technical Writer (feature article, Writing Queensland, October 2007)
  • Baby Love (feature article on aromatherapy, Affair magazine, September 2007)
  • Unleashed (anthology containing my winning short story, EmptyRedbubble 2007)
  • In the Moment (anthology containing my winning poem, Summer Afternoon Walk, Redbubble, 2008)
  • Eight book reviews (“Between the Covers”) for The Westerner newspaper, 2007
  • Sing the Rain (short story, Coppertales, USQ journal of rural arts, 2001 as ‘Joanne Hunter’)
  • Darkness Leering (short story, dotlit, QUT online journal, 2001 as ‘Joanne Jackson’)
  • Shortlisted for State Library of Queensland’s Young Writers Award for Carriage Hopping, 2001
  • Shortlisted for the Tourism Queensland Cultural Tourism Award for Young Australian Writers for A Spirit of Fire, 2000 

Books/Articles:

·         Surviving Internet and Speed Dating by Joanne Schoenwald (Paperback - Jan 1 2008)

THE BOOK: Surviving Internet and Speed Dating by Joanne Schoenwald

Internet is one means to find your soul mate. Speed dating is another. This author gives  you a dose of reality plus hints and tips simply said. Go for it!

THE FACTS

What is it? It is a singles’ event held in restaurant or hall, where tables are set up as stations, with one woman seated at each table and men circulate from table-to-table staying 3-10+- minutes with each woman.

Who are the attendees? Speed dating is very popular with young people. 

What are the benefits? Several are:

  • There is no guessing game with speed dating.  People are there looking for romance, probably to select a mate.
  • If your goal is to meet a number of potential suitors in a short time span, this is the way! It is a quick solution to dating … short and sweet with each candidate.
  • The “date” is short and brief.  This could be a blessing if you find the person dull and boring. 

What is the cost? Usually a bit pricy but really depending on whether there is a hall, meal, etc.

CONCLUSION

In this fast-paced world, speed dating is another way to find your future one and only. 

Personal Comments

 I say:

  • It is a priority for many to search for someone special. It can get lonely. I know … been there … done that.
  • If you’re always on the run and don’t have time to mingle and socialize, speed dating is a good way to go. 
  • Does speed dating work?  There is a possibility that it could work, but then again, it could also fail.  
  • Some feel that attendees are desperate and lacking. I do not agree.
  • For those who go to speed dating events, both men and women, their first requisites for a mate is physical attraction.
  • Next, it is what they say and how they carry themselves.
  • Considering that a person makes a decision in the first 30 seconds, a mere 3-8 minutes could be very stressful. 

 The Point

 The more events that you attend, regardless the kind, the better the chances of meeting the match you’re looking for.  

ANTOINETTE’S TIP SHEET*

 Everyone should:

  1. Be open-minded
  2. Be realistic

Advance Preparations 

3.      Prepare some intellect questions before going to a speed dating event. Don’t appear tongue-tied, nervous or quiet.  This could be an instant turn-off.

4.      Dress appropriately

At the event

5.      Be confident

6.      Be positive

7.      Show a sense of humor

8.      Smile

9.      Be on the ball every second to make a good impression.

10.  Go with your gut feeling

If you’re not interested in a date, how about a fig? Seriously though, even if you don’t find him or her there that night, you might find out something about yourself … you might even enjoy an evening out and have some laughs. What are you waiting for?

And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*
Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
ALP
“Books are life; and they make life better!*”
P.S. Big News: There are big changes coming to my blog – Please stay tuned.
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P.P.S. #3 I am on Linkedin. Consider becoming a connection? Visit  www.linkedin.com – Antoinette La Posta
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ANNEX I: NEED SOMETHING FURTHER? TRY AN ANECDOTE OR A QUOTE:

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #1: Bachelor Blooper

“On the way to a star-studded function in Los Angeles one day, Drew Carey found himself in a limousine with several other celebrities, among them Jim Belushi, who asked him about his show’s move to a Monday night time slot (after NFL football). Carey explained that the hit reality dating show “The Bachelor” had assumed his old Wednesday night slot. Then he went off on a rant: “Can you believe this guy?” Carey fumed. “25 women to choose from – some of them educated – and he chooses the two blondes with the biggest tits! One he slept with1, one he didn’t.. and of course, he picked the one who slept with2 him…”

At last a man sitting beside him interjected: “Actually, that’s not how it happened at all.” Carey, never one to back down from an argument, disagreed – until the man’s identity became embarrassingly apparent. It was the bachelor!”(Source: Anecdotage) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=6217)

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #2: Double Date
“Burgess Meredith once found himself on a regrettable date with the actress Dorris Bowdon. Though the evening (actually a double date with Mary Healy and Franchot Tone) was pleasant enough, Bowdon spent the entire time singing the praises of the witty screenwriter Nunnally Johnson, whom she had met (and incessantly flirted with) during the shooting of The Grapes of Wrath (1940). At last Burgess took her home. Instead of kissing her, however, he simply offered a word of advice: “Get thee to a Nunnally!”

(Source: Anecdotage) –  http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=14402)

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #3: Date with Destiny?
“On April 11, 1917, Soviet leader Vladimir Ilyich Lenin called the U.S. consul in Switzerland and spoke with Allen Dulles (then a junior diplomat). Russia, Lenin explained, was contemplating withdrawing from World War I and signing a treaty with the Germans.

Dulles, who had a big date that evening, asked Lenin to call back in the morning, when the office officially re-opened. Incredibly, Lenin’s message was never delivered to Washington…(Source: Anecdotage) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=5377)

S & R* QUOTE #1: – Franklin P. Jones

“Love doesn’t make the world go ’round; love is what makes the ride worthwhile.”

(Source: Wisdom Quotes) –  http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/love/)

S & R* QUOTE #2: Peace Pilgrim

“Pure love is a willingness to give without a thought of receiving anything in return.”

(Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/love/)

 S & R* QUOTE #3: Sam Keen

“Love isn’t finding a perfect person. It’s seeing an imperfect person perfectly.”

(Source: Wisdom Quotes) –  http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/love/)

ANNEX II
SCHEDULE I
“IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
“For today, my word/phrase(s) are:  “speed dating”; “matchmaking”; “arranged marriage”

Speed dating is a formalized matchmaking process or dating system whose purpose is to encourage people to meet a large number of new people.

Matchmaking is the process of matching two people together, usually for the purpose of marriage, but the word is also used in the context of sporting events, such as boxing, and in business.

An arranged marriage is a practice in which someone other than the couple getting married makes the selection of the persons to be wed, meanwhile curtailing or avoiding the process of courtship.

(Source: Wikipedia, the Free Encyclopedia)-  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arranged_marriage)

SCHEDULE II
STUDY/STATISTICS:

“Its origins are credited to Rabbi Yaacov Deyo of Aish HaTorah, originally as a way to help Jewish singles meet and marry.[1][2][3] “SpeedDating”, as a single word, is a registered trademark of Aish HaTorah. “Speed dating”, as two separate words, is often used as a generic term for similar events.

The first speed-dating event took place at Peet’s Café in Beverly Hills in late 1998.[1]

Men and women are rotated to meet each other over a series of short “dates”, usually lasting from 3 to 8 minutes depending on the organization running the event. At the end of each interval, the organizer rings a bell, clinks a glass, or blows a whistle to signal the participants to move on to the next date. At the end of the event participants submit to the organizers a list of who they would like to provide their contact information to. If there is a match, contact information is forwarded to both parties. Contact information cannot be traded during the initial meeting, in order to reduce pressure to accept or reject a suitor to his or her face.

Unlike many bars, a speed dating event will, by necessity, be quiet enough for people to talk comfortably. Speed dating is for singles.

There are many speed dating events now in the United Kingdom, Canada, and the United States.

A 2006 study in Edinburgh, Scotland showed that 45% of the women participants in a speed-dating event and 22% of the men had come to a decision within the first 30 seconds. It also found that dialogue concerning travel resulted in more matches than dialogue about films.[8]

A 2006 study at the University of Essex and the IZA in Bonn [13] into the relative effects of preference versus opportunity in mate selection showed, while concluding that opportunity was more important than preference, that a woman’s age is the single most important factor determining demand by men. Although less important than it is to men, age is still a highly significant factor determining demand by women.

The same study found that a man’s height had a significant impact upon his desirability, with a reduction in height causing a decrease in desirability at the rate of 5% per inch.”

(Source: Wikipedia, the Free Encyclopedia)-   http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Speed_dating)

SCHEDULE III
S & R* NEWS ALERT* #1: 5 Smart ways to improve your relationship by Maja Begovic

“Whether you’re dating or have been happily married for years, here are five simple ways to make your relationship even better, no matter where you are in your romantic journey.

Recognize what’s important to your partner. Knowing what is truly important to your partner can go a long way towards building goodwill and an atmosphere of compromise. On the flip side, it’s also important for your partner to recognize your wants and for you to state them clearly. Constantly giving to others at the expense of your own needs builds resentment and anger.

Keeping outside relationships and interests alive. No one person can meet all of our needs, and expecting too much from someone can put a lot of unhealthy pressure on a relationship. Having friends and outside interests not only strengthens your social network, but brings new insights and stimulation to the relationship, too.

Change it up. Act out of character you can easily get into ruts. If you find that you are repeating patterns, step back and break it up. Be somewhat still unknown to each other. We are hardwired as humans to like mystery and be intrigued by it. There is an excitement that comes from anticipating and not knowing.

Find something you enjoy doing together. It can be a shared hobby, a dance class, a daily walk or volunteering. Doing service moves you out of yourself and your own problems and supports a broader, more spiritual view of life. Get involved with a local organization like Christian Children’s Fund of Canada (www.ccfcanada.ca) and help improve the lives of children and families living in poverty around the world.

Connect as a couple and rekindle love. Relationships need time to thrive. It is vitally important to set aside specific times to be together. Commit to spending quality time together on a regular basis. Even during very busy and stressful times, a few minutes of sharing and connecting can help keep bonds strong.

Relationships are an investment. The more you put in, the more you get back.” www.newscanada.com

S & R* NEWS ALERT* #2: Romance report confirms we’re never too old for love

“Seniors are setting the record straight: love and romance aren’t just for the young. In fact, seven in 10 seniors over the age of 75 say they’re never too old for love.

This is one of the key findings of the Revera Report on Romance, which surveyed older adults aged 75+, Boomers and Gen Yers, to find out about their expectations and experiences with social interaction as they age including love, romance and companionship.

The Report found:

Only 38 per cent of Boomers and Gen Yers believe love and romance will still be very important when they are over 75, compared to 88 per cent of seniors who say companionship is something they couldn’t do without.

Just as many seniors have romantic partners as 18 to 30 year olds (approximately 50 per cent for each group).

Senior men place higher importance on love and romance, with 83 per cent saying it’s important, compared to just 56 per cent of senior women.

Seniors’ positive outlook on love and romance is encouraging to see because they are both important aspects of social interaction, says Dr. Amy D’Aprix, gerontologist and an expert on aging. What many people don’t know is that remaining socially active can have a significant impact on your physical health, such as reducing your risk of developing dementia and Alzheimer’s disease. It’s also been shown to have a comparable impact on mortality as smoking and alcohol, and of course, there’s no question that it also contributes to happiness and emotional health.

Seniors themselves recognize that social interaction and having meaningful relationships can make all the difference when it comes aging. In fact, 98 per cent of seniors believe that keeping socially active is just as important to successful aging as good physical health.

A number of seniors share their stories and thoughts about love at www.reveraliving.com.” www.newscanada.com

*TM/© 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved

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EARTH DAY EVENTS, ACTIVITIES: I have some ideas – it is a resource!* (Volume #2 – I want to save the earth!*)

No. 3, Vol. 2, Monday, April 16th, 2012

TITLE: “EARTH DAY EVENTS, ACTIVITIES:  I have some ideas – it is a resource!* (Volume #2 – I want to save the earth!*”)

INTRODUCTION

With Earth Day around the corner, I will continue to talk about the earth and what we can do to save the planet.  This is a very important topic.  We have to take it seriously.  My book of the week isSaving Planet Earth” [Hardcover] by Tony Juniper (Author). (Editor’s Note: This is a continuation of my post of last week on the earth and wildlife, also a part of a continuing series on special dates and holidays; it’s also classified as women’s issues.) 

PREVIEW (April 22-23 2012):  

Spring is in the air … love too. I am thus returning to the romance theme. Next week, I will write about speed dating. Don’t be late … it’s going to whoosh by! (Editor’s Note: This is another post in a continuing series on dating, relationships and marriage.)  

MY LIFE & TIMES*

April 22nd is not only Earth Day, but also my daughter’s birthday.

What are we doing to protect our environment?  It’s our duty to improve the state of our planet.  The goal is to bring awareness to everyone in the world and to do everything we can to save our home – Planet Earth. 

Turn to nature:  Every summer my parents planted a vegetable garden.  They grew tomatoes, lettuce, long string beans, parsley, basil, etc.  They insisted that home-grown vegetables tasted better and were healthier for you.  I must admit, the vegetables from their garden were delicious.  My aunt also grew her own vegetables.  It’s hard work to maintain a garden. In my old life, we always had a garden.  I’ll confess -  I didn’t plant or work it much, but it was a treat to reap the crops. This year, we are planning to plant some seeds – I’ll let you know how it goes for this city girl.

I have asthma – I am very careful of the cleaning products I use. Using environmental-friendly products is advantageous healthwise and also to help the earth.

Use less: Conservation means using less of everthing that we consume. In my city, there has been a lot of talk concerning the installation of meters for water consumption in areas where there are none. I already have one in my house and if I go over a certain consumption of water, there is a surplus charge for excess water consumption.  This reminds me not to waste water.

Environmental studies is now hot in schools.   The educational institute where I worked had one.  It had become a very popular program with students. 

THE AUTHOR: Tony Juniper

Tony Juniper, a naturalist and ornithologist, is deeply committed to the environment. He has been front and centre for more than 20 years.  Juniper is director of Friends of the Earth and vice chair of Friends of the Earth International.  He lives in England.

SERIES/COLLECTION
Books/Articles:

Several are:

THE BOOK: “Saving Planet Earth” [Hardcover] by Tony Juniper (Author)

Juniper calls attention to the issue of the condition of the Earth. He clarifies how man is destroying the planet. There is no doubt that it is in danger and that it was caused by the actions or non-action of  human beings.  We need to understand the consequences of our actions.We must figure out how we can help. We must stop doing harm and find alternatives. As well, we need to undo the damages already done.   The book illustrates advice and solutions on how to reverse dangerous trends.  This book gives us the knowledge on how to protect Earth for the next generation!.

CONCLUSION:

Our planet is in danger….our planet is in danger. It’s so important that I can say it twice. We need to act now!

Personal Comments

One huge problem is Global warming. IT IS A REALITY.   The forecast in the past years has been unpredictable.  But we now know that the rate of warming is slowly increasing.  We have to take this seriously.  It could be the destruction of our world as we know it. Global warming could become a disaster.  With global warming comes rising sea levels and an increase in precipitation.  Our water will probably be affected.  The Arctic is being affected the most.  Evidently, it will disappear.  The rising destruction of our environment is a pressing and urgent cause. 

We have a climate crisis and it is our moral duty to do everything we can to stop and reverse the damage.  Our children deserve to live in a safe environment; and we need to  preserve it for our grandchildren and all those coming later.

The Point

We need to focus on how to save our planet! We need to start the doing yesterday!

ANTOINETTE’S TIP SHEET*

Everyone should:

  1. Recycle everything you can
  2. Use pesticides safely for your garden
  3. Use environmental cleaning products
  4. Dispose medication safely
  5. Use water you need only
  6. Plant a tree
  7. Grow your own vegetables or buy locally
  8. Buy energy-saving appliances
  9. Use public transportation, whenever you can, or try carpool, bike or walk
  10. Litter and I won’t be happy!
  11. Reuse where you can
  12. Buy recycled products whenever possible
  13. Start a green club in your community
  14. Don’t waste energy
  15. Reduce waste you produce

I say: “Let’s clean up. Please pass the broom and dustpan. Can you help me?

And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*
Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
ALP
“Books are life; and they make life better!*”
P.S. Big News: There are big changes coming to my blog – Please stay tuned.
P.P.S. #1 I have a TWITTER page. Consider becoming a follower? Visit www.twitter.com -   saveandread
P.P.S. #2 I also have a FACEBOOK page. Consider becoming a friend? Visit: www.facebook.com – Alp Save Andread – please check it out.
P.P.S. #3 I am on Linkedin. Consider becoming a connection? Visit  www.linkedin.com – Antoinette La Posta
*TM/© 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved.
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ANNEX I: NEED SOMETHING FURTHER? TRY AN ANECDOTE OR A QUOTE:

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #1: Woody’s Neo-Hippie Hemp Crusade
“In 2002, Woody Harrelson embarked upon a 35-day, 1,000-mile bike tour from Seattle to southern California, escorted by a ‘Mothership’ (a Chicago city transit bus fueled by hemp oil and electrically powered by solar panels) to promote “simple organic living” (whereby one conserves fossil fuels, recycles, and eats organic vegetables). The outspoken vegan and hemp activist, accompanied by a dozen or so equally passionate environmentalists, kicked off the neo-Hippie crusade in mid-April with rallies at several Universities. Two days before Earth Day, some 3,000 people – some waving signs and cheering “Woody for president!” – crowded into an outdoor amphitheater on the Eugene campus of the University of Oregon to cheer him on. Among the signs on hand? EUGENE HAS A WOODY FOR HEMP!” 

(Source: Anecdotage) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=5667)

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #2:Barry Sonnenfeld’s Mother
Men in Black director Barry Sonnenfeld once recalled the trials of growing up as the only child in a stereotypically Jewish family. One of his most embarrassing moments came on April 22, 1970; young Sonnenfeld, attending the first ever Earth Day concert, was horrified to have the proceeds interrupted for an urgent announcement: “Barry Sonnenfeld, call your mother.” 

(Source: Anecdotage) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=6671)

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #3: Nap Time?
“In preparation for their roles in Tim Burton’s Planet of the Apes, cast members were asked to attend several weeks of ‘Ape School,’ where they were taught basic walks and the differences between primates (orangutans have a waddling walk, and they like to hang from things). The most helpful tip for Helena Bonham Carter? “Think of a nappy [a diaper] that was full between your legs,” she advised, “and you didn’t want to spill it!” 

(Source: Anecdotage) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=5654)

S & R* QUOTE #1: M. Scott Peck

“The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers.”

(Source:  Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/)

S & R* QUOTE #2:  Rachel Naomi Remen

The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention…. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.”

(Source:  Wisdom Quotes) -  http://www.wisdomquotes.com/)

S & R* QUOTE #3: Marge Piercy

Never doubt that you can change history. You already have.”

(Source:  Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/)

ANNEX II
SCHEDULE I
“IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
“For today, my word/phrase(s) are:  “Earth Day”; “Planet”; “Global Warming”

Earth Day

While this April 22 Earth Day was focused on the United States, an organization launched by Denis Hayes, who was the original national coordinator in 1970, took it international in 1990 and organized events in 141 nations.[1] Numerous communities celebrate Earth Week, an entire week of activities focused on environmental issues.

Planet

A planet (from Greek πλανήτης αστήρ planētēs astēr “wandering star”) is a celestial body orbiting a star or stellar remnant that is massive enough to be rounded by its own gravity, is not massive enough to cause thermonuclear fusion, and has cleared its neighbouring region of planetesimals.[a][1][2

Global Warming

Global warming is the rising average temperature of Earth's atmosphere and oceans since the late 19th century and its projected continuation. 

SCHEDULE II
STUDY/STATISTICS:

“The April 22, 1970, Earth Day marked the beginning of the modern environmental movement. Approximately 20 million Americans participated. Thousands of colleges and universities organized protests against the deterioration of the environment. Groups that had been fighting against oil spills, polluting factories and power plants, raw sewage, toxic dumps, pesticides, Freeway and expressway revolts, the loss of wilderness, and air pollution suddenly realized they shared common values. 

Gaylord Nelson, a United States Senator from Wisconsin, called for an environmental teach-in, or Earth Day, to be held on April 22, 1970. Over 20 million people participated that year, and this Earth Day is now observed on April 22 each year by more than 500 million people and several national governments in 175 countries.[citation needed] Numerous communities celebrate Earth Week, an entire week of activities focused on environmental issues.

Earth Day proved popular in the United States and around the world. The first April 22 Earth Day had participants and celebrants in two thousand colleges and universities, roughly ten thousand primary and secondary schools, and hundreds of communities across the United States. More importantly, it “brought 20 million Americans out into the spring sunshine for peaceful demonstrations in favor of environmental reform.”[25]

According to Senator Nelson, the moniker “Earth Day” was “an obvious and logical name” suggested by “a number of people” in the fall of 1969, including, he writes, both “a friend of mine who had been in the field of public relations” and “a New York advertising executive,” Julian Koenig.[33] Koenig, who had been on Nelson’s organizing committee in 1969, has said that the idea came to him by the coincidence of his birthday with the day selected, April 22; “Earth Day” rhyming with “birthday,” the connection seemed natural.[34][35]

Senator Nelson chose the date in order to maximize participation on college campuses for what he conceived as an “environmental teach-in”. He determined the week of April 19–25 was the best bet as it did not fall during exams or spring breaks.[48] Moreover, it did not conflict with religious holidays such as Easter or Passover, and was late enough in spring to have decent weather. More students were likely to be in class, and there would be less competition with other mid-week events—so he chose Wednesday, April 22.” 

(Source:  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Earth_Day)

World population is projected to reach 7 billion in 2012, according to the U.S. Census Bureau.

(Source:  U.S. Census Bureau) – http://www.census.gov/newsroom/releases/archives/population/cb08-95.html)

42nd Earth Day: April 22, 2012

April 22, 2012, marks the 42nd anniversary of Earth Day ― a day intended to inspire awareness and appreciation for the Earth’s natural environment. The day came from reaction to a massive oil spill in waters near Santa Barbara, Calif., in 1969. In honor of Earth Day ― and Earth Week (April 16-22)\

(Source:  U.S. Census Bureau) – http://www.census.gov/newsroom/releases/pdf/cb12ff-06_earthday.pdf)

SCHEDULE III
S & R* NEWS ALERT* #1
: Simple steps to care for the planet By Maja Begovic

“Earth Day is a time when millions of people around the world celebrate and renew their personal commitment to environmental stewardship. If you feel you’re not doing enough, it might be time to make a deeper commitment to our planet. Here are a few ideas to put into practice to help save our environment on Earth Day and every day:

Reduce the destructive impact of modern life

Get in the habit of turning off lights, computers and appliances when they are not in use. Swap standard light bulbs for energy efficient fluorescent ones to reduce carbon dioxide emissions. If you drive to work, consider a more environmentally friendly commute. Take public transit, share a ride with coworkers in your neighborhood or bike to work as often as possible. Recycle any plastics, cardboard (including packaged food boxes), aluminum, newspaper, cans and glass products. Reduce the amount of plastic bags that pollute the environment by purchasing re-usable bags for your shopping needs.

Go green by giving to charity

Giving to charity teaches many valuable lessons to every member of the family. Take a day and gather everything that you don’t want or no longer need and donate old household items, computers, toys, books and clothing to a local thrift store. You can also hold a yard sale and donate the proceeds to your charity of choice. A non-profit organization like Christian Children’s Fund of Canada (www.ccfcanada.ca) will use your donation to provide a family living in poverty with an environmentally-efficient cooking stove that is fuelled by vegetable trimmings and leaves instead of wood. It’s less wasteful and better for the environment.”

www.newscanada.com

S & R* NEWS ALERT* #2: Lights Off for Earth Hour By Melissa Wallace

“In 2007, 2.2 million individuals and more than 2,000 businesses in Australia turned their lights off for one hour to take a stand against climate change. A year later, more than 50 million people across 35 countries participated in what became a global sustainability movement.

This year, on March 31st from 8:30 p.m. to 9:30 p.m., more than 120 countries are expected to participate. For some, this one hour of darkness can be too much to bear. Without their gadgets, televisions, laptops, and the Internet, a lot of people feel disconnected from their social networks and the world in general.

But it’s worth stopping to think that for millions of people living in developing countries, electricity is a luxury they can’t afford. When the sun sets, children who don’t have any other source of light have to stop studying and go to sleep.

Earth Hour provides us with a glimpse into the life of those in the developing world who are left in the dark on a daily basis. It’s an eye-opener and a great way to challenge ourselves to do more to help those in need. Learn how you can make a difference through organizations like

Christian Children’s Fund of Canada “(www.ccfcanada.ca) www.newscanada.com

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Posted by alaposta on April 16th, 2012 2 Comments

EARTH DAY: Resource, events, activities, I have some ideas!*

No. 3, Vol. 1, Monday, April 9th, 2012 

TITLE: “EARTH DAY EVENTS, ACTIVITIES:  I have some ideas – it is a resource!*”

INTRODUCTION

Every once and awhile, I turn my attention to a major issue of the day.  On April 22, it will be Earth Day. It is celebrated in many countries as a day to cherish nature. Indeed, there is a network of organizations and people of common mind of over 22000 partners in 192 countries. This made me think about our world, the protection of our environment and all life in it – creatures big and small. This week then, I am writing about the earth.I also want to speak for those who cannot….. animal life. My book of the week is “Wildlife Search and Rescue: A Guide for First Responders [Paperback] by Rebecca Dmytryk (Author).”. (Editor’s Note: This is another post in a continuing series on special dates and holidays; it is also major issues of the day.) 

PREVIEW (April 15-16 2012): I am still thinking about the approaching Earth Day. I’ll share some of my further thoughts. I have invited Mother Nature to come by - so we can have some serious girl talk. If some guys do show up, not to worry, I vote to let them in.   Who knows? I, for one, think we should give them a chance. While we gals know  much, I think every so often, we should give the fellows an opportunity to communicate. Indeed, they might have something to say. (Editor’s Note: This is an continuation of Antoinette’s last post) – another post in a continuing series on holidays and special dates.)  

MY LIFE & TIMES*

I am concerned about the environment, climate change, green spaces and park sanctuaries, etc. Today, my subject is the animals of the world. They are found at zoos, on the farm, in stables and also at home. Personally, I do not  own a pet – I have allergies – but I like animals. I am always shocked by news of cases of terrible mistreatment of or cruelty to animals. Today, my subject is wildlife, their survival and hunting.

Animal life in the wild is a valuable resource. We must study it carefully and supervise it as it is not endless.

Hunting is something Man has done since the start of the world. For some hunters, it is all about the firearm and marksmanship. For others, it is the excitement of the kill. There are also some where the trophy is the thing. Still others just like eating wild game.

I heard repeatedly that if hunting was not allowed, there would be an overpopulation of deer, moose, etc. It is done today, although limited to certain season and only practiced by licensed hunters. Many hunters respect hunting laws, but some don’t.  I was told by some hunters that certain guides could easily be bribed.  Sometimes, I hear stories about poaching. Apparently, these guys are not even interested in eating the meat. 

Indeed,  seeing a deer spread on top of a car during hunting season upsets me. 

I know….I know …..in America the right of bearing arms is a big deal. It is protected by law. In Canada, the federal government brought in a gun registry inclusive of long guns. The current majority government is passing a law to terminate and disband the registry. In Quebec, the provincial government is seeking a court order protecting the information currently contained in the registry.

THE AUTHOR: Rebecca Dmytryk (Author)

Rebecca Dmytryk is a wildlife activist Rebecca and a professional videographer. She does bird rescues at major oil spills In 1993, she became a member of IBRRC response team. She has participated in search and collection, intake and stabilization of the birds, washing, and cage construction. She has worked numerous such spills: (a) Venice, Louisiana (1995); (b) Bollona Creek (1997),; (c) Point Reyes Tar ball events (1998); (d) Stuyvesant spill (1999); (e)  Jessica, Galapagos Islands, Ecuador (2001); Cosco Busan (2007); and Cosco Busan (2007)..

Dmytryk founded and is chief administrative officer  of WildRescue. In 1996, she founded The California Wildlife Center, a hospital for sick and injured wild animals, based in Malibu, California.

She developed a training course she offers to volunteers and government employees to help ensure proper care of injured and orphaned native wildlife. She created public service announcements and educational videos.

SERIES/COLLECTION

Books/Articles:

Several are:

THE BOOK: Wildlife Search and Rescue: A Guide for First Responders [Paperback] by Rebecca Dmytryk (Author)  

This is a WHAT-IF book …if you found yourself in a disaster endangering wild life and you were called upon to participate in a wild animal rescue. This requires specialized information and different skills. It involves knowledge and use of equipment. It is also a good selection if you have a thirst for knowledge about things not essential for your everyday. 

Rebecca Dmytryk prepared an all-in-one HOW-TO guide providing the fundamentals.  It goes from base–to-site and covers capture strategies, handling and restraint and initial aid. It explains degree of handling, type of caging, level of care and suggested standards for response to sick, injured and orphaned wildlife.

While not for everyone, but if you love animals and you care when they are at risk, this book is an excellent resource.

CONCLUSION

The earth is at risk. Protecting it and all life does not just happen. It takes effort and work.

Personal Comments

I want  our world to be there throughout the lifetimes of my children, grandchildren and so on .

Man hunts. There was a time that people thought that supply was endless. They do not believe that any more.

Certain species have entirely disappeared; some are: dinosaurs, the mammoth, thylacine, and the Pyrenean Ibex. When there are environment changes, certain species adapt, others don’t and die off. (It is also a fact that researchers are attempting to clone some of the extinct species.  This could bring some back to life.) Also disaster happens, some natural, some man-made. When Man is added to the equation, certain species are killed off. Today, hunting, poaching and habitat destruction threaten endangered species.

With the hope to preserve species, laws against poaching should be especially severe.

 The Point

Protection of wildlife is necessary in order to preserve the ecological balance in nature.

If properly controlled, wildlife can be protected and even saved from disasters.

We need to broaden and mobilize the environmental supporters worldwide.

I firmly believe that there should be strict laws worldwide for the preservation of wildlife. I also believe that the authorities should enforce them to the limit.   Although hunting for game is very much controlled, we can do better.

ANTOINETTE’S TIP SHEET*

I think of myself as a good person intent on doing the right thing…always! As a result, you and I should:

  1. Be aware of the earth: its bounty, beauty and fragile ecological balance; to this end, (a) Step back … walk outside, to get in tune with your senses: sight, hearing, smell, taste, touch – trying to embrace nature and appreciate its gifts; (b) Feel the air, cool and fresh; (c) See the perfect beauty of a wooded area; (d) Smell the flowers; (e) Hear the birds chirping; (f) Taste a fresh apple right off the tree; (g)  Touch a long strand of grass.
  2. Get the facts; in this regard, (a) Learn about its early times, the here and now, the challenges to come; (b) Research the science; (c) Review the statistics; (d) Become fully informed of the changes, the threats, strategies, projects, etc.; (e) Come to an opinion;
  3. Not be a bystander, letting the world go by; instead choose a cause,  be passionate and take action;
  4. Love animals and please do protect them by: (b) Being vigilant against environment polluters; (b) Being vocal against animal abusers; (c) Encouraging the making of rules, their compliance and their enforcement if necessary;
  5. Drive slow and carefully, when in the country, not to avoid hitting a deer, moose, etc.

Mother Nature needs our help; you can make a difference! Help the Earth Day team. Let’s all pitch in and make this world cleaner and better and also safer for life in all of its forms.*

And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*
Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
ALP
“Books are life; and they make life better!*”
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ANNEX I: NEED SOMETHING FURTHER? TRY AN ANECDOTE OR A QUOTE:

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #1: Steve Irwin: Snake Bite
“Steve “the Crocodile Hunter” Irwin once saw an Indian man get bit on the toe by a snake. “I never go anywhere without pressure bandages so I’ve got pressure bandages in me backpack and he’s like, ‘On no [Indian accent], I am not in trouble.’ And he gets the rock and he goes, ‘Here’s my snake rock,’ and he puts this rock on his toe and he’s like, ‘Yep, now I will not be dying.’ He died.” 

(Source: Anecdotage ) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=21378) 

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #2: Johnny Cash & the Wildlife Refuge
“One day in 1963, Johnny Cash visited a national wildlife refuge in California. Cash enjoyed himself thoroughly, until, he later claimed, some oil from his camper ignited the surrounding grass. The resulting fire destroyed 500 acres of parkland.

In court, Cash was asked whether he himself had started the blaze. “No,” he replied. “My truck did, and it’s dead now so you can’t question it.”

(Source: Anecdotage) - http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=16551) 

 S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #3: Justin Hawkins: Baby Giraffe
“One day in March 2004, Darkness frontman Justin Hawkins was amazed to receive a request from the local zoo (the Suffolk Wildlife Park in Kessingland, near Lowestoft) to name a newborn giraffe after him. Hawkins gladly gave zookeepers his permission. “I said I admired them [giraffes],” he later recalled, “for sticking their necks out…” 

(Source: Anecdotage) - http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=18469)

 S & R* QUOTE #1: Tara Brach

“The emotion of fear often works overtime. Even when there is no immediate threat, our body may remain tight and on guard, our mind narrowed to focus on what might go wrong. When this happens, fear is no longer functioning to secure our survival. We are caught in the trance of fear and our moment-to-moment experience becomes bound in reactivity. We spend our time and energy defending our life rather than living it fully.” (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/) 

 S & R* QUOTE #2: Mary Pickford

“Today is a new day. You will get out of it just what you put into it. If you have made mistakes, there is always another chance for you. And supposing you have tried and failed again and again, you may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call “failure” is not the falling down, but the staying down.”

 (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/)

 S & R* QUOTE #3: Robin Morgan

“It isn’t until you begin to fight in your own cause that you (a) become really committed to winning, and (b) become a genuine ally of other people struggling for their freedom.”

 (Source: Wisdom Quotes) –   http://www.wisdomquotes.com/)

ANNEX II
SCHEDULE I
“IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
“For today, my word/phrase(s) are:  “wildlife”; “hunting”; “”

Wildlife

Wildlife includes all non-domesticated plants, animals and other organisms. Domesticating wild plant and animal species for human benefit has occurred many times all over the planet, and has a major impact on the environment, both positive and negative.

(Source:  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wildlife)

Hunting

Hunting is the practice of pursuing any living thing, usually wildlife, for food, recreation, or trade.  In present-day use, the term refers to lawful hunting, as distinguished from poaching, which is the killing, trapping or capture of the hunted species contrary to applicable law. The species which are hunted are referred to as game, and are usually mammals and migratory or non-migratory gamebirds.”.

(Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hunting)

SCHEDULE II
STUDY/STATISTICS:

“Major threats to wildlife can be categorized as below:

  • Habitat loss: Fewer natural wildlife habitat areas remain each year. Moreover, the habitat that remains has often been degraded to bear little resemblance to the wild areas which existed in the past.
  • Climate change: Because many types of plants and animals have specific habitat requirements, climate change could cause disastrous loss of wildlife species. A slight insects are harmed and disturbed. Plants and wildlife are sensitive to moisture change so, they will be harmed by any chan in h moisture level.
  • Pesticides and toxic chemicl’: Pesticides are deliberately spread to make the environment toxic to certain plants, insects, and rodents, so iould not be sur to wildlife, such as PCBs, mercury, petroleum by-products, solvents, antifreeze, etc.
  • Unregulated Hunting and poaching: Unregulated hunting and poaching causes a major threat to wildlife. Along with this, mismanagement of forest department and forest guards triggers this problem.
  • Natural phenomena: Floods, earthquakes, volcanoes, lightning, forest fires.
  • Pollution: Pollutants released into the environment are ingested by a wide variety of organisms.
  • Over-exploitation of resources: Exploition of wild populations for food has resulted in population crashes (over-fishing, for example).
  • Accidental deaths: Car hits, wiow collisions (birds), collisions with ships (whales).etc.”

(Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)-http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wildlife_conservation)

N.B. For some wildlife rescue numbers, visit www.wiley.com/go/dmytryk/wildlifeemergency 

 813312 Environment, Conservation and Wildlife Organizations

This industry comprises establishments primarily engaged in promoting the preservation and protection of the environment and wildlife. Establishments in this industry address issues, such as clean air and water; global warming; conserving and developing natural resources, including land, plant, water, and energy resources; and protecting and preserving wildlife and endangered species. These organizations may solicit contributions and offer memberships to support these causes.” (Source:  http://www.census.gov/econ/census02/naics/sector81/813312.htm)

Wildlife can be found in all ecosystems. Deserts, forests, rain forests, plains, grasslands, and other areas including the most developed urban sites, all have distinct forms of wildlife. While the term in popular culture usually refers to animals that are untouched by human factors, most scientists agree that wildlife around the world is impacted by human activities.

Humans have historically tended to separate civilization from wildlife in a number of ways including the legal, social, and moral sense. This has been a reason for debate throughout recorded history. Religions have often declared certain animals to be sacred, and in modern times concern for the natural environment has provoked activists to protest the exploitation of wildlife for human benefit or entertainment.

Anthropologists believe that the Stone Age peoples and hunter-gatherers relied on wildlife, both plants and animals, for their food. In fact, some species may have been hunted to extinction by early human hunters. Today, hunting, fishing, or gathering wildlife is still a significant food source in some parts of the world. In other areas, hunting and non-commercial fishing are mainly seen as a sport or recreation, with the edible meat as mostly a side benefit.[citation needed] Meat sourced from wildlife that is not traditionally regarded as game is known as bush meat.

In November 2008, almost 900 plucked and “oven-ready” owls and other protected wildlife species were confiscated by the Department of Wildlife and National Parks in Malaysia, according to TRAFFIC. The animals were believed to be bound for China, to be sold in wild meat restaurants.

Many wildlife species have spiritual significance in different cultures around the world, and they and their products may be used as sacred objects in religious rituals. For example, eagles, hawks and their feathers have great cultural and spiritual value to Native Americans as religious objects.

Exploitation of wild populations has been a characteristic of modern man since our exodus from Africa 130,000 – 70,000 years ago. The rate of extinctions of entire species of plants and animals across the planet has been so high in the last few hundred years it is widely considered that we are in the sixth great extinction event on this planet; the Holocene Mass Extinction.

The four most general reasons that lead to destruction of wildlife include overkill, habitat destruction and fragmentation, impact of introduced species and chains of extinction.[3]

(Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wildlife)

 SCHEDULE III
S & R* NEWS ALERT* #1:
Bring nature into play in your own backyard

“Creating a personal backyard eco-system is easier than you might think and it encourages children to connect with nature. If you have room to stake off a corner of your yard, for example, that spot could be made into an inviting ‘personal play garden’ for the kids. Add a raised bed or a container garden and follow a few more green-thumb tips from home improvement retailer, Lowe’s:

Allow your children to choose plants that they would like to grow. A family trip to the local garden centre lets you explore the endless varieties of flowers, plants and perennials that are perfect for gardeners big and small. Integrate bright colours and interesting textures, and mix in some vegetables and or herbs. Pumpkins or gourds cover a considerable amount of ground space, but offer a long growing season and can be displayed at holidays. Kids will love picking and eating the strawberries from a hanging basket. Cosmos and snapdragons are colourful and fun and will attract butterflies and hummingbirds to your garden. Lamb’s Ear is durable and soft to the touch.

Arriving this spring at Lowe’s are Growums by Bonnie Plants, designed to make growing food fun and educational for kids. Cartoon characters like Coco (chocolate cherry tomato) and Duke the Cuke (straight eight cucumber) introduce children to gardening along with a healthy lifestyle and proper nutrition, said Jeff Howe, president Fernlea Flowers Ltd.

For cooler climates, consider planting some seeds in containers indoors in late winter/ early spring so that children can nurture the plants over two seasons, and then transplant them when the ground thaws.

Not all plants are kid-friendly. Avoid plants with thorns or prickly parts such as cactus and roses. Believe it or not, some plants are toxic or even poisonous. A quick search on the internet will provide you with a list of plants that could pose a health risk.

Add a bird feeder or water feature to attract gentle wildlife to your yard. Although be aware that bees are often attracted to hummingbird nectar as well.

As with all outdoor activities, children should be supervised at all times when gardening. Use child appropriate gardening tools, and encourage children to wear gloves and safety gear when necessary. The gardening staff at Lowe’s can give you more information on this topic (www.lowes.ca).”

www.newscanada.com

S & R* NEWS ALERT* #2: Stop wildlife collisions in their tracks By Glenn Cooper

“From St. John’s to Victoria, Canada is certainly known for its unique and picturesque landscapes. We are one of a handful of countries where people and wild animals live side by side, usually quite peacefully. However, when those people are behind the wheel of a car, that relationship gets a bit trickier.

Wildlife collisions are a real worry for Canadian drivers, particularly between April and June, when wildlife collisions are most frequent. The most costly result of these collisions is injury or even death of both the wildlife and the driver. They’re more common than you’d think a report from Transport Canada found that between four to eight large animal vehicle collisions take place every hour in Canada.

Most people, especially those in regions with a mix of urban and rural areas, need to be more aware of animal collisions, says insurance and claims expert Mauro Convertini from Aviva Canada. It’s important that drivers know the risks and act responsibly behind the wheel to try to prevent these accidents.

Convertini offers these tips to reduce your chances of being involved in a wildlife collision:

Read the signs and watch the road: Those yellow signs with the prancing deer are erected to warn drivers to slow down and be more aware, especially at night.

Stay in control: Never swerve abruptly hitting a tree or moving into oncoming traffic can result in significantly more harm than hitting the animal. Brake firmly if an animal is standing on, or crossing, the road.

React: If you can’t avoid striking the large animal, be ready to duck inside your car. Big animals well in access of 100 kilos can come through your windshield and cause severe injuries.

More information is available from your insurance broker or online at avivacanada.com.”

www.newscanada.com

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EASTER, PASSOVER, HOLI, NAVRUZ, ETC.: I ask for blessings for each of you!* (UPDATE 2012)– I HAVE SOME SAD NEWS!

Vol. 2, No. 45, Saturday, March 31st, 2012  

TITLE: “EASTER, PASSOVER, HOLI, NAVRUZ, ETC.: I ask for blessings for each of you!*” (UPDATE 2012)– “I HAVE  SOME SAD NEWS!“”

INTRODUCTION

The word Easter derives from the word “Eostre”, the goddess of spring.  Previous to that Easter was called “Pasch” or Passover, which is still used in non-English languages. 

Easter is the time to escape winter and look forward to summertime. It also brings holy days. There are many all over the globe; four are predominant: the celebration of the Christian Easter, the Jewish Passover, the Hindu Holis and the Persian festival of Navruz. Although specific customs and traditions may differ, adherents embrace the fundamental notion of good over evil. In addition, the love of life is common to all. This holy day is when people partake of special foods at a big family meal; it is also a time for giving to loved ones. Furthermore, this is an opportunity for an individual renovation project of the person. My book of the week is “Holy Week: A Spiritual Guide from Palm Sunday to Easter” [Hardcover] by Emil Bock.  My bonus book for this week is The Passover Seder: The Art of Jewish Living Paperback] by Wolfson (Author) Hence, today’s topic is Easter and more.

PREVIEW:

MY LIFE & TIMES*

2012 Update: I have some sad news. After Christmas of this year, my Mom passed away. I will share some of my thoughts as we approach Mother’s Day.  As you can imagine, Easter this year will be different for me. For the first time, the big meal will not be at Mom’s home. Along with my daughters and family, we will get together without my Mom.  Although it makes me sad, in my heart, I know that she will be with us in spirit.   

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Easter is a very religious holy day for my family. In springtime, the Catholic holy week, starts with Palm Sunday. I attend early in order to buy palms (“la palma”) and olive branches; and at the beginning of the mass, the priest blesses them. Following the tradition, I give these palms and branches to loved ones. (Usually on Palm Sunday, this is the day to forgive and forget – that’s another of the lessons to be learned.) The week continues through to Easter Friday and Eastern Sunday (the day of the rising). It is important for me to attend Sunday mass on Easter morning. In the past, I went either with my daughters or alone; but today my better-half goes with me.  (He is not of the Catholic faith, but he accompanies me out of respect and I appreciate it.  My partner celebrates Passover.  I also accompany him on these high-holidays.)  Easter Monday is the day after the fact. 

It is a family Easter tradition that the family gets together for a big meal.  The children are given Easter chocolates. Without fail, it was a pleasant afternoon.  The atmosphere was always joyful.  It also gave us a chance to see each other. When my grandparents were alive, my parents, my aunts, uncles, cousins and myself visited them in the afternoon.  My grandmother had her usual baked goods. “La Colomba” was one of them. My mother did it next and then it was my turn. Now that my Mom is less mobile, I am arranging the feast that travels to her.

As well, I am now grappling with the combination of Easter and Passover. Since it usually occur overlaps, it is difficult for me to give two holiday dinner parties one after another.   I don’t always do it. However, it’s an aim and when I set my mind to do something, I do it! It’s not a turning away from our respective beliefs and customs, rather, it’s an enriching addition for both of us to share. Now that’s a good thought.  

THE AUTHOR: Emil Bock

Emil Bock (1895-1959), anthroposophist and theologian, was learned and pious. Bock, born in Barmen, Germany, studied languages at the University of Bonn. Then in 1914, after enlisting as a volunteer in the First World War and sent to the front in Flanders, he was wounded. In 1916, he met the theologian Friedrich Rittelmeyer, and from 1918 he studied Protestant theology in Berlin, graduating in 1921. He was one of the founders of the Christian Community in Switzerland. He had leadership qualities. He led the seminar of the Christian Community. Bock was incarcerated by the Nazis in the concentration camp Welzheim, yet survived; on being released, he  lived under surveillance for the rest of the war. After the war, Bock was instrumental in the rebuilding of the community. In 1838, after the death of Rittelmeyer, he became the head of the community. This was a remarkable man; I was pleased to have learned about him. He was a prolific author. His book, “Holy Week: A Spiritual Guide from Palm Sunday to Easter” hits the spot this week. (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emil_Bock

SERIES/COLLECTION

Books
Several are:

  • Zur religiösen Erneuerung (mit Friedrich Rittelmeyer), Sonderdruck (aus Die Drei, Jg. 1, Heft 9), 1922
  • Die Kindheit Jesu. Zwei apokryphe Evangelien, Michael Verlag (Christus aller Erde 14/15), München 1924
  • Das lichte Jahr. Vom Jahreslauf und den Festen (mit Rudolf Meyer), Verlag der Christengemeinschaft (Christus aller Erde 4), Stuttgart 1924
  • Gegenwartsrätsel im Offenbarungslicht (mit Rudolf Frieling, Johannes Werner Klein, Eberhard Kurras und Rudolf Meyer), Verlag der Christengemeinschaft (Christus aller Erde 16), Stuttgart 1925
  • Ein Spiel von Johannes dem Täufer. Gemeinde-Spiel zur Sommersonnenwende, Stuttgart 192
  • Beiträge zur Übersetzung des Neuen Testaments, Typoskripte, Stuttgart 1930–33 (neu bearbeitet in zwei Bänden 1950)
  • “Holy Week: A Spiritual Guide from Palm Sunday to Easter” 
  • The Three Years: The Life of Christ Between Baptism and Ascension (Paperback – Dec 2005)
  • Genesis  (Hardcover – Apr 1 1983)
  • Moses: From the Mysteries of Egypt to the Judges of Israel by Emil Bock and M. St.Goar (Hardcover – Jun 26 1986)
  • The Apocalypse of Saint John by Emil Bock and A. Heidenreich (Hardcover – Jul 1986)

THE BOOK: “Holy Week: A Spiritual Guide from Palm Sunday to Easter” [Hardcover] by Emil Bock

In biblical times, Easter was the worst of times that was yet, also so uplifting for the believers. Bock describes the weeklong Easter holy period from Palm Sunday to Easter Sunday. He recounts the important events.  He takes us beyond.  He reminds that it is a time for reflection and meditation. He inspires us. He guides us daily to the gospel, offering chances to pray. Pick it up and contemplate. It will do you good!

BONUS BOOK:  The Passover Seder: The Art Of Jewish Living Paperback] By Wolfson  (Author)

THE AUTHOR (Bonus Book):  Dr. Wolfson

Dr. Wolfson received his Ph.D. in Education from Washington University in St. Louis and an M.A. in Jewish Studies from the University of Judaism.  He is the Fingerhut Professor of Education at American Jewish University in Los Angeles.  He is also the Co-President of Synagogue 3000 and a member of the Consortium for the Future of the Jewish Family.

SERIES/COLLECTION

Books
Several are:

·        The Art of Jewish Living: The Passover Seder ·        The Spirituality of Welcoming: How to Transform Your Congregation Into a Sacred Community  ·        A Time to Mourn, a Time to Comfort: A Guide to Jewish Bereavement (The Art of Jewish Living·        God’s To-do List: 103 Ways to Be an Angel and Do God’s Work on Earth ·        Shabbat, 2nd Edition: The Family Guide to Preparing for and Welcoming the Sabbath (The Art of Jewish Living Series)

·        Hanukkah, 2nd Edition: The Family Guide to Spiritual Celebration (The Art of Jewish Living)

·        What You Will See Inside a Synagogue

·        Hanukkah (Building Jewish Life)

THE (BONUS) BOOK:  The Passover Seder: The Art Of Jewish Living Paperback] By Wolfson (Author)

I want to learn about the Jewish faith. My significant other is Jewish. I want to learn about Passover. It’s an important religious date on the Jewish calendar. I want to learn how to do the holiday at home. It’s what a woman in love does in such a circumstance. This book offers an explanation of the biblical reasons for the holiday. It also talks about the Passover “Seder” the home ritual and ceremony. It also guides you how to observe and prepare for the holiday. For the uninitiated, this holiday has a “Haggadah” a special booklet with instructions and readings. Wolfson includes recounts Passover experiences of real families. The photos go beyond the words. I now know more about the rituals. The Q & A section adds to the understanding.  This year, we will start new family traditions. Let’s celebrate!

CONCLUSION

Throughout the world, the spring festival season, amongst others, comprises: the Christian Easter, the Hindu celebration of Holi, the Jewish observance of Passover and the Persian festival of Navruz.

Easter is the celebration of Jesus’ resurrection.  It is a time to repent, re-evaluate your life and do better. It is also a time to reconnect with family and friends with whom you’ve had a falling out.  Jews observe Passover, which commemorates the Hebrews’ exodus from the Egypt of the Pharoahs and escape from servitude. Easter and Passover are somewhat interconnected.  They both occur at approximately the same time. But there is more.  Jesus was Jewish and a rabbi.  It is controversial that the last supper could have been passover seder.  While the meaning of Easter and that of Passover are different they speak to being thankful for the sacrifices paid in our behalf and doing better as people.  The Hindus light bonfires in memory of the miraculous escape from the fires that young Prahlad, a staunch devotee of god Vishnu, escaped without any injuries due to his unshakable devotion. Navruz (Nowruz) marks the first day of spring and the beginning of the year in Iranian calendar.

Personal Comments

Unfortunately, Easter has, to a certain extent, lost its religious significance.  Today, it’s become an extended weekend to go on holiday.  To some it’s about gathering with friends and family, having a nice meal and giving out Easter eggs and chocolates.

The point

It is important to believe. Being a good person all year long is a purpose.  Recognizing the power of love and goodness is good for the soul. Many people today neglect to do so. Easter like Passover, Holi and Navruz are not just another day. Make them special and they will help make you SPECIAL. 

ANTOINETTE’S TIP SHEET*
Everyone should:
1. Believe;

2. Find your way to observe the holy days;

3. Connect with family and join with them in the celebration;

5. Take part in an Easter parade to celebrate the festivities;

4. Take this to read religious texts or at least spiritual material;

5. Be a good person; in this regard, strive to:
5.1 Be forgiving.

Happy holy day ….I wish for you and your loved ones good health, long life, prosperity, much love and joy.  “Buona Pasqua!*”

Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.

And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*
ALP

“Books are life; and they make life better!*”
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*TM/© 2011, 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved.
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ANNEX I: NEED SOMETHING FURTHER? TRY AN ANECDOTE OR A QUOTE:

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTE #1: Last Supper?
“Wilson Mizner was once married to Myra Moore Yerkes, an enormously wealthy woman who happened to own a multi-million-dollar art collection. One day Mizner, in desperate need of cash, pulled a depiction of The Last Supper from the living-room wall – and sold it.

His wife, understandably irate, demanded to know what had happened to the masterpiece. “Some masterpiece,” Mizner snorted. “I only got fifty bucks a plate!” (Source: Anecdotage) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=7126)

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTE #2: Dustin Hoffman: Home for Passover
“After studying music for several years at Santa Monica City College and the Los Angeles Conservatory of Music, Dustin Hoffman, while visiting his aunt’s home for Passover, boldly announced his intention to become an actor. His aunt’s reply? “You can’t,” she said. “You’re not good-looking enough!” (Source: Anecdotage) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=19593)

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTE #3: Patrick Pearse: Sticky Situation
“Sunday April 23rd, 1916, marked the first day of Patrick Pearse’s famous Easter Uprising in Dublin, Ireland. [Some sources say April 24th]. Things did not get off to an auspicious start:  

First, 10,500 of the 12,000 members of the Irish Volunteer Force, confused by a host of continually changing orders, failed to arrive. Nonetheless, Pearse welcomed those who had arrived, read out the “Proclamation of the Republic,” and ordered that copies of that manifesto be posted around the city. He was promptly informed that such a campaign would not be possible. Why not? The military council, it seemed, had forgotten to buy some glue!” (Source: Anecdotage) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=4258) 

S & R* QUOTE #1: Pearl S. Buck
The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being. His heart withers if it does not answer another heart. His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration.” (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/index10.html) 

S & R* QUOTE #2: Victor Frankl

“We can discover this meaning in life in three different ways: (1) by doing a deed; (2) by experiencing a value; and (3) by suffering.” (Source: Wisdom Quotes) –  http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/index10.html) 

S & R* QUOTE #3: Emily Dickinson

“If I can stop one heart from breaking,
I shall not live in vain.
If I can ease one life the aching,
Or cool one pain,
Or help one fainting robin
Unto his nest again,
I shall not live in vain.” (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/index10.html)

ANNEX II
“IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
For today, my word/phrase(s) are: “Holiday”, “Easter”; “Passover”; “Passover Seder, “Holi”, “Navruz”, “The Last Supper”; “ etc.

Holiday
“A holiday is a day designated as having special significance for which individuals, a government, or a religious group have deemed that observation is warranted. It is generally an official (more common) or unofficial observance of religious, national, or cultural significance, often accompanied by celebrations or festivities.”
(Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Holy_day

Easter
“Easter (Old English: Ēostre; Greek: Πάσχα, Paskha; Aramaic and Hebrew: פֶּסחא‎
Pasḥa,) is the central feast in the Christian liturgical year.[1]

According to the Canonical gospels, Jesus rose from the dead on the third day after his crucifixion. Some [who?] Christians celebrate this resurrection on Easter Day or Easter Sunday [2] (also Resurrection Day or Resurrection Sunday), two days after Good Friday and three days after Maundy Thursday. The chronology of his death and resurrection is variously interpreted to be between AD 26 and 36, traditionally 33.
Easter also refers to the season of the church year called Eastertide or the Easter Season. Traditionally the Easter Season lasted for the forty days from Easter Day until Ascension Day. The first week of the Easter Season is known as Easter Week or the Octave of Easter. The week from Palm Sunday to Easter is known as Holy Week. Easter also marks the end of Lent, a season of fasting, prayer, and penance.

Easter is a moveable feast, meaning it is not fixed in relation to the civil calendar. It occurs during the spring, in and around the month of April. Easter is linked to the Jewish Passover by much of its symbolism, as well as by its position in the calendar. In most European languages the feast called Easter in English is termed by the words for passover in those languages and in the older English versions of the Bible the term Easter was the term used to translate passover.[3][4]”
(Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Easter

Passover
“Passover (Hebrew, Yiddish: פֶּסַח Pesach, Tiberian: [pesaħ]  ( listen), Modern Hebrew: Pesah, Pesakh, Yiddish: Peysekh, Paysakh, Paysokh) is a Jewish holy day and festival. It commemorates the story of the Exodus, in which the ancient Israelites were freed from slavery in Egypt. Passover begins on the 15th day of the month of Nisan, which is spring in the Northern Hemisphere, and is celebrated for seven or eight days. It is one of the most widely observed Jewish holidays. In the narrative of the Exodus, the Bible tells that God helped the Children of Israel escape slavery in Egypt by inflicting ten plagues upon the Egyptians before Pharaoh would release his Israelite slaves; the tenth and worst of the plagues was the slaughter of the first-born. The Israelites were instructed to mark the doorposts of their homes with the blood of a spring lamb and, upon seeing this, the spirit of the Lord passed over these homes, hence the term “passover”.[1] When Pharaoh freed the Israelites, it is said that they left in such a hurry that they could not wait for bread to rise. In commemoration, for the duration of Passover no leavened bread is eaten, for which reason it is called “The Festival of the Unleavened Bread”.[2] Matzo (flat unleavened bread) is the primary symbol of the holiday.” (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Passover

Passover Seder
“The Passover Seder (Hebrew: סֵדֶר‎ [ˈsedeʁ], “order, arrangement”; Yiddish: Sayder) is a Jewish ritual feast that marks the beginning of the Jewish holiday of Passover. It is conducted on the evenings of the 14th day of Nisan in the Hebrew calendar, and on the 15th by traditionally observant Jews living outside Israel. This corresponds to late March or April in the Gregorian calendar. The Seder is a ritual performed by a community or by multiple generations of a family, involving a retelling of the story of the liberation of the Israelites from slavery in ancient Egypt. This story is in the Book of Exodus (Shemot) in the Hebrew Bible. The Seder itself is based on the Biblical verse commanding Jews to retell the story of the Exodus from Egypt: “You shall tell your son on that day, saying, ‘It is because of what the LORD did for me when I came out of Egypt.’” (Exodus 13:8) Traditionally, families and friends gather in the evening to read the text of the Haggadah, an ancient work derived from the Mishnah (Pesahim 10).[1][2] The Haggadah contains the narrative of the Israelite exodus from Egypt, special blessings and rituals, commentaries from the Talmud, and special Passover songs. Seder customs include drinking four cups of wine, eating matza, partaking of symbolic foods placed on the Passover Seder Plate, and reclining in celebration of freedom.[3] The Seder is performed in much the same way by Jews all over the world.” (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Passover_Seder

Holi

“Holi (होली), is a spring religious festival celebrated by Hindus. It is primarily observed in India, Nepal, Sri Lanka,[1] and countries with large Indic diaspora populations, such as Suriname, Malaysia, Guyana, South Africa, Trinidad, United Kingdom, United States, Mauritius, and Fiji. In West Bengal and Orissa of India it is known as Dolyatra (Doul Jatra) (Bengali: দোলযাত্রা), or Basanta-Utsav (“spring festival”)(Bengali: বসন্তোৎসব), . The most celebrated Holi is that of the Braj region, in locations connected to the Lord Krishna: Mathura, Vrindavan, Nandagaon, and Barsana. These places have become tourist destinations during the festive season of Holi, which lasts here up to sixteen days.[2]

The main day, Holi, also known as Dhuli Vandana in Sanskrit, also Dhulheti, Dhulandi or Dhulendi, is celebrated by people throwing coloured powder and coloured water at each other. Bonfires are lit on the eve of the festival, also known as Holika Dahan (burning of Holika) or Chhoti Holi (little Holi). The bonfires are lit in memory of the miraculous escape that young Prahlad accomplished when Demoness Holika, sister of Hiranyakashipu, carried him into the fire. Holika was burnt but Prahlad, a staunch devotee of god Vishnu, escaped without any injuries due to his unshakable devotion. Holika Dahan is referred to as Kama Dahanam in South India.” (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Holi

Navruz (Nowruz)

“For Coptic New Year, see Nayrouz. For other uses, see Nowruz (disambiguation).Nowrūz (Persian: نوروز, IPA: [nouˈɾuːz], originally “New Light”) is the name of the New Year in Iranian calendars and the corresponding traditional celebrations.[5] Nowruz is also widely referred to as the Persian New Year.[6][7][8][9]

Nowruz is celebrated and observed by Iranic peoples and the related cultural continent and has spread in many other parts of the world, including parts of Central Asia, Caucasus, South Asia, Northwestern China, the Crimea and some groups in the Balkans.

Nowruz marks the first day of spring and the beginning of the year in Iranian calendar. It is celebrated on the day of the astronomical vernal equinox, which usually occurs on March 21 or the previous/following day depending on where it is observed. As well as being a Zoroastrian holiday and having significance amongst the Zoroastrian ancestors of modern Iranians, the same time is celebrated in parts of the South Asian sub-continent as the new year. The moment the Sun crosses the celestial equator and equalizes night and day is calculated exactly every year and Iranian families gather together to observe the rituals.

Originally being a Zoroastrian festival, and the holiest of them all, Nowruz is believed to have been invented by Zoroaster himself, although there is no clear date of origin.[10] Since the Achaemenid era the official year has begun with the New Day when the Sun leaves the zodiac of Pisces and enters the zodiacal sign of Aries, signifying the Spring Equinox.” (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Navruz

The Last Supper 

According to Christian belief, The Last Supper is the final meal that Jesus Christ shared with his Twelve Apostles in Jerusalem before his crucifixion.[1] The Last Supper provides the scriptural basis for the ceremony known as “the Eucharist”, “communion” or “the Lord’s Supper.” (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Last_Supper

SCHEDULE II
STUDY/STATISTICS:

SCHEDULE III
S & R* NEWS ALERT* #1:
Make more memories this Easter season

“Easter traditions make fond memories that can last a lifetime. Traditions are something children look forward to every year, whether it be receiving their favorite chocolate or creating their favourite Easter crafts. Here are some ideas on what you can do to make this Easter more memorable than ever:

Give the gift of giving back 

Sometimes the most rewarding feeling comes from making another person happy. One example is on the Kinder Canada Facebook page. There, on the Joy to Share program, you can donate and support the Children’s Miracle Network and its 14 member hospitals across Canada. You will be helping a child like Olivia, who suffers from a rare blood disorder called Pearson’s Syndrome and receives special care from the Janeway Children’s Health and Rehabilitation Centre in Newfoundland and Labrador.

Taste the holidays 

Easter is known for its egg hunts and chocolate bunnies. With the season fast approaching, it’s important to stock up on all of your favorite chocolate treats. This year, add brand new surprises like the Kinder Mix with Plush Toy. It includes a variety of treats plus a plush bunny or lamb.

Break out your creative side for some crafty fun 

Set the kids up for some craft time. Create your own Easter bunny cards, decorate Easter eggs, or paint pots for some spring planting. Share these crafts with family, friends, or even someone in the community who needs a pick-me-up.”

www.newscanada.com

S & R* NEWS ALERT* #2: Tips on how to help others this Easter season

“Easter can be a magical time of year filled with eggs, crafts, and family traditions. Share the joy of the Easter season by encouraging your children to get involved in their community. Helping people not only has a positive impact on your child, but also the lives of others in your community.

Here are some tips on how you and your family can help better your community:

Plan a Volunteer Day 

Pick an organization and plan a family volunteer day. Suggest serving food at a soup kitchen or planting flowers for the elderly. Volunteering is a rewarding experience for all involved that will help your child realize that even one person can make the world of difference in your community.

Clean a local park 

We all wish for a brighter and cleaner future for our children, so why not let them play a part in shaping this change? Pick a day to go to the nearest park or playground and organize a cleanup of the area. Bring a few bags to collect garbage and recycling you might surprise yourself on how many cans you find.

Support an organization that gives back 

Some organizations are standouts. This Easter season, for example, click on the Kinder Facebook page and join the Joy to Share program, which supports Children’s Miracle Network and its 14 member hospitals across Canada. You can help children like 2-year-old Olivia, who suffers from a rare blood disorder called Pearson’s Syndrome and receives special care from the Janeway Children’s Health and Rehabilitation Centre in Newfoundland and Labrador.

Share Easter treats with others 

Easter would not be complete without chocolate. Plan an extra special Easter egg hunt with your family and neighbourhood kids. For guidance, specialists at Kinder say their egg hunt kit includes a variety of treats that are perfect for sharing.”

www.newscanada.com

*TM/© 2011, 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved

 

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“APRIL FOOL’S DAY: Jokes, pranks, ideas for work or kids at school – I want to laugh & have fun!*” (Update 2012)

Vol. 2, No. 44, Monday, March 26th, 2012 

TITLE:  “APRIL FOOL’S DAY: Jokes, pranks, ideas for work or kids at school – I want to laugh & have fun!*” (Update 2012)

INTRODUCTION

I am smiling silly. Why do you ask? I’ll tell you. April Fool’s Day is coming up on April 1st. It’s a day when people joke around and play pranks; and some work out unbelievably well. On the occasion of this date, my topic is jokes and pranks. My book of the week is: “Fooled You!” Fakes and Hoaxes Through the Years” by Elaine Pascoe (writer) and Laurie Keller (illustrator). (Editor’s Note: This is an update of my post from April 3rd 2011.) – another post in a continuing series on holidays and special dates.)  

PREVIEW (April 1-2 2012): I am thinking about celebrating Easter; it’s important and meaningful to me. I am also thinking about others celebrating their springtime holidays.  I’ll share some of my thoughts and extend my greetings  to you and your family. (Editor’s Note: This is an update of Antoinette’s post from April 17th,2011) – another post in a continuing series on holidays and special dates.)  

MY LIFE & TIMES*

My Dad had a great sense of humor. (I like to think that I do as well.) Many years ago, a few young girls, friends of my daughter, worked at a bakery part-time after school. One day, they were talking about an older gentleman who came daily to the bakery to buy bread. They looked forward to this customer because he always joked with them. The man in question turned out to be my Dad.  I guess it runs in the family.

I have never played a prank on someone; but I have friends who have tried to fool me on April 1st. As a result, I’ve been on my guard. 

One of my favorites is the prank played by one of my cousins, who is a big joker. He went to a lot of trouble to find fake hair and braid it.  You see there was a lady who worked in his office and always braided her hair. One day, while carrying on a conversation, he picked up a pair of scissors and pretended that he was cutting her braid. Of course, he had the fake ready to show her.  She was stunned, thinking the braid was hers. Once told that it was all a joke, she laughed hysterically.  Everyone in the office talked about the prank for weeks afterwards.
 
ANTOINETTE’S TOP 5 APRIL FOOL’S JOKES*

Below are a few seriously good joke stories that I discovered while researching this post article.

5. “Iceberg from Antarctica:  In 1983, Australian millionaire businessman Dick Smith claimed to have towed an iceberg from Antarctica to Sydney Harbour. He used a barge covered with white plastic and fire extinguisher foam to convince witnesses.[15]”

 4. “Apple buys the Beatles: In 2010, Bob Lefsetz released an April Fools’ Day letter which had rumours circulating around the music industry.[14]”

3. “Taco Liberty Bell: In 1996, Taco Bell took out a full-page advertisement in The New York Times announcing that they had purchased the Liberty Bell to “reduce the country’s debt” and renamed it the “Taco Liberty Bell”. When asked about the sale, White House press secretary Mike McCurry replied tongue-in-cheek that the Lincoln Memorial had also been sold and would henceforth be known as the Lincoln Mercury Memorial.[11]”

2. “Left-handed Whoppers: In 1998, Burger King ran an ad in USA Today, saying that people could get a Whopper for left-handed people whose condiments were designed to drip out of the right side.[12] Not only did customers order the new burgers, but some specifically requested the “old”, right-handed burger.[13]” (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) –http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/April_Fools’_Day

1. Google makes fun of itself and its users:

Several examples are:

“2000: Google’s first April Fools’ Day hoax, the MentalPlex hoax, invited users to project a mental image of what they wanted to find whilst staring at an animated gif.[13] Several humorous error messages[14] were then displayed on the search results page,[15]

2002: Google reveals the technology behind its PageRank Systems—PigeonRank. Google touts the benefits of this cost-effective and efficient means of ranking pages and reassures readers that there is no animal cruelty involved in the process. The article makes many humorous references and puns based on computer terminology and how Google Page Rank really works, (for example, a chart showing the pigeons’ consumption of linseed and flax, represented as “Lin/Ax Kernels,” a pun on the Linux kernel).[16]

2004: Fictitious job opportunities for a research center on the moon. Luna/X (a pun to Linux and the Latin word for moon, as well as a reference to both the Windows XP visual style and Mac OS X) is the name of a new operating system they claimed to have created for working at the research center.

2005:  Google Gulp, a fictitious drink, was announced by Google in 2005. According to the company, this beverage would optimize one’s use of the Google search engine by increasing the drinker’s intelligence. It was claimed this boost was achieved through real-time analysis of the user’s DNA and carefully tailored adjustments to neurotransmitters in the brain (a patented technology termed Auto-Drink; as the “Google Gulp FAQ” suggests, partly through MAO inhibition).

2006: On April Fool’s Day 2006, Google Romance was announced on the main Google search page with the introduction, “Dating is a search problem. Solve it with Google Romance.” It pretends to offer a “Soulmate Search” to send users on a “Contextual Date”. A parody of online dating, it had a link for “those who generally favor the ‘throw enough stuff at the wall’ approach to online dating” to Post multiple profiles with a bulk upload file, you sleaze in addition to Post your Google Romance profile. Clicking on either of these gave an error page, which explained that it was an April Fool’s joke and included links to previous April Fool’s jokes

2007 [edit] Gmail Paper : At about 10:00 PM, Pacific time (where Google has its headquarters) on 30 March 2007, Google changed the login page for Gmail to announce a new service called Gmail Paper. The service offered to allow users of Google’s free webmail service to add e-mails to a “Paper Archive”, which Google would print (on “96% post-consumer organic soybean sputum“) and mail via traditional post. The service would be free, supported by bold, red advertisements printed on the back of the printed messages. Image attachments would also be printed on high-quality glossy paper, though MP3 and WAV files would not be printed. The page detailing more information about the service features photographs of Ian Spiro and Carrie Kemper, current employees of Google. Also featured are Product Marketing Managers of Gmail Anna-Christina Douglas, and Shane Lawrence

YouTube: On April 1, 2008, all featured videos on the UK and Australian homepages, and later, all international homepages, of Google-owned YouTube linked to a video of Rick Astley’s song “Never Gonna Give You Up“, causing all users of the website who clicked on featured videos to be Rickrolled. This was the first year YouTube participated in Google’s April Fool’s Day tradition.”

(Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) –http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/April_Fools’_Day

ANTOINETTE’S TOP 5 DOABLE APRIL FOOL’S JOKES*

5. At work, tell 5-7 random people that a particular person (e.g., your friend) needed each of them to come to his or her workstation precisely at 11:00 A.M. that morning – they will be surprised when these people drop around all at once.  

4. If you are a manager or have employees under you, send people looking for made- up items such as an electric pen, desk-top jack hammer, rewritable paper, hand-held book holder, etc. or such articles particluarly named: portable paper weight,  bottle of potable water, pre-filled pie crust, etc.;

3. If you work in a restaurant, prepare a memo for coworkers advising that due to the portion control law and advertising standards, each serving of fries or chips must contain precisely x number of pieces; and that all food service employees, from  kitchen to server chain of possession, must sign a written report due at the close of business on April 1st, addressed to the PORTION CONTROL AUTHORITY, confirming your restaurant’s compliance.

 a 2. At school,

(a) Bring in a salt shaker, filling it with sugar. (Don’t forget to take it away after used by one or two people.) 

(b) Offer class mates in the cafeteria, white creme cookies where white toothpaste was replaced for the cream filling. (Don’t forget to throw them out after offering them a few times.) 

1. Glue some coins to high visible spots on a busy sidewalk and then watch the people try to pick-up the coins.

THE AUTHORS: Elaine Pascoe (writer) and Laurie Keller (illustrator)
 Elaine Pascoe has worked as a newspaper reporter, magazine writer and editor. She has written 20+ nonfiction books for young readers. She lives in Connecticut.

Laurie Keller is an American children’s book author and illustrator. She has written four books for Henry Holt & Co. Books for Young Readers, and produced illustrations for two others.

Growing up in Muskegon, Michigan and after graduating high school, she took classes and enrolled at Kendall College of Art and Design, a local community college, receiving a degree in illustration. She worked at Hallmark Cards as a greeting card artist. While there, she was allowed to design entire cards, which caused her to consider writing and illustrating books.
(Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)  –http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laurie_Keller  (Source: http://us.macmillan.com/fooledyou)

SERIES/COLLECTION
Books by Laurie Keller
Several are:

  • “The Scrambled States of America” (subject: geography)
  • “Open Wide: Tooth School Inside” (subject: tooth care) – Henry Holt and Co. – 2000
  • “Arnie the Doughnut” (subject: anthropomorphic doughnut) – Henry Holt and Co. – 2003
  • “Grandpa Gazillion’s Number Yard” (subject: numbers) – Henry Holt and Co. – 2005
  • “Do Unto Otters” (subject: manners)
  • “The Scrambled States of America Talent Show” (subject: follow-up to 1998 book) Henry Holt and Co. – 1998
  • “Fooled You!: Fakes and Hoaxes Through the Years” (Elaine Pascoe) – Henry Holt and Co. – 2005

Books by Elaine Pascoe
Some are:

  • “Fooled You!: Fakes and Hoaxes Through the Years” (Elaine Pascoe) – Henry Holt and Co. – 2005
  • “Nature Close-Up – Slime, Mold and Fungi” [Board book]
  • “Nature Close-Up – Pill Bugs & Sow Bugs and Other Custaceans” [Hardcover]
  • “Birds Use Their Beaks (How & Why)” [Library Binding]
    (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)  –http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laurie_Keller (Sourcc: http://us.macmillan.com/fooledyou)
    (Source: Amazon) -http://www.amazon.com/Birds-Use-Their-Beaks-How/dp/0836830083/ref=ntt_at_ep_dpt_4

THE BOOK: “Fooled You!” Fakes and Hoaxes Through the Years”

by Elaine Pascoe  (writer) & Laurie Keller (illustrator)

In the last three centuries, there have been many great hoaxes carried out. Some were: (a) Crop circles; (b) Aliens on earth. (c) Fairies caught on film; (d) Giant cats. Pascoe chose 10+ to examine in depth, noting things in common. She inquired into the doers: “How they did it?” and the victims: “Why they bought it?” Fool you ….It’s a fun book …Fool it! 
(Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)  – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laurie_Keller  (Source: http://us.macmillan.com/fooledyou)

CONCLUSION

To have a sense of humor is a wonderful quality. Having fun is a valid aim. Being merry contributes to a positive attitude. Smiles wear very well. A round of laughter is a mood changer. Enjoying a joke is uplifting. This is all good … up to a point.

My personal comments

I am not really a practical joke person. However, this does not mean to say that I don’t have a sense of humor. In contrast, I like to smile and laugh just like the next gal and guy. I believe in good clean fun, of VERY short duration. I insist that no one gets hurt; and we always laugh WITH the person, being the butt of the joke.

I have also noted that some go too far, taking drastic measures in order to play a practical joke.  It could be quite disagreeable or even damaging. Pranks that cause bodily harm may also result in lawsuits, criminal charges and getting fired.  

The point

Joking and pranking should be light-hearted fun. If it is not, then don’t do it!

ANTOINETTE”S TIP SHEET*
Everyone should:
1. Make sure it’s not to the extreme, especially if it’s at someone else’s expense;
2. Have fun with jokes and pranks, but don’t make anyone feel bad;
3. Ensure that it’s a light and mild prank , particularly in the workplace;
4. Call the person, quickly after the fact, on whom you played a joke, to tell him/her that it was only a prank;
5. Be on guard on April’s Fools;

This year, let’s have fun and crack a smile and more, break out in laughter and laugh out loud!

And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*

Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
ALP
“Books are life; and they make life better!*”
P.S. Big News: There are big changes coming to my blog – Please stay tuned.
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P.P.S. #3 I am on Linkedin. Consider becoming a connection? Visit  www.linkedin.com – Antoinette La Posta
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ANNEX I: NEED SOMETHING FURTHER? TRY AN ANECDOTE OR A QUOTE:

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #1: April Fool’s
“We are told that Phillips Brooks’ preaching was fired by a glowing personality. He loved Christ. He loved people. Especially did he love little children. “They tell this story on him. One April Fool’s Day, as he was walking down a Boston street, he saw a little fellow trying in vain to reach a door bell. True to his love for children, Brooks went up the steps saying, ‘Let me help you, my little man!’ Brooks rang the door bell. The little boy scampered down the steps shouting back to Brooks, ‘Now, run like the devil!’”

(Source: Anecdotage) -  http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=15611)

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #2: Al Franken: Office Prank
While working as writers on “Saturday Night Live,” Marilyn Suzanne Miller and Alan Zweibel often played pranks on fellow writers Al Franken and Tom Davis:

“We had so much extra fuel that after being up all night writing, we still had to think of other stuff to do,” Miller recalled. “So one night we went into Franken and Davis’s office and took out all the furniture – all the desks, ripped the phones out of the wall, took the chairs, took the file cases, took everything in the middle of the night and shoved it into Herb Sargent’s office where it couldn’t be seen. And then all we did was take a piece of paper and leave it on the floor that said, ‘See me. Lorne [producer Lorne Michaels].’ This is like the first season, when they were apprentice writers! Alan and I thought this was hilarious. Needless to say, Franken wasn’t too happy…”

(Source: Anecdotage) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=20933)

 S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #3: Prince Harry: Practical Joker
“Known for his happy-go-lucky attitude, the younger prince [Prince Harry] loves practical jokes. In one of his more memorable public pranks, at the wedding of his former nanny Tiggy Pettifer, he snatched a goldfish from a bowl and pretended to swallow it.”

(Source: Anecdotage) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=20430)

S & R* QUOTE #1: Tara Brach

“When we put down ideas of what life should be like, we are free to wholeheartedly say yes to our life as it is.”

 (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/)

 S & R* QUOTE #2: Franklin P. Jones

“Love doesn’t make the world go ’round; love is what makes the ride worthwhile.”

 (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/)

 S & R* QUOTE #3: Ralph Waldo Emerson

“He who is not everyday conquering some fear has not learned the secret of life.”

(Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/)

 ANNEX II
SCHEDULE I
“IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
“For today, my word/phrase(s) are: “April Fool’s Day”; “Practical joke”

April Fools’ Day
“April Fools’ Day is celebrated in the Western world on the 1st of April of every year. Sometimes referred to as All Fools’ Day, April 1 is not a legal holiday, but is widely recognized and celebrated as a day which tolerates practical jokes and general foolishness. The day is marked by the commission of good humoured or funny jokes, hoaxes and other practical jokes of varying sophistication on friends, family members, teachers, neighbors, work associates, etc.”
(Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/April_Fools’_Day

Practical joke
“A practical joke (also known as a prank or gag) is a mischievous trick played on a person, especially one that causes the victim to experience embarrassment, indignity, or discomfort. Practical jokes differ from confidence tricks in that the victim finds out, or is let in on, the joke rather than being fooled into handing over money or other valuables. Practical jokes or pranks are typically lighthearted, reversible or non-permanent, and made to make people feel foolish or victimized to a certain degree, although in some practical jokes there could be an inherent strain of cruelty present.”
(Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Practical_joke

Bonus Fact: April Fools’ Day – Origins

“In Chaucer’s Canterbury Tales (1392), the “Nun’s Priest’s Tale” is set Syn March bigan thritty dayes and two.[1] Modern scholars believe that there is a copying error in the extant manuscripts and that Chaucer actually wrote, Syn March was gon.[2] Thus the passage originally meant 32 days after March, i.e. May 2,[3] the anniversary of the engagement of King Richard II of England to Anne of Bohemia, which took place in 1381. However, readers apparently misunderstood this line to mean “32nd of March,” i.e. 1st April.[4] In Chaucer’s tale, the vain cock Chauntecleer is tricked by a fox.

In 1509, a French poet referred to a poisson d’avril (April fool, literally “April fish”), a possible reference to the holiday.[3] In 1539, Flemish poet Eduard de Dene wrote of a nobleman who sent his servants on foolish errands on the 1st of April.[3] In 1686, John Aubrey referred to the holiday as “Fools holy day”, the first British reference.[3] On 1st April, 1698, several people were tricked into going to the Tower of London to “see the Lions washed”.[3] The name “April Fools” echoes that of the Feast of Fools, a Medieval holiday held on the 28th December.[5]

In the Middle Ages, New Year’s Day was celebrated on the 25th of March in most European towns.[6] In some areas of France, New Year’s was a week-long holiday ending on the 1st of April.[5] So it is possible that April Fools originated because those who celebrated on the 1st of January made fun of those who celebrated on other dates.[7] The use of the 1st of January as New Year’s Day was common in France by the mid-sixteenth century,[3] and this date was adopted officially in 1564 by the Edict of Roussillon.

In the eighteenth century, the festival was often posited as going back to the time of Noah. According to an English newspaper article published in 1789, the day had its origin when Noah sent his dove off too early, before the waters had receded; he did this on the first day of the Hebrew month that corresponds with April.[8]”
(Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) –http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/April_Fools’_Day

SCHEDULE II
STUDY/STATISTICS:

S & R* NEWS ALERT* #1 On the Road to 2010, U. S. Census Bureau Final Report, Faith-Based Outreach Focus Groups
“….
Summary of Comments
Consider changing Census Day to a day other than April 1st. Associating the Census with April Fools Day sends a mixed-message to community members, causing suspicion and creating the unintended perception that participating in the census may be some kind of trick or joke. Consider involving the census partners in choosing or even creating an alternative day to kickoff the 2010 Census – an occasion of universally positive national and/or cultural significance, i.e., Cinco de Mayo, June tenth, Fourth of July, etc. Greater emphasis should be placed on involving children in 2010 Census events, activities, give always, etc. Host or sponsor community events and ethnic festivals which involve the entire family. Children are most often the best, most direct way to reach and educate parents, grandparents, and other caregivers to the value and importance of participating in the census.

Clowns, current popular music, interactive games, raffles, and giveaways, provide the safest, surest way to gain access to children and, through them, their parents. In Dallas, for example, hip hop artist “Little Bow Wow” was a big hit with the youth! In other locations, hip hop songs, sports stars, “American Idol” type entertainment figures, and other culturally significant images can work well in capturing the hearts and minds of the community. Through this means, interest and participation in the 2010 Census and beyond is generated.”
(Source U.S. Census Bureau) – http://www.census.gov/cac/race_ethnic_advisory_committees/docs/2007_Oct_Faith based_FG_Report.pdf

Schedule III

S & R* NEWS ALERT* #2 On the Road to 2010, U. S. Census Bureau Final Report, Faith-Based Outreach Focus Groups
“….
Summary of Comments
Consider changing Census Day to a day other than April 1st. Associating the Census with April Fools Day sends a mixed-message to community members, causing suspicion and creating the unintended perception that participating in the census may be some kind of trick or joke. Consider involving the census partners in choosing or even creating an alternative day to kickoff the 2010 Census – an occasion of universally positive national and/or cultural significance, i.e., Cinco de Mayo, June tenth, Fourth of July, etc. Greater emphasis should be placed on involving children in 2010 Census events, activities, give always, etc. Host or sponsor community events and ethnic festivals which involve the entire family. Children are most often the best, most direct way to reach and educate parents, grandparents, and other caregivers to the value and importance of participating in the census.

Clowns, current popular music, interactive games, raffles, and giveaways, provide the safest, surest way to gain access to children and, through them, their parents. In Dallas, for example, hip hop artist “Little Bow Wow” was a big hit with the youth! In other locations, hip hop songs, sports stars, “American Idol” type entertainment figures, and other culturally significant images can work well in capturing the hearts and minds of the community. Through this means, interest and participation in the 2010 Census and beyond is generated.”
Source U.S. Census Bureau) – http://www.census.gov/cac/race_ethnic_advisory_committees/docs/2007_Oct_Faith based_FG_Report.pdf

*TM/© 2011, 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved

Posted by alaposta on March 26th, 2012 6 Comments

PUBLIC (& PRIVATE) SCHOOL UNIFORM POLICY: I see pros and cons and joined the heated debate!*

Vol. 2, No. 43, Monday, March 19th, 2012 

TITLE: “PUBLIC (& PRIVATE) SCHOOL UNIFORM POLICY: I see pros and cons and joined the heated debate!*” 

INTRODUCTION

The other day, I saw some children in school uniforms and I thought that they looked so sweet. It got me to thinking. I know… I know …the school year is nearly over. All of you parents out there are thinking of summering with the kids….parks and playgrounds, forests and beaches, etc. But this is also the right time for parents to voice their opinions about the next school year. I then decided to write about school dress codes, the good, the bad and the ugly! My book of the week is: “The School Uniform Movement and What It Tells Us about American Education: A Symbolic Crusade” [Paperback] by David L. Brunsma (Author).(Editor’s Note: This is another post in a continuing series on schooling and returning to class.) 

PREVIEW (Sunday/Monday, March 25/26,2012): I am smiling silly. Why do you ask? I’ll tell you. April 1st is coming up. I will do an update of my post on April Fool’s Day of years past. Wait till you see the funnies that I will write about.  But I warn you.  Not only will you crack a smile, but there is a chance that you will break out in laughter and laugh out loud. As a result, I recommend that you not come by while sitting in a library. (Editor’s Note: This is another post in a continuing series on special dates and holidays.) 

MY LIFE & TIMES*

Childhood: In school, I wore school uniforms – it was mandatory.  In elementary school, I was required to wear a navy blue tunic with a white blouse.  In high school, my uniform consisted of a pleated plaid skirt with a white blouse and a navy blue blazer with a border similar to the skirt.  I disliked the uniform, but my mother loved the idea of uniforms.  Dressing for school in the morning was simple.  I wore my uniform, no questions asked.  Needless to say, the expense of the uniforms for my parents was worth it. 

Motherhood: School uniforms were not enforced in my daughters’ school.  There was a lot of talk concerning a dress code, but nothing was ever done about it.  Deciding what to wear in the morning in my house was a problem.  There was competition among the kids especially the girls in their school.  It was important they wear stylish clothes with brand names.  This became expensive.

Workplace: I worked for a college and dress codes were not implemented.  Some of the students, young ladies in particular, wore very skimpy tops and leggings.  I also have seen students with short shorts – these were definitely not appropriate for a school environment. It was very distracting even for the teachers.  

THE AUTHOR: David L. Brunsma Ph.D. 

In 1998, David L. Brunsma received his Ph.D. in Sociology from Notre Dame. There was a time spent at the University of Alabama, Huntsville. His specialty, broadly speaking,  is critical race theory, social psychology, sociology of education and the sociology of culture. As well, he is particularly interested in the school uniform question, more so on the public side than in the private sector.

SERIES/COLLECTION
Books/Articles:

Several are:

THE BOOK: The School Uniform Movement and What It Tells Us about American Education: A Symbolic Crusade [Paperback] by David L. Brunsma (Author) 

Brunsma researches the subject of American uniform policies, their impact, effectiveness and consequences. He sees his work as contributing to higher understanding in the educational community: practitioners, parents, and scholars. He wants to provoke debate in a larger historical, political, cultural, and social context. 

The topic of this book is standardized dress in American public system (K-12 districts and schools). Brunsma provides an overview of the history of the issue, critical evaluation of the existent literature, reviews of several case studies, results of nationally representative empirical research, etc. He defines the debate. He sees school uniform rules as a dynamic between contested cultural and political meanings on one hand and symbolic codes on the other. He has a neat perspective. This book broadens your comprehension and helps you express your point of view. The big winners are your children.  

 CONCLUSION

A school uniform is not just clothing – it’s more about education and learning important lessons.  There are advantages and disadvantage. You’re either for them or against them.  The question then is , do you support a rule on wearing school uniforms …or not?  

Personal Comments

I say:

  • That I would have greatly appreciated school uniforms for my daughters. 
  • Pros

    • That school uniforms are a great idea because:  (a)  The outfit, (tie and grey flannel pant/skirt, white shirt/blouse, cardigan), looks prim and proper; (b)  A student population dressed more or less alike,  builds school spirit; it also identifies people from the school community and those that are not – this contributes to better security and protection of our kids; (c)  A uniform dress code is less expensive, overall, for parents. Outfitting children for school with uniforms can be expensive, but in the long run, it’s worth it as it reduces on school year purchases except for weekend wear. Also, remember hand-me-downs. It also relieves the stress on students, who can’t afford brand names;
    • That some school administrators and educators are proposing the implementation of uniform dress codes as a possible policy addressing greater violence in our schools;
    • That the wearing of school uniforms: (a) Lessens competition among students especially the girls; students will be more focused on their studies, less on their appearance; (b) Makes it easier for parents to get their kids ready for school in the morning; (c) Instills discipline;  (d) Contributes to students taking a more serious approach to school; (e) Downplays sex, keeping the school population dressed appropriately and covered;

    Cons 

    Some people – not me – believe :

    • That,  school uniforms are stuffy and pretentious; 
    • That a school dress code increases the level of monitoring for students, making teachers, etc.  the ‘clothes police’;
    • That it’s better to instill into our kids good fashion sense as early as possible so that they can put their ‘best foot forward’ even in grade school and of course in high school;
    • That there is nothing wrong in children, 11 and under, dressing provocatively and having sex appeal;

     The Point

    Administrators, principals should de-emphasize body image and choice wearing apparel plus adornments. School, should be made a place,  not of hallways as modeling runways at a fashion show, but more about roadways to learning and knowledge.

     ANTOINETTE’S TIP SHEET*

    Parents should:

    1. Support a uniform wearing policy for all schools: primary, middle and high, both public and private;  
    2. Determine how extensive the rule should be and also which items of clothing bearing the school colors, logo, sport teams, etc., should be mandatory.
    3. Do fundraising in order pay for those students who cannot afford such purchases; in this regard, establish a confidential application policy that does not single out these students and distribute the clothing to them at the same time as the overall student population.  
    4. Explain to your child that garments, regularly washed and well- maintained plus personal cleanliness and grooming are much more significant than designer or brand names. 
    5. Tell your child that it’s more important to aspire to acquire knowledge instead of the ‘look’ of the day.

    Dress up could be child’s play…but wearing a school uniform teaches much!*

    And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*
    Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
    ALP
    “Books are life; and they make life better!*”
    P.S. Big News: There are big changes coming to my blog – Please stay tuned.
    P.P.S. #1 I have a TWITTER page. Consider becoming a follower? Visit www.twitter.com -   saveandread
    P.P.S. #2 I also have a FACEBOOK page. Consider becoming a friend? Visit: www.facebook.com – Alp Save Andread – please check it out.
    P.P.S. #3 I am on Linkedin. Consider becoming a connection? Visit  www.linkedin.com – Antoinette La Posta
    *TM/© 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved.
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    ANNEX I: NEED SOMETHING FURTHER? TRY AN ANECDOTE OR A QUOTE:

    S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #1: Dressed for Success?
    “On September 11, 1985, the Cincinnati Reds’ Pete Rose broke baseball legend Ty Cobb’s 4,191-hit record. Told of the historic event, Mickey Mantle, another famous slugger, declared: “If I’d-a hit that many singles, I’d-a wore a dress.”
    (Source: Anecdotage) –  http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=10761)

    S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #2: Cheerleader
    “Kari Wuhrer was once asked to reveal something she had done in high school that she later looked back on and laughed about. “I was a cheerleader!” she recalled. “I hated it. I remember we were doing a cheer on the basketball court, and as they were building the pyramid, I was taking off my uniform, because the skirt and sweater belonged to the school and the briefs and the turtleneck were mine. Just as we said our last ‘Go get ‘em!’ I was in my underwear and turtleneck, and I walked off. I was like, ‘I quit,’ and left the uniform on the court.” 

    (Source: Anecdotage) - http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=14843) 

    S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #3: Evening Dress
    “I was to photograph Pope Benedict XV,” Keystone Press founder Bert Garai once recalled. “The audience was for midday and when I turned up at eleven thirty I was told I must wear evening dress! I rushed out, burst into a cafe that I had passed on the way to the Vatican and, waving a 100-lira banknote under the head waiter’s nose, I induced him to allow me to undress the smallest waiter in the establishment. Within a few minutes I had changed into ‘formal’ uniform though, unfortunately, even the smallest waiter at the cafe was several sizes bigger than myself. Then back to the Vatican as fast as my legs would carry me. I arrived at one minute to twelve.” 

    (Source: Anecdotage) - http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=12933) 

    S & R* QUOTE #1: Michael Korda

    “Never walk away from failure. On the contrary, study it carefully and imaginatively for its hidden assets.”

    (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/)

    S & R* QUOTE #2: Napoleon Hill

    “Cherish your visions and your dreams as they are the children of your soul, the blueprints of your ultimate achievements.”

    (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/)

    S & R* QUOTE #3: Dale Turner 

    “Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition, there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty waiting to be born.”(Source: Wisdom Quotes) - http://www.wisdomquotes.com/) 

    ANNEX II
    SCHEDULE I
    “IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
    “For today, my word/phrase(s) are:  “school uniform”; “dress codes”; “”

    School Uniform

    “A school uniform is an outfit—a set of standardized clothes—worn primarily for an educational institution. They are common in primary and secondary schools in various countries.”

    Dress Codes

    “Dress codes are written and, more often, unwritten rules with regards to clothing.”

    SCHEDULE II
    STUDY/STATISTICS:

    “Traditionally school uniforms have been largely subdued and professional.[citation needed] Boys’ uniforms often consist of dark short or long trousers and light-colored shirt, often with a tie. Girls’ uniforms vary greatly between countries and schooling systems, but typically consist of a dress or a blouse worn either with a skirt or culottes or under a pinafore; some countries allow girls to wear trousers. The use of a blazer or suit-like jacket for either gender is also fairly common, especially in countries with relatively cold weather. While some countries have school uniforms that are essentially standard in all schools using it, others have each school with an individual uniform, varying in and often making use of badges.”(Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia)- http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/School_uniform)

    Nearly all Roman Catholic schools have some form of dress code, and most of them (especially those with students in the lower grade levels) have a mandatory uniform policy.

    Stated purpose for uniforms, often set forth in school uniform policies, include reducing clothing expenditures for parents as well as avoiding distinctions among children based on whose parents can afford to buy them fashionable clothing to wear to school. The conservative clothing is also said to reduce distractions and help with student identification, ensuring that a stranger will stand out among the uniformed students.”(Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia)-  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catholic_school_uniform)

    SCHEDULE III
    S & R* NEWS ALERT* #1:
    School’s out for summer so let the vacation begin 

    “Why not get the whole family involved with vacation planning this year? Together you could make it a summer to remember, say specialists in this field. Take a look for example at these exciting ideas and tips, courtesy of Days Inns Canada:

    City or countryside: Before you and your family start planning, decide what type of summer vacation you want to have. Will it be an outdoor adventure or an urban discovery? There’s no wrong type of summer fun, but ensuring everyone has their say can help the entire family get on the same page.

    Family first: For new experiences, ask every family member to pick one attraction or restaurant they would like to visit. This way everyone feels involved and there’s bound to be variety.

    Surf the web: The Internet is a valuable resource that can be used to gather information and research possible ideas. Whenever possible, book attractions, tickets and accommodation online as there usually are discounts or incentives. For example, Days Inn tells us that you will save when you book direct due to their best rate guarantee.

    Staycation: Why not visit your closest major city and enjoy a ’staycation’? Book a hotel, stay a few days and you’ll experience the city like never before.

    Memories: Encourage kids to keep a travel diary of all the exciting sites they’ve seen and activities they’ve done on their summer vacation. You can create a scrapbook at home with any tickets, brochures or photos that you keep.”

    S & R* NEWS ALERT* #2: Schools and businesses celebrate National Sweater Day across Canada 

    “On February 9, 2012, National Sweater Day, presented by Loblaw Companies Limited, is back for its sophomore year. This popular initiative from the World Wildlife Fund (WWF) calls for all Canadians to turn down the thermostat by three degrees and don a sweater for the day.

    After a hugely successful inaugural event in 2011, National Sweater Day is a campaign that shows Canadians how to stay warm while keeping the planet cool. People from across the nation have demonstrated their support, from schools to corporations.

    As the presenting sponsor, Loblaw will demonstrate its support for energy conservation by lowering the temperature in hundreds of stores across the country on National Sweater Day.

    The Company has supported this conservation initiative since its inception through partial proceeds from our national charge-for-plastic shopping bag program, says Bob Chant, Vice President, Corporate Affairs and Communication. By turning down the temperature in our stores and putting on sweaters, we are encouraging our colleagues and our customers to think differently about climate change.

    Canada wide support 

    Trisha Dempsey, from the Office of Sustainability at Dalhousie University, spearheaded a campaign on the east-coast campus last year to engage students and create a new school policy on heating. To encourage participation, Dempsey invited them to a sweater party at the school’s grad house while enjoying a night on the town. Students were treated to a live concert with a local band. Dempsey also called on the community to show their collective support with a National Sweater Day pledge, inviting faculty departments to participate by having friendly competitions.

    I see campaigns like National Sweater Day as a catalyst for real change, says Dempsey. I hope that the traction we saw last year will translate into policy change at Dal.

    She offers some tips for how people can show their commitment to the environment beyond February 9: Keep your heater clear of clutter; make sure your house is properly insulated; and fix leaky windows by repairing the caulking or covering them in plastic.

    These are simple steps that everyone can take that, when they add up, will have an impact, she said.

    You don’t need to be a student to show support. Corporations are getting in on the sweater action too. For example, Procter & Gamble Canada celebrated National Sweater Day in 2011 along with other building tenants.

    Getting the leadership team involved was the first step, says Trish Crowe-Grande, Assistant Brand Manager at P&G. We created buzz leading up to National Sweater Day by putting up posters (printed on recycled paper) of our president and other leaders dressed in their craziest sweaters. This got employees really engaged. On National Sweater Day, we had a fashion show and contest featuring different sweater categories, like most colourful, best theme, and most unique. Any employee who wore a sweater could come to work that day in jeans, and we used the cafeteria as the hub for our activities. The best part of National Sweater Day was hearing the stories behind people’s sweaters.

    National Sweater Day is a meaningful way for P&G staff to exemplify our commitment to the environment, she continued, and an opportunity for the company to reduce our carbon footprint. On that day alone, we achieved an 11 per cent drop in energy use and we are using that to look at long term energy saving initiatives in partnership with our property management.

    Crowe-Grande suggests ways that all corporations can show their support. National Sweater Day is a turnkey event, with tools supplied by WWF. It’s a simple and effective tool to engage employees in a cause where you can see measurable results. It’s energizing for everyone involved.

    For Loblaw, it’s also a way to create meaningful change.

    National Sweater Day is just another great example of how simple changes in behaviour, both at home and at work, can have a positive impact on our planet, Chant said. “

    *TM/© 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved

    Posted by alaposta on March 19th, 2012 27 Comments

    IRISH COFFEE EXTRA EDITION: We are today reprinting Antoinette’s GREAT post just in time for St. Patrick’s Day*

    IRISH COFFEE EXTRA EDITION: We are today reprinting Antoinette’s GREAT post just in time for St. Patrick’s Day*

    Vol. 2, No. 42-A, Thursday, March 15th, 2012

    “IRISH COFFEE IRRESISTIBILE di ANTONIETTA*”

    Antonietta’s Kitchen
    Volume 1,  Number 6,  This 8th Day of December, 2010
    CUCINA D’ANTONIETTA*
    (Antonietta’s Kitchen*)
    “the art of food, wine, family & more*”
    By Antonietta La Posta
    TITLE: “IRISH COFFEE IRRESISTIBILE di ANTONIETTA*”
    (Editor’s Note: This is another special post on the main blog page of Antoinette La Posta. We are therefore making a pre-upload this Wednesday. (It is the next REGULAR post of her other blog, a cooking blog, entitled, “CUCINA D’ANTONIETTA* (Antonietta’s Kitchen*) “the art of food, wine, family & more*”. We at Valente want to make sure that Antoinette’s fans know about her excellent cooking blog.  (To access the cooking blog, please enter the following Internet address:  www.saveandread.com. Once there, press the “Blog” button – it is the second to the last button on the left, then press the button at the top, the second after home, bearing the inscription, ”Antoinette’s Kitchen”; and there press the link:www.saveandread.com/kitchen/
    Or you can go directly to the new location at  www.saveandread.com/kitchen/
    Please do join her on her food escapades. Reader comments regarding her scrumptuous recipes are whole- heartedly invited.)
    MY LIFE & TIMES*
    In these weeks before Christmas, I am continuing with my theme of holiday meals. Picture this – sitting down for a lunch/dinner and after numerous courses ’soup to nuts’,  (By the way, I do indeed serve roasted pecans.), with everyone REALLY FULL, and after offering ordinary, coffee and tea, leaving the best for last, I finally offer my delicious Irish Coffee. (I now call it: “IRISH COFFEE IRRESISTIBILE di ANTONIETTA*”)
    This is the perfect end to my holiday feast. My family looks forward to this finishing touch.  It adds that extra special richness to the festivities. When everyone has concluded the main course, I start making the coffee. Within about ½ hour, the freshly brewed coffee is ready to be served. After the final steps, and once served, I sit at the table, finally relaxing (I bet all of you out there can relate.), sipping Irish coffee and enjoying pleasant
    conversation with my loved ones. Nice picture, eh?
    SAVORY INGREDIENTS PLUS*
    Irish coffee
    “Irish coffee (Irish: Caife Gaelach) is a cocktail consisting of hot coffee, Irish whiskey, and sugar, stirred, and topped with thick cream. The coffee is drunk through the cream. The original recipe explicitly uses cream that has not been whipped, although whipped cream is often used. Irish coffee may be considered a variation on the hot toddy.The original Irish coffee was invented by Joseph Sheridan, a head chef at Foynes, County Limerick but originally from Castlederg, County Tyrone. Foynes’ port was the precursor to Shannon International Airport in the west of Ireland; the coffee was conceived after a group of American passengers disembarked from a Pan Am flying boat on a miserable winter evening in the 1940s. Sheridan added whiskey to the coffee to warm the passengers. After the passengers asked if they were being served Brazilian coffee, Sheridan told them it was Irish coffee.[1][2]“
    (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Irish_coffee
    Irish Whiskey
    “Irish whiskey (Irish: Fuisce or Uisce beatha) is a whiskey made in Ireland. There are several types of whiskey common to Ireland: Single Malt, Single Grain, Pure Pot Still and Blended Whiskey. The word whiskey is an Anglicisation of the ancient Gaelic term “uisce beatha” which translates as “water of life”. (The Craythur is a modern Irish term for whiskey.[1]Most Irish whiskey is distilled three times while Scotch, apart from Auchentoshan, is distilled twice. Peat is rarely used in the malting process, so that Irish Whiskey has a smoother finish as opposed to the smokey, earthy overtones common to some Scotches. There are notable exceptions to these “rules” in both countries; an example is Connemara Peated Irish Malt (double distilled) whiskey from the independent Cooley Distillery in Co. Louth.”
    (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Irish_whiskey
    Why I prefer Jameson brand
    “Jameson is a Single distillery Irish whiskey produced by a division of the French distiller Pernod Ricard. Jameson is similar in its adherence to the single distillery principle to the single malt tradition, but Jameson combines malted barley with unmalted or “green” barley. The most famous component within Jameson is the “Pure Pot Still” distilling tradition.”
    (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jameson_Irish_Whiskey
    It is a leading brand, long known for high quality spirits, especially Irish Whiskey. It is excellent.
    Ice cream
    “Ice cream or ice-cream is a frozen dessert usually made from dairy products, such as milk and cream, and often combined with fruits or other ingredients and flavours. Most varieties contain sugar, although some are made with other sweeteners. In some cases, artificial flavourings and colourings are used in addition to (or in replacement of) the natural ingredients. This mixture is stirred slowly while cooling to prevent large ice crystals from forming; the result is a smoothly textured ice cream.”
    (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ice_cream
    Vanilla
    “Vanilla fruits, dried Vanilla is a flavoring derived from orchids of the genus Vanilla native to Mexico. Etymologically, vanilla derives from the Spanish word “vainilla”, little pod.[1] Originally cultivated by Pre-Columbian Mesoamerican peoples, Spanish conquistador Hernán Cortés is credited with introducing both vanilla and chocolate to Europe in the 1520s.[2] Attempts to cultivate the vanilla plant outside Mexico and Central America proved futile because of the symbiotic relationship between the tlilxochitl vine that produced the vanilla orchid and the local species of Melipona bee; it was not until 1837 that Belgian botanist Charles François Antoine Morren discovered this fact and pioneered a method of artificially pollinating the plant. The method proved financially unworkable and was not deployed commercially.[3] In 1841, a 12-year-old French-owned slave by the name of Edmond Albius, who lived on Île Bourbon, discovered the plant could be hand pollinated, allowing global cultivation of the plant.[4]“
    (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vanilla
    Why I prefer Nestle’s Parlour brand
    “Parlour is a brand of ice cream originally produced by Sealtest, and currently produced by Nestlé. It is not to be confused with an ice cream parlour, which is any type of vendor selling ice cream. Parlour comes in many different flavours and is available mainly in Canada, where it is labelled “frozen dessert”, as it does not meet the legal definition of ice cream due to the high content of palm oils (see Mellorine). Parlour now competes with bigger brands of ice cream such as: Chapman’s, Breyers and others.”
    (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parlour_(ice_cream)
    It is a well known brand produced by a world class food company. More, I like it because  it is creamy.
    Coffee
    “Coffee is a brewed drink prepared from roasted seeds, commonly called coffee beans, of the coffee plant. They are seeds of coffee cherries that grow on trees in over 70 countries, cultivated primarily in Latin America, Southeast Asia, and Africa. Green unroasted coffee is one of the most traded agricultural commodities in the world.[1] Due to its caffeine content, coffee often has a stimulating effect on humans. Today, coffee is the third most popular drink in the world, behind water and tea.[2]“
    (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) –  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coffee
    Why I prefer Maxwell House brand
    “Maxwell House is a brand of coffee manufactured by a like-named division of Kraft Foods. Introduced in 1892, it is named in honor of the Maxwell House Hotel in Nashville, Tennessee. For many years until the late 1980s it was the largest-selling coffee in the U.S. and is currently (ca. 2007) second behind Folgers, which is manufactured by The J.M. Smucker Co. The company recently unveiled a new slogan, “Good Just Got Great,” visible on their website. However, it is best known for its longtime slogan, “Good to the last drop,” and is still running ads featuring the line.”
    (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maxwell_House
    It is a consistent brand of quality. It has a good after taste, not bitter. The price is also right – a great value.
    Nutmeg
    “The nutmeg tree is any of several species of trees in genus Myristica. The most important commercial species is Myristica fragrans, an evergreen tree indigenous to the Banda Islands in the Moluccas of Indonesia, or Spice Islands. The nutmeg tree is important for two spices derived from the fruit, nutmeg and mace.[1]Nutmeg is the actual seed of the tree, roughly egg-shaped and about 20 to 30 mm (0.8 to 1 in) long and 15 to 18 mm (0.6 to 0.7 in) wide, and weighing between 5 and 10 g (0.2 and 0.4 oz) dried, while mace is the dried “lacy” reddish covering or aril of the seed. The first harvest of nutmeg trees takes place 7–9 years after planting, and the trees reach full production after 20 years. Nutmeg is usually used in powdered form. This is the only tropical fruit that is the source of two different spices.”
    (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nutmeg
    Lemon
    “The lemon is both a small evergreen tree (Citrus × limon, often given as C. limon) native to Asia and the tree’s oval yellow fruit. The fruit is used for culinary and nonculinary purposes throughout the world – primarily for its juice, though the pulp and rind (zest) are also used, mainly in cooking and baking. Lemon juice is about 5% to 6% (approximately 0.3M) citric acid, which gives lemons a sour taste, and a pH of 2 to 3. This makes lemon juice an inexpensive, readily available acid for use in educational science experiments. Many lemon-flavored drinks and candies are available, including lemonade and sherbet lemons. The distinctive sour taste that lemon juice gives, makes it a key ingredient in many dishes across the world.”
    (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lemon
    HANDY APPLIANCES, UTENSILS, GADGETS, ETC.*
    To make this Irish Coffee, you need a drinking glass (dimension 1,573×2,302  (582 KB); measuring utensils and a good coffee maker.
    Coffee Maker
    “Coffeemakers are cooking appliances used to brew coffee without having to boil water in a separate container. While there are many different types of coffeemakers using a number of different brewing principles, in the most common devices, coffee grounds are placed in a paper or metal filter inside a funnel, which is set over a glass or ceramic coffee pot. Cold water is poured into a separate chamber, which is then heated up to the boiling point, and directed into the funnel. This is also called automatic drip-brew.”
    (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coffeemaker
    Why I prefer a Cuisinart Brew Central Coffee Maker?
    Last Christmas, my daughters bought me a Cuisinart Brew Central Coffee Maker and I love it. It makes fantastic coffee every time … smooth and tasty.To give you a specific reference, I have checked on-line and I found  information on this coffee maker.  Product #43-0571-8 – price $99.99 (http://www.canadiantire.ca/AST/browse/8/KitchenBath/2/Appliances/CoffeeMakers)
    Glassware
    List of glassware- This list of glassware includes drinking vessels (drinkware), tableware, such as dishes, and flatware used to set a table for eating a meal, general glass items such as vases, and glasses used in the catering industry whether made of glass or plastics such as polystyrene and polycarbonate..jspProduct #43-0571-8Glassware
    (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_glassware
    Why I prefer a certain drinking glass?
    I use a drinking glass (dimension 1,573×2,302 (582 KB). This drinking glass is the right size for all the ingredients used.
    Antonietta’s Recipe of the Month:  IRISH COFFEE
    SPECIFICATIONS – Ingredients:
    •       Irish whiskey (Jameson brand) (1 oz.)
    •       (Maxwell House) coffee (best made strong, served hot) (1 cup)
    •       Vanilla (Nestle’s Parlour brand) ice cream (2 scoops)
    •       Lemon (½)
    •       Sugar (1 tsp.)
    DIRECTIONS
    In a drinking glass:
    •       Rub lemon around the rim;
    •       Dip the glass in sugar;
    •       Add 1 oz. (or more) of Irish whisky (Jameson brand);
    •       Pour 1 cup of strong, hot, & black coffee (Maxwell brand) with sugar to taste ( 1 tsp. should be enough);
    •      Add a couple scoops of vanilla ice cream (Parlour brand); and
    •      Top it off with nutmeg on the ice cream.
    LAST BITE*
    And “Voila”: a delicious coffee specialty to end your wonderful meal. I love my delicious  “IRISH COFFEE IRRESISTIBILE di ANTONIETTA*”. Indeed as they say in Quebec, Canada (“la belle province” – this phrase means the beautiful province), it is my “piece de resistance”! (translated loosely: masterpiece…claim to fame)*
    P.S. Let me know if you have a lively discussion after serving your family, not just Irish coffee, but “IRISH COFFEE IRRESISTIBILE di ANTONIETTA*”.
    Take this dish out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
    And that’s my food favorite for the week, what’s yours? *
    ALP
    CREDITS
    -Web Tech:  richmediasound.com
    The above is a new media production of Valente under its “United Author*”
    program.
    *TM/© 2012, 2010 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved.

    Posted by alaposta on March 15th, 2012 10 Comments

    ST PATRICK’S DAY: I am dreaming about a parade or a party, dress, decorations, drinks, etc. !*

    Vol. 2, No. 42, Sunday, March 11th, 2012

    TITLE: “ST. PATRICK’S DAY: I am dreaming about a parade or a party, dress,  decorations, drinks, etc. !*”

    INTRODUCTION

    What is St. Patrick’s Day?  It’s the celebration of St Patrick, Ireland’s patron saint and it’s coming on March 17th. My topic is then getting into the celebration of St- Patrick’s Day. My book of the week is “The Wearing of the Green: A History of St Patrick’s Day” [Hardcover] by Mike Cronin (Author), Daryl Adair (Author) (Editor’s Note: This is another post in a continuing series on special dates and holidays.)

    PREVIEW (Sunday, March 18 2012): As well, I am thinking about school dress codes, the good, the bad and the ugly! Some say: “The tie and grey flannel pant/skirt, white shirt/blouse, cardigan, outfit looks trim and proper, building school spirit. Others say: “It’s stuffy and pretentious building uniformity. It’s better to have fashion and putting the best foot forward even in grade school of course in high school It’s about learning. Afraid about prefect-monitors not the fashion police …. Join the debate.  (Editor’s Note: This is another post in a continuing series on family, child rearing and education.  Sorry for any inconvenience from the post re-scheduling.)

    MY LIFE & TIMES*

    As a child, St. Patrick’s Day was not observed at my parent’s house; but at school, it was a big day. I have a sweet class memory of singing, “When Irish Eyes are Smiling”.

    As an adult, although not a family celebration, I have learned to appreciate this holiday – I always make an effort to wear something green on St. Patrick’s Day.

    In my single days, I looked forward to spending St. Patrick’s Day with my friends,  Our local Irish society organizes the parade and other events. If possible, I tried to attend something. It was usually great fun.

    As well, I vividly remember how an Irish born professor, with whom I used to work, made such a big deal of St. Patrick’s Day.  Every year, he came to work in a green outfit, a big green hat, buttons on his jacket with Irish expressions.  After his classes, he left to meet up with his friends at the pubs and bars. I loved his spirit – it was a boost from the evreyday.

    I am also very fond of Irish coffee and made it often for my friends.  I substituted the whip cream with vanilla ice cream.  It’s delicious!  That reminds me, I should make it  this year – it’s the perfect occasion, don’t you think?

    THE AUTHORS

    Mike Cronin

    In 1994, Mike Cronin obtained a Ph.D. in history from Oxford University.  At present, he works as Academic Director at Centre of Irish Programmes at Boston College, Dublin.  His interests are in the study of 20th-century Irish history and politics of sport. 

    Daryl Adair

    In 1995, Daryl Adair obtained a Ph.D. in history from the Flinders University of South Australia.  He teaches in Sports Humanities in the Centre for Sports Studies, University of Canberra, Australia.  His background is in Australian history with an interest in public spectacles. 

    SERIES/COLLECTION

    Books/Articles:

    Mike Cronin

    Several are:

    • 1999 – The Blueshirts and Irish Politics
    • 1999 – Sport and Nationalism in Ireland 

    Daryl Adair

    Several are:

    THE BOOK: The Wearing of the Green: A History of St Patrick’s Day” [Hardcover] by Mike Cronin (Author), Daryl Adair (Author)

    St. Patrick’s Day has a rich history. The saint for whom the day is named is St. Patrick – he converted the pagan Irish to Christianity in the fifth century. The date March 17th is believed to be the date of St. Patrick’s death. In 18th-century America, a day in commemoration was started by the Protestants, including Irish officers in the British army. Their festivities involved feasting and dancing.  In the 19th century, there were parades – they became the means to be recognized and demonstrate the growing influence of the Irish. The parades have  become very popular.  The parade in Dublin promotes tourism and Irish industry. The authors call attention to the criticism that St. Patrick’s Day has become a day for self-indulgence and alcohol, portraying negative Irish stereotypes: fighting and vocal drunks. For me, I reject stereotypes, whatever and wherever it arises; and so should you.  People are people and should be evaluated one-by-one as per the quality of the person. St. Patrick’s day is for everyone because celebrating something good along with out brother human beings is right.  I also like  having fun.

    CONCLUSION

    Everyone should make St. Patrick’s Day a special day.   

    Personal Comments

    I say:

    • Let’s celebrate with our Irish friends on St. Patrick Day.  In most cities, there are events and festivities. The atmosphere is one of partying. Bars and pubs are very popular on this special day.
    • It is also wonderful to celebrate cultures other than you own.  You learn to appreciate our cultural diversity and the uniqueness of other people.  No matter what your ethnic background – on St. Patrick’s Day, everybody is Irish.
    • With all the downers of everyday life, this day is about having fun.  And I add: “Let’s party!!!”
    • And oh yes, I really love Irish coffee.

    The Point

    There are many reasons to celebrate St. Patrick’s Day. Regardless of the one you give, the important thing is to enjoy the day!

    ANTOINETTE’S TIP SHEET*

    All reveillers, even if you’re not Irish, should:

    1. Take out a green outfit and add a green accessory like a scarf or a tie;
    2. Put on a hat, pin or button with a saying like “Kiss me, I’m Irish”.
    3. Use, in your conversational speech, such words/phrases, like leprechauns, 4-leaf clovers, horseshoes, etc.
    4. Look for companies like Google getting into the spirit in its unique way; 
    5. Look for a four- leaf clover.
    6. Celebrate by going to some festivities:
    • Attend the parade and then go to a party; and
    • Have a night cap at an Irish bar;

    7. Celebrate with a home party, and

    • Invite some friends;
    • Put up some green holiday streamers/decorations; 
    • Play some favorite Irish music – it’ll set the atmosphere;
    • Serve up some traditional Irish foods; but
    • Don’t forget the Irish whiskey – make some Irish coffee.

    8. Lift your glass and make a St. Patrick’s Day toast;

    Quick, I am turning green…Oh, not to worry,  St- Patrick’s Day is coming on March 17th. What do you expect that I’m in the pink? For the Irish in all of  us, let’s celebrate! Cheers………Happy St. Patrick’s Day!!!

    And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*
    Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
    ALP
    “Books are life; and they make life better!*”
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    ANNEX I: NEED SOMETHING FURTHER? TRY AN ANECDOTE OR A QUOTE:

    S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #1: Grauman’s Chinese Theatre
    “Sid Grauman began construction on his sumptuous Chinese Theatre (at 6925 Hollywood Boulevard) in January 1927. One day shortly thereafter, Norma Talmadge accidentally walked across a wet slab of cement… and inadvertently inspired the tradition for which the theater is famous: Hundreds of celebrity handprints and footprints (and “otherprints”) now endow the concrete forecourt and Grauman’s Chinese Theatre (which opened in May 1927)  remains among the most popular tourist attractions in Southern California.”
    (Source: Anecdotage) – http://www.anecdotage.com/browse.php?action=search)

    S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #2: Larry Cohen: Adventures in Trespassing
    “Screenwriter/director Larry Cohen shot many scenes on private property without seeking proper permission. He once had Billy Dee Williams make an escape on the Staten Island ferry, shot a fistfight at the skating rink at Rockefeller Center, staged the decapitation of a window washer on the eighty-eighth floor of the Empire State Building, and shot the printing of newspapers in the basement of the New York Times Building. For the latter feat, Cohen simply crept in and shot until he was ejected by security guards.

    [At one point during the filming of God Told Me To (a 1976 film about a police detective who, in the course of investigating a series of murders, discovers that his sibling is a hermaphrodite deity), Cohen had the comedian Andy Kaufman impersonate a police officer, join the St. Patrick's Day parade as it marched down Fifth Avenue, pull out a fake gun, and start firing into the crowd. "I'm holding them back, saying, 'He's an actor, not a cop,'" Cohen recalled of a group actual police officers on duty that day. "I kept him from being killed!"]” (Source: Anecdotage) –  http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=19092)

     S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTAGE #3: Strawberry
    “In March 2000, New York Yankees outfielder Darryl Strawberry failed yet another drug test. “Strawberry has failed so many drug tests,” Jay Leno remarked, “he’s being inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame!”

    ["A man was arrested for selling crack dyed green for St. Patrick's Day," Leno later reported, adding: "The man's name was Darryl O'Strawberry."]”
    (Source: Anecdotage) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=8415)

    S & R* QUOTE #1: Anais Nin

    “Throw your dreams into space like a kite, and you do not know what it will bring back: a new life, a new friend, a new love, a new country.”

    (Source: Wisdom Quotes) –  http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/)

    S & R* QUOTE #2: Ralph Waldo Emerson

    “He who is not everyday conquering some fear has not learned the secret of life.”(Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/)

     S & R* QUOTE #3: Marian Anderson

    “[I]f you have a purpose in which you can believe, there’s no end to the amount of things you can accomplish.” (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/)

    ANNEX II
    SCHEDULE I
    “IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
    “For today, my word/phrase(s) are:  “St. Patrick’s Day”; “”; “”

    St. Patrick’s Day

    “Saint Patrick’s Day (Irish: Lá Fhéile Pádraig; Ulster-Scots: Saunt Petherick’s Day)[2] is a cultural and religious holiday celebrated internationally on 17 March. It commemorates Saint Patrick (c. AD 387–461), the most commonly recognised of the patron saints of Ireland, and the arrival of Christianity in Ireland.[1](Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) –  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Saint_Patrick’s_Day)

    SCHEDULE II
    STUDY/STATISTICS:

    “It commemorates Saint Patrick (c. AD 387–461), the most commonly recognised of the patron saints of Ireland, and the arrival of Christianity in Ireland.[1] It is observed by the Catholic Church, the Anglican Communion (especially the Church of Ireland),[3] the Eastern Orthodox Church and Lutheran Church. Saint Patrick’s Day was made an official feast day in the early seventeenth century, and has gradually become a secular celebration of Irish culture in general.[4]

    The day is generally characterised by the attendance of church services,[4][5] wearing of green attire[6] and the lifting of Lenten restrictions on eating and drinking alcohol,[6][7][8] which is often proscribed during the rest of the season.[4][6][7][8]

    Saint Patrick’s Day is a public holiday in the Republic of Ireland,[9] Northern Ireland,[10

    Little is known of Patrick's early life, though it is known that he was born in Roman Britain in the fourth century, into a wealthy Romano-British family. His father and grandfather were deacons in the Christian church. At the age of sixteen, he was kidnapped by Irish raiders and taken captive to Ireland as a slave.[12] It is believed he was held somewhere on the west coast of Ireland, possibly Mayo, but the exact location is unknown. According to his Confession, he was told by God in a dream to flee from captivity to the coast, where he would board a ship and return to Britain. Upon returning, he quickly joined the Church in Auxerre in Gaul and studied to be a priest.[citation needed]

    Originally, the colour associated with Saint Patrick was blue. Over the years the colour green and its association with Saint Patrick’s day grew.[13] Green ribbons and shamrocks were worn in celebration of St Patrick’s Day as early as the 17th century.[14] Saint Patrick is said to have used the shamrock, a three-leaved plant, to explain the Holy Trinity to the pagan Irish, and the wearing and display of shamrocks and shamrock-inspired designs have become a ubiquitous feature of the day.[15][16

    Saint Patrick’s feast day, as a kind of national day, was already being celebrated by the Irish in Europe in the ninth and tenth centuries. In later times he became more and more widely known as the patron of Ireland.[17

    In 1903, Saint Patrick’s Day became an official public holiday in Ireland.” (Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Saint_Patrick’s_Day)

    SCHEDULE III
    S & R* NEWS ALERT* #1:
    Uncover the psychology of scent

    “Clean crisp air, fresh cut grass and fragrant florals are a few of the scents that evoke fond memories, as they mark the changing of the seasons.

    It’s a little known fact that scent is the number one memory trigger. It’s just one of the many effects that scent has on the human mind. A fragrance has the alluring ability to heighten your senses, instantaneously activate your memories and affect your mood.

    Scent plays an active role in daily life, to the point where it can even affect our mood and work performance, say specialists in this field. Releasing a scent into the home, office or any environment can strongly impact the ambiance of the space and have a positive effect on the people within it.

    When it comes to the matter of releasing these scents in your environment, wickless candles are a hugely popular choice, says Heidi Thompson, president of leading brand, Scentsy. The specially formulated wax holds more fragrance oil resulting in a better scent throw, which means the fragrance permeates the space more thoroughly and our stylish warmers emit a lovely glow. Because the wax is heated in a warmer and there is no open flame, they’re much safer than regular candles.

    Thompson says it’s easy to set the right mood with one of 80 home fragrance wax bars. Here is snapshot of her ideas with more information at www.scentsy.ca:

    Romance: Try Vanilla Cream a sensual, sweet fragrance that sets the mood for romance.

    Energy: Try Sunkissed Citrus an energizing scent, perfect to help you wake up and kick-start your day.

    Relaxation: Try French Lavender promotes calm and relaxation and will help you unwind after a hectic day at the office.

    Comfort: Try Sugar Cookie for anyone who has delighted in the fragrance of hand-made baked goods by mom or grandma, this scent would bring back feelings of warmth and comfort. “ www.newscanada.com

    S & R* NEWS ALERT* #2: Why the human body needs fruit

    “Fruit, plus the vitamin C it contains, is so important to our nutrition, Health Canada recommends no less than five servings of fruit and vegetables every day. Simply put, this food group is essential to sustain life.

    Still, the majority of Canadians don’t eat enough. A recent Statistics Canada report showed that just 43 per cent of us (aged 12 and older) are actually eating the recommended level.

    Why five servings?

    Five may seem like a lot, but it certainly underscores the importance of the food group. Dietitians will also remind us that since human beings do need to eat anyway, several times a day, why not pay attention to the right choices, for both good taste and for good fuel?

    The right’ fuel comes from an array of foods and those should be consumed in the right portions and in the right amounts every day, says Livio Ghizzardi at Dole Canada, a leading name in fruit products. It’s important to know that the vitamins, fibre, and disease-fighting elements found in fruit and vegetables cannot be duplicated in other foods.

    Ghizzardi points out that his company works hard to make fruit more readily available for Canadians. Now, for example, single-serve fruit cups are at our fingertips and these items could so conveniently add more fruit to our daily diet.

    Do it especially in the morning, he says. Our research shows that 23 per cent of Canadians have only a beverage like coffee or juice, and 8 per cent skip breakfast altogether. So instead, why not take a fruit cup with you from the fridge?

    We also found that 77 per cent of respondents snack in the afternoon, and more than half crave something sweet. In that case, why not grab a fruit cup that also contains more substantial ingredients like whole grain oats? You can even put our newest product, Fruit ‘n Crisp in the microwave to give it a home-baked taste and to satisfy those cravings for something a little more indulgent.”www.newscanada.com

    *TM/© 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved

    Posted by alaposta on March 11th, 2012 13 Comments