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HOLY DAYS – ALL SAINT’S DAY & ALL SOUL’S DAY, CATHOLICISM – PARENTS & LOVED ONES: I have memories, I pay my respects, I give honor and tribute; most I love you!*

Vol. 3, No.29, Monday, October 29, 2012

TITLE: “HOLY DAYS – ALL SAINT’S DAY & ALL SOUL’S DAY, CATHOLICISM – PARENTS & LOVED ONES: I have memories, I pay my respects, I give honor and tribute; most I love you!*”

INTRODUCTION

With the month of November fast approaching, this means two important days are coming. November 1st is “All Saint’s Day” and November 2nd is “All Soul’s Day”.   (Many people don’t  know about these days.) For Catholics, these are not holidays; instead they are holy days. That’s something to think about.

The thought of these days bring the faces of my dear parents to mind.  Today’s topic then is personal remembrance. I will share with you some things that I do and sentiments that I feel. Remembering those departed souls is something good! My book of the week is All Saints, All Souls: Halloween” by Catherine Chambers (Author) (Editor’s Note: This is another in the continuing series on holidays and special dates. 

ANTOINETTE’S LIFE & TIMES*

CHILDHOOD Nov. 1st & 2nd at Home: “All Saint’s Day” is a kind of birthday for all those saintly… the right time to pray for a favor. “All Soul’s Day” is about prayer and sacrifice in behalf of those departed.  For my mother, this was a time to pray. And she would visit the cemetery. Also, without fail, she would light a candle for each deceased person that was dear to us. Sad to say, as the more years went by, the more candles she lit.  Lighting candles is our way of extending our prayers.  It is also a connection to those dear people who have gone.

CHILDHOOD Nov. 1st & 2nd at School: When I was in elementary school, there was a school holiday for “All Saint’s Day” with “All Soul’s Day” following.  Today, these days are no longer observed in schools.

TODAY – My DEAR parents: I lost them both, my Dad in 2006 and my Mom in 2012. I feel the sense of loss every day. Yesterday, I went to the cemetery. Soon, I will light candles for them. I pray for them daily, but lighting candles for them is a sign of not only honoring the dead, but feeling their presence. 

My DEAR Father: My Dad was a BIG part of my life. He was a fine man. He was hard-working and a great husband. He helped make me the woman that I have become. I miss him a lot! He knew alot about many things. He read a great deal and was interested in current events.   Self -taught, he was very smart. His advice still comes to mind when certain situations arise. Another side of him was his wonderful sense of humor. His smile made my heart sing.

My DEAR Mother: My Mom was a BIG part of my life. I miss her terribly! She was a fine lady. She was hard-working and kept a beautiful home. She was a great wife – family was very important to her. She helped make me the woman that I have become.

She was a very wise woman. For any lesson in life, she had sayings and fables. No matter what arises from day to day, I always remember that my Mom had something to say. She recited a saying as the situations arose; and I remember them when a similar situation arises. I’ll give you some examples. For instance, (translated from Italian with the meaning in brackets), she would say,

  • “You want your barrel full of wine and your wife drunk.*” (You want your cake and eat it too.)
  • “Someone else’s wife is better than your own.*” (The grass is greener on the other side.)”
  • “You should grease the horse for the owner.*” (Be pleasant to your in-laws for respect to your loved ones.)
  • “He who rejects too many possible suitors will make the wrong choice.*” (Nobody’s perfect.).
  • “You cry the dead and screw the living.*” (You’re not being honest.) 
  • “A beautiful shoe becomes an ugly loafer.*” (As we age, we lose our looks.)

I think that you get the idea. You know, I sometimes would joke with my mother that someday, I would write a book with all of her sayings. Who Knows … it may happen!

THE AUTHOR: Catherine Chambers

Catherine Chambers is a Heinemann-Raintree author. She is also an editor of children’s books. Her published credits include The Elephants’ Ears (A Barefoot Paperback), The Elephants’ Ears (A Barefoot Paperback), Computer (Look Inside Series).

SERIES/COLLECTION

Books/Articles:

Some of her books are:

  • Big Freeze by Catherine Chambers (Mar 22 2007)
  • Blizzard by Catherine Chambers (Mar 22 2007)
  • Drought by Catherine Chambers (Mar 22 2007)
  • Flood by Catherine Chambers (Mar 22 2007)
  • Heat Wave by Catherine Chambers (Mar 23 2007
  • Hurricane by Catherine Chambers (Mar 22 2007)
  • Thunderstorm by Catherine Chambers (Mar 22 2007)

THE BOOK: All Saints, All Souls: Halloween by Catherine Chambers (Author)

The topic is  All Saints’ Day, All Souls’ Day and Halloween. I understand that this book has information on the traditions and celebrations from all over the world. I like to learn – don’t you.

CONCLUSION

For many of us, the month of November begins with a focus on the people whom we love and have passed away. It`s not about feeling alone and miserable. Rather, it`s about being comforted by their presence and happier when remembering the good times.

Personal Comments

I say:

  • That for me, All Saint’s Day” and “All Soul’s Day” are important.
  • That I know I was blessed to have such wonderful parents – I want to honor them. I often light candles for them – I don’t wait for “All Soul’s Day”. 
  • That the idea is that when a candle is lit for the dead, they will be remembered forever.

The Point

Regardless of your religion, let’s not forget our loved ones after they pass away. Even with our busy lifestyle, let’s stop for a minute.Tears, there may be a few.

It`s also good to commemorate their lives. It involves: memories, respect, honor and tribute. Give them this honor they deserve. But, let’s light a candle for them. Lighting candles help us deal with their deaths and keep their memories in our hearts. Make it a lifelong ritual. While you are giving of yourself, you`re receiving much in return! 

Perhaps it`s also about asking that a wish come true. You see, they`re personal angels. I believe my parents are my angels like two shining stars in the sky brightly lighting my way. 

ANTOINETTE’S TIP SHEET*

Everyone should:

  1. Keep the memory alive of the deceased you’ve loved on All Soul’s Day.
  2. Let’s commemorate the dead on this day.
  3. Make lighting candles for the deceased in our lives a lifelong ritual; further
  • Light a candle to a saint of your choice for a favor, if you need one.
  • Light a candle for the deceased on All Soul’s Day.
  • Pray to your favorite saint on All Saint’s Day.

If you’re lucky, a smile might peak through the sadness. Surprisingly, you might feel better for it.

And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*
Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
ALP
“Books are life; and they make life better!*”

PREVIEW (tentatively scheduled for Nov. 5th 2012: Next week, I will give you an update on a post commemorating November 11th – Veterans Day in the U.S. and Remembrance Day in Canada, U.K., etc. (Commonwealth). Be there! It’s the right thing to take the time to show our respects. (Editor’s Note: This is another in my continuing series on holidays and special dates.

PREVIEW (now tentatively re-scheduled for early january 2013): I was at the gym recently and a fellow was explaining to a young woman (a newbee at weights and workout machines) that discipline was essential if you want to get fit and in shape. It got me to thinking about (self-) discipline to being the key to success whatever the pursuit. That week, I will upload a post on  discipline … as long as I stay disciplined enogh to write it!. Please come by to see if I managed to do it!

“Books are life; and they make life better!*”
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NEED SOMETHING FURTHER? TRY SAVE AND READ* (S&R*) BACKGROUNDER: ANTOINETTE’S 1, 2, 3, & 4

ONE – “I SHOULD HAVE SAID THAT!*” – QUOTES
S & R* QUOTE #1:
Emily Dickinson

“Love — is anterior to Life –

Posterior — to Death –

Initial of Creation, and

The Exponent of Earth”  

(Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/index15.html)

S & R* QUOTE #2: Amelia Burr

“Because I have loved life, I shall have no sorrow to die.” 

(Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/index15.html)

S & R* QUOTE #3: Edna St. Vincent Millay

“My candle burns at both its ends;

It will not last the night;

But oh, my foes, and oh, my friends –

It gives a lovely light.”

(Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/index15.html)

TWO – “IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
For today, my word/phrase(s) are: “All Saints’ Day“,“All Soul’s Day”;

All Saints’ Day

All Saints’ Day (in the Roman Catholic Church officially the Solemnity of All Saints and also called All Hallows or Hallowmas[3]), often shortened to All Saints, is a solemnity celebrated on 1 November by parts of Western Christianity, and on the first Sunday after Pentecost in Eastern Christianity, in honour of all the saints, known and unknown. In the Western calendar it is the day after Halloween and the day before All Souls’ Day.

In Western Christian theology, the day commemorates all those who have attained the beatific vision in Heaven. It is a national holiday in many historically Catholic countries. In the Catholic Church and many Anglican churches, the next day specifically commemorates the departed faithful who have not yet been purified and reached heaven. Christians who celebrate All Saints’ Day and All Souls’ Day do so in the fundamental belief that there is a prayerful spiritual bond between those in purgatory (the ‘Church Suffering’), those in heaven (the ‘Church triumphant’), and the living (the ‘Church militant’). Other Christian traditions define, remember and respond to the saints in different ways; for example, in the Methodist Church, the word “saints” refers to all Christians and therefore, on All Saint’s Day, the Church Universal, as well as the deceased members of a local congregation, are honoured and remembered.[2][4] (Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/All_Saints_DayTHREE

All Souls’ Day commemorates the faithful departed.

In Western Christianity, this day is observed principally in the Catholic Church, although some churches of Anglican Communion and the Old Catholic Churches also celebrate it.

The Roman Catholic celebration is associated with the doctrine that the souls of the faithful who at death have not been cleansed from the temporal punishment due to venial sins and from attachment to mortal sins cannot immediately attain the beatific vision in heaven, and that they may be helped to do so by prayer and by the sacrifice of the Mass.[1] In other words, when they died, they had not yet attained full sanctification and moral perfection, a requirement for entrance into Heaven. This sanctification is carried out posthumously in Purgatory.

The official name of the celebration in the Roman Rite liturgy of the Roman Catholic Church is “The Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed“.[1] Another popular name in English is Feast of All Souls. In some other languages the celebration, not necessarily on the same date, is known as Day of the Dead. (Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia)– http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/All_Souls’_Day)

STUDY/STATISTICS:

FOUR – BONUS ARTICLES

S & R*NEWS ALERT*#1: Three simple ways to live life more richly

“Canadians are always looking for ways to save money, but are not always willing to sacrifice comfort. With a couple of simple adjustments, it’s possible to save on monthly household expenses without compromising on quality and comfort. Here are some ways to put hundreds of dollars back in your pocket in a matter of months.

Canadians are paying an average of $40 a month for home phone service. If you are already paying for high-speed Internet, you can use your existing connection and use a voice over IP phone system for free local and long distance calls within Canada. On the sleek Ooma Telo device for example, you get advanced features like caller-ID, call-waiting and voicemail as part of the basic service package, which means extra savings. By making the switch to VoIP, you can easily save over $600 in two years.

Household energy and water bills consistently eat away at your monthly budget. Consider the time of day you are doing laundry or running the dishwasher, and take advantage of off-peak rates. Did you know it’s more expensive to do a load of laundry during the day than it is at night? You can also save water by taking a shower instead of a bath, and turning the tap off while brushing your teeth. This may seem like common-sense advice, but the financial benefits are anything but basic.

Television cable can often be one of the highest bills every month. Luckily, there are simple ways to cut back on this monthly expense, without completely eliminating this source of entertainment. Consider opting for a PVR instead of purchasing a time-shifting package. This gives you more flexibility while reducing duplicate channels. You can also watch online, some networks stream their shows shortly after their regular television broadcast. And don’t be afraid to shop around or negotiate a new deal a simple telephone call could mean big savings. can save you big.”

More information is available online at http://ca.ooma.ca www.newscanada.com

S & R*NEWS ALERT*#2: Vigils honour murdered and missing aboriginal women

“Photo caption: Every year, on October 4, the families of missing and murdered First Nations, Inuit and Métis women and girls hold vigils across Canada to honour the lives of loved ones.

Sixteen-year-old Felicia Solomon, originally from Norway House Cree Nation in northern Manitoba, went missing in Winnipeg in March 2003. Her body was found three months later. To date, no one has been charged with her murder.

Solomon was not the first young woman stolen from this family. Her cousin, Helen Betty Osborne, was abducted, raped and murdered in 1971 by four men in The Pas, Manitoba. A provincial inquiry concluded that she had been targeted for acts of extreme brutality because she was an aboriginal woman.

Every year, on October 4, the families of missing and murdered First Nations, Inuit and Métis women and girls hold vigils across Canada to honour the lives of loved ones like Felicia Solomon and Helen Betty Osborne. They are joined by supporters and partner organizations like the human rights movement Amnesty International, whose 2004 Stolen Sisters report documented the high levels of discrimination and violence experienced by aboriginal women in Canada.

Many Canadians will be shocked to learn that there are no official government statistics on the numbers of missing and murdered aboriginal women. There are simply too many gaps in how this information is recorded and made public. However, the Native Women’s Association of Canada has independently documented more than 600 cases of aboriginal women who have been murdered in recent decades or who are missing and feared dead.

One reason for the shockingly high numbers of missing and murdered aboriginal women is a gap in access to basic services. For example, in many communities aboriginal women often have no access to emergency shelters to escape violence. In addition, as the Helen Betty Osborne inquiry concluded some three decades ago, there are men who specifically target aboriginal women for acts of violence. Finally, as has been documented by Amnesty International and others, despite the known threats to the lives of these women, police response is all too often slow and inadequate.

Across Canada, aboriginal organizations and the families of missing and murdered women are taking the lead in trying to expose the violence and injustice they face. The October 4 vigils across Canada are a powerful way for people to come out and show their support.” More information on the vigils is available on the websites of the Native Women’s Association of Canada (nwac.ca/programs/sis-vigils) and Amnesty International (amnesty.ca).

*TM/© 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved.

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HALLOWEEN PARTY, COSTUMES, GAMES: I say boo!* – UPDATE OCTOBER 22, 2012

Vol. 3, No. 28, Monday, October 22nd, 2012

TITLE: “HALLOWEEN PARTY, COSTUMES, GAMES: I say boo!*” – Update October 22, 2012

INTRODUCTION

Greetings … Halloween is coming … Halloween is coming! If you guessed that Halloween is the subject of today, you would have been right. My (children’s) book of the week is: “My First Halloween” [Board book] by Tomie Depaola (Author). My bonus book is “Halloween: The Best of Martha Stewart Living [Paperback]” from Martha Stewart Living.  (Editor’s Note: This is an update of a post first published  October 30, 2011, in my continuing series on holidays and special dates.)

ANTOINETTE’S LIFE & TIMES*

When I was a child, Halloween was an exciting day for me.  I liked to dress up and go trick-or-treating with my brothers.  At the end of my Halloween outing, I stood by the door with my mother giving out treats to other Halloween kids.  Even after my siblings and I left home, my mother still gave out treats to kids. 

Some people consider Halloween an evil day. Pope Benedict XVI has declared it anti-Christian and dangerous. Halloween has Celtic origin – it marks the end of harvest and the beginning of winter.  It also has strong roots in paganism.  The word, “ghoulish” comes to mind. It is defined as a legendary evil being that robs graves and feeds on corpses.  Although the Catholic Church disapproves of Halloween, it focuses on All Saint’s Day”, which is on November 1st and on “All Souls’ Day” which falls on November 2nd. Growing up, I remember my mother on October 31, lighting candles for loved ones who had passed away.  It was customary in her culture and the belief was that spirits of the dead might visit.

When my daughters were growing up they also went trick-or-treating on Halloween.  They planned for weeks what costumes they would wear.  On their return from Halloween night, they also helped give out treats to other kids.  When they were teenagers, they no longer went trick or treating, but partied with their friends. 

Now my grandchildren are being introduced to Halloween.  They both have costumes and my daughter plans to take them to a community event for kids. As an adult, I always enjoyed the atmosphere.  Although I was not one to dress up for Halloween, I went to parties where people wore costumes; it was always great fun.  It’s interesting to see adults put a lot of effort and expense into a Halloween costume.  It’s also a night where you can be whomever you want and dress as you please … and no one questions it. 

UPDATE:  OCTOBER, 2012

I’ve already decorated for Halloween this year.  No scary or evil decorations … it’s not appropriate for children.  My granddaughter has decided to be Tinker Bell and my grandson will be a little tiger.  My daughter will probably take them to a community event for kids.  They are so excited. 

This year, my other daughter has decided to have a Halloween party for her friends.  Her place is decorated for adults – lots of scary, gory stuff.  Of course, the invitation stipulates that everyone must be dressed in a Halloween costume.  This sets the mood for an exciting Halloween party.

THE AUTHOR: Tomie Depaola

Depaola has been a writer for more than 35 years – also an illustrator. He is credited with more than 225 books with over 15 million copies sold. He is the holder of honorary doctoral degrees from the University of Connecticut, Georgetown University and Pratt Institute. He is highly regarded in the greater book community – he has received numerous awards: (a) Smithson Medal from the Smithsonian Institution; (b) Kerlan Award from the University of Minnesota; (c) Regina Medal from the Catholic Library Association; (d) Laura Ingalls Wilder 2011 Award for Lifetime Literary Achievement in Children’s Literature; and (e)  New Hampshire’s Governor’s Arts Award of Living Treasure. When it comes to children’s books, Depaola is a superstar. I think my Book of the Week, “My First Halloween” is a real gem.

SERIES/COLLECTION

Tomie Depaola
Books/Articles:
Books

He is credited with more than  225 books. Some are:
The Strega Nona Series

  • Strega Nona
  • Strega Nona Her Story
  • Strega Nona Meets Her Match
  • Strega Nona Takes a Vacation
  • Strega Nona’s Magic Lesson
  • Brava, Strega Nona!
  • Strega Nona’s Harvest
  • Merry Christmas, Strega Nona
  • Strega Nona’s Gift
  • Big Anthony His Story
  • Big Anthony and the Magic Ring
Tomie’s Memoir Series
  • 26 Fairmount Avenue hardcover (14.99/6.99)
  • Here We All Are (6.99)
  • On My Way (5.99)
  • What a Year (13.99/5.99)
  • Things Will Never Be the Same (5.99)
  • I’m Still Scared (13.99/5.99)
  • Why? (14.99/5.99)
  • For the Duration (15.99)
Tomie’s ‘Big’ Books
  • Christmas Remembered (19.99/9.99)
  • Front Porch Tales and North Country Whoppers (17.99)
  • Joy to the World (24.99)
  • Tomie dePaola’s Book of Bible Stories (27.99/12.99)
  • Tomie dePaola’s Favorite Nursery Tales (25.99)
  • Tomie dePaola’s Mother Goose (25.99)
Tomie’s Stories about Growing Up and His Family
  • The Art Lesson (16.99/6.99)
  • The Baby Sister (5.99)
  • My Mother Is So Smart (16.99)
  • Nana Upstairs Nana Downstairs (6.99)
  • Stagestruck (16.99/6.99)
  • Tom (6.99)
  • Tony’s Bread (6.99)
  • Watch Out for Chick Feet in Your Soup (6.99)
Books of Legends, Folktales and Stories
  • Adelita A Mexican Cinderella Story (6.99)
  • Andy That’s My Name (6.99)
  • Charlie Needs a Cloak (5.99)
  • The Cloud Book (17.95/6.95)
  • Comic Adventures of Old Mother Hubbard (7.00)
  • Cookie’s Week (5.99)
  • Erandi’s Brainds (16.99/6.99)
  • Fin M’Coul (6.95)
  • Four Friends at Christmas (12.99)
  • Four Friends in Autumn (14.95)
  • Four Friends in Summer (14.99)
  • Hey Diddle Diddle and Other Mother Goose Rhymes (6.99)
  • Jamie O’Rourke and the Big Potato (6.99)
  • Jamie O’Rourke and the Pooka (6.99)
  • Knight and the Dragon (17.99/6.99)
  • Legend of the Bluebonnet (17.99/6.99)
  • Legend of the Indian Paintbrush (17.99/7.99)
  • Legend of the Persian Carpet (16.99)
  • Little Grunt and the Big Egg (6.99)
  • Mice Squeak We Speak (5.99)
  • Mysterious Giant of Barletta (7.00)
  • Now One Foot, Now the Other (7.99)
  • Oliver Button is a Sissy (15.99/7.00)
  • Pancakes for Breakfast (14.95/6.00)
  • The Popcorn Book (17.95/6.95)
  • The Quicksand Book (17.95/6.95)
  • The Quilt Story (5.99)
  • Smart about Art: Frida Kahlo (15.99/5.99)
  • Shh, We’re Writing the Constitution (6.99)
  • T-Rex Is Missing (3.99)
  • The Tale of Rabbit and Coyote (6.99)
Books of Religious or Holiday Storie
  • Angels Angels Everywhere (15.99)
  • The Clown of God (16.00/7.99)
  • Francis Poor Man of Assisi (18.95)
  • Get Dressed Santa (a board book 6.99)
  • Guess Who’s Coming to Santa’s for Dinner? (16.99)
  • Joy to the World ($24.99)
  • Legend of Old Befana An Italian Christmas Story (17.00/7.00)
  • Legend of the Poinsettia (17.99/6.99)
  • Miracles of Jesus (6.99)
  • My First Bible Stories (a board book 5.99)
  • My First Chanukah (a board book 5.99)
  • My First Christmas (a board book 5.99)
  • My First Christmas Carols (a board book 5.99)
  • My First Easter (a board book 5.99)
  • My First Halloween (a board book 5.99)
  • My First Passover (a board book 5.99)
  • My First Thanksgiving (a board book 5.99)
  • The Night before Christmas (6.95)
  • The Night before Christmas (a board book 8.95)
  • Night of Las Posadas (16.99/6.99)
  • Pascual and the Kitchen Angels (5.99)
  • Patrick Patron Saint of Ireland (17.95/8.95)
  • The Song of Francis (16.99)
  • Tomie’s Little Christmas Pagent (a board book 7.99)

The Bill and Pete Books

  • Bill and Pete (6.99)
  • Bill and Pete Go Down the Nile (6.99)
  • Bill and Pete to the Rescue (7.99)

The Barkers

  • Boss for a Day (a level 1 reader 3.99)
  • Hide and Seek All Week (a level 1 reader 3.99
  • Morgan and Moffat Go to School (13.99/5.99)
  • A New Barker in the House (13.99)
  • Trouble in the Barker’s Class (5.99)

Board Books for the Very Young

  • I Love You Sun, I Love You Moon (7.99)
  • Mary Had a Little Lamb (7.99)
  • Mice Squeak We Speak (6.99)
  • My First Fairy Tales (7.99)
  • My First Mother Goose (5.99)
  • My First Songs (5.99)
  • Te Amo Sol, Te Amo Luna (6.99)
  • Tomie’s Baa Baa Black Sheep (7.99)
  • Tomie’s Little Book of Poems (7.99)
  • Tomie’s Little Mother Goose (7.99)
  • Tolmie’s Mother Goose Flies Again (7.99)
  • Tomie’s Three Bears and Other Tales (6.99)
  • “My First Halloween” [Board book] by Tomie Depaola (Author)

THE BOOK: “My First Halloween” [Board book] by Tomie Depaola (Author)

Halloween is the yearly celebration of dress-up and candy and all things scary and not so scary. It’s a lot to figure out especially if you’re a baby. What do you need? I suggest Tomie’s little board book; it’s PreSchool …yessiree – it makes Halloween easier to understand. It explains the holiday with the date, 31st October and such activities like spooning out the pumpkin. Indeed, this book makes the point that the holiday is for all children – what a nice thought. It looks good with Halloween’s unofficial colors, big orange and bright black-what a contrast; the watercolor illustrations are vivid.  Wowee, it’s quite a pop! 

HALLOWEEN BONUS: Martha Stewart in print

AUTHOR: Martha Stewart

Stewart, a middle class Jersey girl became the authority of American food and style. She built a brand then an empire one jar at a time. She became a powerhouse. Her media reach went beyond print to TV programming. Her story of middle America to riches is classic Americana. Her bitchiness and bad temper is legend. Her fall from grace, with charges and conviction – she even went to jail. She cannot be a director in a public company. But she is still Martha Stewart.
(Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia) –http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martha_Stewart)

SERIES/COLLECTION

Martha Stewart 
Books/Articles:
She is credited with many books. Some are:

• Martha Stewart’s Quick Cook (1983)
• Martha Stewart’s Hors D’oeuvres (1984)
• Martha Stewart’s Pies & Tarts (1985)
• Weddings (1987)
• The Wedding Planner (1988)
• Martha Stewart’s Quick Cook Menus (1988)
• Martha Stewart’s Christmas (1989)

Magazines
• Martha Stewart Living
• Columns, magazine articles and other pieces on homemaking.
Television
• Programs such as The Oprah Winfrey Show and Larry King Live.

THE BONUS BOOK:  Halloween: The Best of Martha Stewart Living [Paperback]
You think that Halloween is a fun holiday. You believe that “The Martha” knows better than most how to do it just right. If you put the two together, you know that you will get a “gold” medal Halloween. This is a good combo book where you get it all- in- one. “The Martha” first gives you “top drawer” tips in the preparations, doing the pumpkin, signage and decor, face stuff, etc.  “The Martha” then tells you how to be the scariest host and hostess with the ‘mostest’, giving a “five star” party’. This is a must read for those Halloween aficionados, who just have to get it and do it just so! Your family will enjoy the preparations and your invited guests, all “A” list ghosts, will have a ball.  

CONCLUSION

While there are some pagan origins to the festival, Halloween doesn’t have to be seen as evil or even bad. Actually, the festivities for this holiday are good clean fun. There are no rituals – it’s a time to play. Of course, it is especially fine for children.

Personal Comments

I say:

With autumn in the air, it makes me think of Halloween.

First observation – it’s no longer a day… it’s more. (In our town, there used to be the night before – it was called “Mat Night” when young boys would take and hide front door welcome mats.) In the weeks before, stores send out flyers promoting sales of products and specials and  clerks are busy putting up displays and stocking shelves, all befitting the last night in October. TV programs featuring this theme abound.

Second, its popularity is a big business money maker. Big box stores sell lights and spooky inflatables. The symbols include: carving jack-o’-lanterns, straw men, making black spiders and cats, skeletons, ghosts, etc. Party stores become Halloween central, carrying a full line of costumes. This is high season for costume renters. Dollar stores have a bonanza selling everything from masks to face-painting – also favors galore for the big party night. 

Third, it’s all things good to eat. Of course, there are bagfuls of bite-size chocolates and candy. And this is about pumpkins. Removing the inside soft fruit, one can then make pumpkin pie, the October delicacy. Nutty people also dry the seeds – voila, they get pumpkin seeds. 

Fourth, it’s excitement city for the children. It’s a big decision what you’re going to be this year. It’s great to go the store along with a parent to buy the costume. And putting up decorations is so much fun.  

Fifth, it has also become quite an adult celebration. They have as much fun with these festivities as the kids do.  It’s a huge theme for adults. There are many in-home events. A couple around the corner can be a great host and hostess. Single groups hold a big annual event. Halloween is a time to let go and have fun.  There are many costumes that are not evil; many are cute and quaint. It could also show homemade ingenuity. Dressing up could even be an opportunity to be who and what you want to be. 

Sixth, it’s community participation. For the protection of children, parents get together to provide a safe environment, sometimes indoors for the children. Our regional zoo even has a Halloween activity.   

The Point

Life can be very serious. Halloween is a chance to break the everyday mold. It’s the time to have good clean fun. I encourage you to get in the spirit.  

ANTOINETTE’S TIP SHEET*

Everyone should:
if an adult into the party spirit
1. Dress-up to show ingenuity – keep away from costumes that are evil or gory.
2. Enjoy the evening if you’re going to a Halloween party.

If with kids

1. Buy sweets to distribute to costumed children;
2. Buy or make a costume for your little spooks;
3.Give out treats with your children and make it a fun evening;
4. Check your kids’ treats on their arrival from the Halloween outing if you have your kids trick-or-treating

Trick or treat? , I say: spooky boo!

And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*
Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
ALP

PREVIEW (tentatively scheduled for Nov. 5th 2012: Next week, I will give you an update on a post commemorating November 11th – Veterans Day in the U.S. and Remembrance Day in Canada, U.K., etc. (Commonwealth). Be there! It’s the right thing to take the time to show our respects. (Editor’s Note: This is another in my continuing series on holidays and special dates.

PREVIEW (now tentatively re-scheduled for November 2012): I was at the gym recently and a fellow was explaining to a young woman (a newbee at weights and workout machines) that discipline was essential if you want to get fit and in shape. It got me to thinking about (self-) discipline to being the key to success whatever the pursuit. That week, I will upload a post on  discipline … as long as I stay disciplined enogh to write it!. Please come by to see if I managed to do it!

“Books are life; and they make life better!*”
P.S. Big News: There are still more addditions coming to my blog – Please stay tuned.
P.P.S. #1 I have a TWITTER page. Consider becoming a follower? Visit www.twitter.com –   saveandread
P.P.S. #2 I also have a FACEBOOK page. Consider becoming a friend? Visit: www.facebook.com – Alp Save Andread – please check it out.
P.P.S. #3 I am on Linkedin. Consider becoming a connection? Visit  www.linkedin.com – Antoinette La Posta
*TM/© 2012, 2011 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved.
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ANNEX I: NEED SOMETHING FURTHER?, TRY AN ANECDOTE OR A QUOTE:

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTE #1: Van Halen & Son: Pumpkinship?
One day in kindergarten music class, Eddie Van Halen’s son began improvising. Because the students had been instructed to sing Halloween songs, however, the young man was given a ‘time out’; the young man in turn picked up a pumpkin, threw it at the teacher (narrowly missing her head) and cried, “My daddy said it’s okay!” Shortly thereafter, Van Halen Sr. got a call from the principal. “I askedhim what he [the son] was doing,” Van Halen explained, “and he said singing a different melody.” Eddie later sat his son down for a little chat: “I told him next time,” Van Halen declared, “aim better!”
(Source: www.anecdotage.com) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=5222

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTE #2: Carson Daly: Trick or Treat
“I forgot, last year, that it was Halloween,” Carson Daly recalled in 2004. “The doorbell kept ringing and I thought, ‘Wow, I have a lot of people coming to my apartment tonight. It’s just weird.’ We had nothing to give out. I felt bad – you don’t want to shut out the light and not be there for the kids… but I had nothing in my apartment.” Fortunately Carson hatched a solution: “I just started giving them cigarettes.”
(Source: www.anecdotage.com) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=20421

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTE #3: Hannibal
“It’s the morning after Halloween. Taped to the door of an editing room is a reduced copy of the Hannibal poster, which has been doctored with a strip of paper near Hopkins’s mouth that reads: TRICK OR TREAT. DO YOU HAVE SOMETHING I CAN EAT? “Ridley Scott emerges from a chat with editor Pietro Scalia and Dino De Laurentiis and goes right into a meeting with members of Manhattan design studio, who’ve come to pitch ideas for the film’s opening title sequence. They present Scott with storyboards offering a tour through the chambers of Lecter’s mind and discuss using the aptly named type font: Chianti
(Source: www.anecdotage.com) –  http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=7430

S & R* QUOTE #1: Ruth Fulton Benedict
The trouble with life isn’t that there is no answer, it’s that there are so many answers.
(Source:  Wisdom Quotes) –  http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/

S & R* QUOTE #2: Sharon Salzberg
As I go through all kinds of feelings and experiences in my journey through life — delight, surprise, chagrin, dismay — I hold this question as a guiding light: “What do I really need right now to be happy?” What I come to over and over again is that only qualities as vast and deep as love, connection and kindness will really make me happy in any sort of enduring way.
(Source:  Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/index2.html

S & R* QUOTE #3: Barbara de Angelis
No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change.
(Source:  Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/index3.html

*TM/© 2012, 2011 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved.
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ANNEX II
SCHEDULE I
“IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
For today, my word/phrase(s) are: “Halloween”; “pumpkin”; etc.

Halloween
Halloween (or Hallowe’en) is an annual holiday observed on October 31, which commonly includes activities such as trick-or-treating, attending costume parties, carving jack-o’-lanterns, bonfires, apple bobbing, visiting haunted attractions, playing pranks, telling scary stories, and watching horror films.
(Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halloween

Trick-or-treating is a customary practice for children on Halloween in many countries. Children in costumes travel from house to house in order to ask for treats such as candy (or, in some cultures, money) with the question “Trick or treat?”. The “trick” is a (usually idle) threat to perform mischief on the homeowners or their property if no treat is given.
(Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trick-or-treating

Pumpkin
A pumpkin is a gourd-like squash of the genus Cucurbita and the family Cucurbitaceae (which also includes gourds).[1] It commonly refers to cultivars of any one of the species Cucurbita pepo, Cucurbita mixta, Cucurbita maxima, and Cucurbita moschata, and is native to North America. They typically have a thick, orange or yellow shell, creased from the stem to the bottom, containing the seeds and pulp.
(Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pumpkin

SCHEDULE II
STUDY/STATISTICS:
The word Halloween is first attested in the 16th century and represents a Scottish variant of the fuller All-Hallows-Even (“evening”), that is, the night before All Hallows Day.[5] Although the phrase All Hallows is found in Old English (ealra hālgena mæssedæg, mass-day of all saints), All-Hallows-Even is itself not attested until 1556.[5]Historian Nicholas Rogers, exploring the origins of Halloween, notes that while “some folklorists have detected its origins in the Roman feast of Pomona, the goddess of fruits and seeds, or in the festival of the dead called Parentalia, it is more typically linked to the Celtic festival of Samhain, whose original spelling was Samuin (pronounced sow-an or sow-in)”.[1] The name of the festival historically kept by the Gaels and celts in the British Isles which is derived from Old Irish and means roughly “summer’s end”.[1][2][ Trick-or-treating is a customary celebration for children on Halloween. Children go in costume from house to house, asking for treats such as candy or sometimes money, with the question, “Trick or treat?” The word “trick” refers to a (mostly idle) “threat” to perform mischief on the homeowners or their property if no treat is given. Halloween costumes are traditionally modeled after supernatural figures such as monsters, ghosts, skeletons, witches, and devils. Over time, the costume selection extended to include popular characters from fiction, celebrities, and generic archetypes such as ninjas and princesses.
(Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halloween)

SCHEDULE III

S & R* NEWS ALERT* #1: Hand out candy with care this Halloween

Halloween is often named one of the most exciting and fun-filled nights of the year, but for many parents, the evening also comes with anxiety about their children’s safety. As a mom of a child with severe food allergies, Erica Ehm is very familiar with the struggle many parents face on Halloween.

For years when we were trick-or-treating, my son would walk ahead of my daughter and announce to every homeowner that his sister has food allergies, as a way of protecting her before collecting their candy, Ehm explained. It can be a nerve-wracking night because you never know what your child may come into contact with, but you also want them to experience the joy of getting dressed up and trick-or-treating.

According to Anaphylaxis Canada, one in two Canadians know someone with a serious food allergy and a peanut allergy affects about two in 100 children (www.anaphylaxis.ca). So naturally, Halloween can be especially daunting given the amount of food that is passed out and potentially in contact with someone who is allergic.

To help ease concern and let kids focus on having fun, this year, Nestlé is asking Canadians to Paint the Town Red to let children and parents know that the treats they are handing out are made in a peanut-free facility. To get involved, look for the iconic red Nestlé Assorted box, filled with snack size Kit Kat, Aero, Smarties and Coffee Crisp bars. Place the box where it is visible to trick-or-treaters so they can recognize that you are handing out treats made in a peanut-free facility. You can even get your whole neighbourhood involved with the program. Visit YummyMummyClub.ca and if you make a pledge to provide treats made in a peanut-free facility, your name will be entered into a contest to win a supply of Nestlé Assorted for your entire street up to 50 households.

Erica Ehm points out the value of getting the whole neighbourhood involved to make Halloween fun and safe for all children.

Imagine the fun kids will have scoring the treats they know and love at every home, she says. But also knowing that the red box is committed to providing a safe product for my daughter and one that she already loves to eat means such a lot to me. I hope every house participates. www.newscanada.com

S & R NEWS ALERT* #2:  Grandmother shares wildlife adoption bond with grandkis – Keep your haunted home safe for Hallween by Glenn Cooper

Eerie sounds, spooky lights and jack-o’-lanterns glowextra efforts at Halloween will keep visitors coming back for both tricks and treats. To keep the fun going, however, it’s important to plan your home’s scary set-up with safety in mind.

Decorations for special events, most often involving candles, such as those found in jack-o’-lanterns, account for an average of 800 home fires in North America, causing nearly $4 million in direct property damage every year.

To keep your house from being haunted with potential insurance woes, Wayne Ross, insurance and claims expert for Aviva Canada, offers some Halloween preparation tips for preventing fires and other insurance claims.

Practice fire safety: When setting up spooky electrical decorations and lighting, ensure that electrical outlets are not overloaded. Consider battery or solar powered jack-o’-lanterns.

Make sure your walkways are safe: Although darkness may set the Halloween mood, keep walkways well lit and obstruction free to reduce the risk of injury and allow many guests to walk through simultaneously.

* Check your insurance coverage: While homeowner policies will generally cover you and your property during Halloween, it is a good idea to contact your insurance broker to ensure you have the right amount of coverage especially with hundreds of visitors to your home.

It is the responsibility of homeowners to make sure their property is safe for visitors during the Halloween festivities, Ross explained. By taking some precautions, homeowners can join in the Halloween celebrations and enjoy a safe night of festive fun with their families.

Additional information can be found at www.avivacanada.com. www.newscanada.com

*TM/© 2012, 2011 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved

Posted by on October 22nd, 2012 4 Comments

BREAST CANCER: symptoms, treatment, statistics, stages, etc. – I run to say that it’s Breast Cancer Awareness Month!*

Vol. 3, No.27, Sunday, October 14, 2012

TITLE: “BREAST CANCER: symptoms, treatment, statistics, stages, etc. – I run to say that it’s Breast Cancer Awareness Month!*”

INTRODUCTION

October is “Breast Cancer Awareness Month”. This illness is one of the worst cancers for women.  My subject today is then Breast Cancer. My book of the week is “The Complete Natural Medicine Guide to Breast Cancer: A Practical Manual for Understanding, Prevention and Care” by Dr. Sat Dharam Kaur ND. (Editor’s Note: This is another of a series on holidays and special dates.) 

ANTOINETTE’S LIFE & TIMES*

Me, myself and I: Every two years my doctor sends me for a mammogram screening.  It is important to get checked regularly.  Early detection could save your life. A few years ago, I was called back after one of my screenings.  I was told that one of the x-rays was not clear and needed to be redone.  Little did I know, that further evaluation of masses found on the mammography was being done with advanced equipment.  Fortunately, everything on the x-ray was normal.

Family & friends: One of my girlfriends had breast cancer and survived it.  The doctor found a lump in her breast and sent her for a mammogram screening.  She was diagnosed with breast cancer.  She had an operation and then chemotherapy.  Thankfully years later, she is healthy and cancer-free.

Research:  Although I’m not personally involved in fund raising, I always make a donation for breast cancer research.

THE AUTHOR: Sat Dharam Kaur, ND

Sat Dharam Kaur, ND is a naturopathic. In her practice, she  specializes in the prevention and treatment of breast cancer. She is an activist. Due to a worldwide reputation as a teacher (at her naturopathic college), she has been a featured speaker at The World Conferences on Breast Cancer. She also lectures on breast health.

SERIES/COLLECTION

Books/Articles:

Several are:

THE BOOK: The Complete Natural Medicine Guide to Breast Cancer: A Practical Manual for Understanding, Prevention and Care by Dr. Sat Dharam Kaur ND (Paperback – Feb 7 2004)

Dr. Sat Dharam Kaur ND understands the risk of developing breast cancer. She also recognizes that many women still have a limited knowledge of the causes of breast cancer and preferred measures to take in prevention. She wrote the book: The Complete Natural Medicine Guide to Breast Cancer. She bases her statements and recommendations upon the research studies and clinical evidence then available.

Some of the subjects covered are: (a) Comprehensive explanations for the causes of breast cancer — hereditary, hormonal, environmental; (b) Identifiable environmental risks; (c) Self help detoxification programs, diet plans and herbal recommendations; (d) Natural medicine strategies which complement conventional medical treatments and promote recovery; (e) Psychological support; etc.

She speaks of exercises. She includes worksheets for breast care – an example is The Breast Health Balance Sheet, an extensive questionnaire, which is an aid to determine risk factors.

Her tone is compassionate and  her style makes it easier to grasp the material.

CONCLUSION

We must beat this deadly disease. We are resolute …  we will get it done!

Personal Comments

I say:

  • That for me, the first step is not to smoke, eat healthy, drink in moderation, exercise and regularly have a breast examination.
  • That doctors are now recommending that a mother breast feed her infants.  This wasn’t the case when I had my babies.  Breast feeding may prevent breast cancer.  It makes sense to me as this is a natural way to feed an infant.
  • That fundraising is necessary in order to fund research. Scientists are so close but not yet there.  Finding a cure for breast cancer is so important. It could save millions of lives. 

The Point

We need to beat breast cancer. We must come together in order to get the word out …. so that every woman can learn about breast cancer and we will all pitch in with our dollars so that we may find the cure in our lifetime. Individually, we need to live healthy, become knowledgeable about this disease and make a donation.  

ANTOINETTE’S TIP SHEET*

Every woman should:

  1. Help with fundraising:  marathons, bake sales, organize a benefit/Gala, etc .
  2. Do a self-examination weekly
  3. Get a mammogram screening regularly
  4. Give donations to Breast Cancer Organizations
  5. Help someone with breast cancer

Women need to address breast cancer at once … and each one of us must play a part! Yes, we can!*  

And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*
Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
ALP
“Books are life; and they make life better!*”

PREVIEW (tentatively scheduled for Oct.22,2012): On Oct.31, 2012, it will be Halloween.  I will do an update of my post titled, “Halloween Party, Costumes, Games: I say boo!*- UPDATE 2012″ (Editor’s Note: This is another of a series on holidays and special dates first published on October 30th 2011 )

PREVIEW (now tentatively re-scheduled for November 2012): I was at the gym recently and a fellow was explaining to a young woman (a newbee at weights and workout machines) that discipline was essential if you want to get fit and in shape. It got me to thinking about (self-) discipline to being the key to success whatever the pursuit. Next week, I will upload a post on  discipline…as long as I stay disciplined enogh to write it!. Please come by to see if I managed to do it!

P.S. Big News: There are big changes FINALLY coming to my blog – Please stay tuned.

P.P.S. #1 I have a TWITTER page. Consider becoming a follower? Visit www.twitter.com –   saveandread
P.P.S. #2 I also have a FACEBOOK page. Consider becoming a friend? Visit: www.facebook.com – Alp Save Andread – please check it out.
P.P.S. #3 I am on Linkedin. Consider becoming a connection? Visit  www.linkedin.com – Antoinette La Posta

CREDITS

-Web Tech:  richmediasound.com

The above is a new media production of Valente under its “United Author*” program.
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NEED SOMETHING FURTHER? TRY SAVE AND READ* (S&R*) BACKGROUNDER: ANTOINETTE’S 1, 2, 3, & 4

ONE – “I SHOULD HAVE SAID THAT!*” – QUOTES
S & R* QUOTE #1:
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

It’s only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth– and that we have no way of knowing when our own time is up –that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had.” (Source: Wisdom Quotes) –  http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/index3.html)

S & R* QUOTE #2: Sir Julian Huxley

« There are two ways of living: a man may be casual and simply exist, or constructively and deliberately try to do so. The constructive idea implies a constructiveness not only about one’s own life, but about that of society, and the future possibilities of mankind. » (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/index3.html)

S & R* QUOTE #3: Jonathan Swift

“May you live all the days of your life.” (Source: Wisdom Quotes) -http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/life/index3.html

TWO – “IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
For today, my word/phrase(s) are: “breast cancer”; “mammogram”

Breast Cancer

“Breast cancer is a type of cancer originating from breast tissue, most commonly from the inner lining of milk ducts or the lobules that supply the ducts with milk.[1](Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breast_cancer

Mammography

“Mammography is the process of using low-energy-X-rays (usually around 30 kVp) to examine the human breast and is used as a diagnostic and a screening tool. The goal of mammography is the early detection of breast cancer, typically through detection of characteristic masses and/or microcalcifications.” (Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mammography)

THREE – STUDY/STATISTICS:

“Worldwide, breast cancer comprises 22.9% of all cancers (excluding non-melanoma skin cancers) in women.[5] In 2008, breast cancer caused 458,503 deaths worldwide (13.7% of cancer deaths in women).[5] Breast cancer is more than 100 times more common in women than in men, although men tend to have poorer outcomes due to delays in diagnosis.[6][7]

Prognosis and survival rates for breast cancer vary greatly depending on the cancer type, stage, treatment, and geographical location of the patient. Survival rates in the Western world are high;[6] for example, more than 8 out of 10 women (84%) in England diagnosed with breast cancer survive for at least 5 years.[8] In developing countries, however, survival rates are much poorer.

The first noticeable symptom of breast cancer is typically a lump that feels different from the rest of the breast tissue. More than 80% of breast cancer cases are discovered when the woman feels a lump.[9] The earliest breast cancers are detected by a mammogram.[10] Lumps found in lymph nodes located in the armpits[9] can also indicate breast cancer.

The primary risk factors for breast cancer are female sex and older age.[19] Other potential risk factors include: lack of childbearing or breastfeeding,[20] higher hormone levels,[21][22] diet and obesity.

Smoking tobacco appears to increase the risk of breast cancer with the greater the amount of smoked and the earlier in life smoking began the higher the risk.[23] In those who are long term smokers the risk is increased 35% to 50%.[23] A lack of physical activity has been linked to ~10% of cases.[24]

The World Cancer Research Fund indicated that women can reduce their risk of breast cancer by maintaining a healthy weight, drinking less alcohol, being physically active and breastfeeding their children.[63] These modifications might prevent 38% of breast cancers in the US, 42% in the UK, 28% in Brazil and 20% in China.[63] The benefits with moderate exercise such as brisk walking are seen at all age groups including postmenopausal women.[63][64]” (Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia) –  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breast_cancer)

FOUR – BONUS ARTICLES

S & R*NEWS ALERT*#1: Mushrooms Go PINK in support of breast cancer research – Breast cancer, pink ribbons and mushrooms; what’s the connection?

“Fall 2012 – Breast cancer is the most common cancer in Canadian women. According to the Canadian Cancer Society, in 2010 an estimated 23,200 women were diagnosed with breast cancer, and sadly 5,300 will die of it. Breast cancer has touched most of our lives and we’ve all seen, firsthand, how devastating it can be, says Nick Pora, past President of Mushrooms Canada. Personally speaking, I watched my sister-in-law courageously battle breast cancer. It’s in everyone’s family or circles of friends, and that’s why I’m so proud that Canadian mushroom farmers and the Breast Cancer Society of Canada are working together again to raise research dollars. Mushrooms Go Pink From September 24th to November 10th, you will find fresh Canadian mushrooms packed in pink trays with a pink ribbon on the label, says Frank Moscone, President of Mushrooms Canada. For every pound of mushrooms sold in the pink packages, Canadian mushroom farmers will make a contribution to the Breast Cancer Society of Canada. Looking for other ways to help? Log onto Facebook and join the Mushrooms Go Pink group. For every person who joins the group on Facebook, Mushrooms Canada will donate $0.10, to a maximum of $5000.00, to the Breast Cancer Society of Canada. In 2010 and 2011, mushroom growers contributed over $120,000 to the BCSC based on a $0.01 per lb. of fresh mushrooms packaged in Pink Tills. The Breast Cancer Society of Canada is absolutely thrilled to once again be part of Mushrooms Go PINK. We look forward to a successful 2011 – Dawn Hamilton, Fund Development Coordinator for BCSC.

The Power of Mushrooms What exactly is the connection between mushrooms and breast cancer? Reports by Dr. Shiuan Chen of the City of Hope Cancer Centre in Los Angeles state that fresh mushrooms may have anti-tumour properties. Mushrooms contain Conjugated Linoleic Acid; and CLA suppresses a natural substance in the body called aromatase. By blocking aromatase, physicians can reduce the levels of circulating estrogen in post-menopausal women. That is important because, according to the Canadian Cancer Society, high levels of estrogen are associated with a higher risk of breast cancer. Diet is a key consideration for disease prevention because it is something that everyone can control, says Dr. Chen. Our research shows that women may benefit from a balanced diet, which includes about 3.5 ounces of mushrooms per day. White button, portabella, crimini and shiitake mushrooms showed significant inhibitory effects with large mushrooms having the strongest activity.

Fresh Mushrooms Good for Life Even though they look simple, mushrooms have a whole lot going for them in the nutrition department. A great way to add some tasty nutrients to everyday meals is to include fresh mushrooms. One hundred grams (100 g) of fresh mushrooms count as 1 serving of Fruits & Vegetables. Mushrooms are also low in calories, carbs and fat, they provide vitamins, minerals, fibre, antioxidants, and are the only vegetable with Vitamin D. Not to mention they have no cholesterol or sodium. For more information on breast cancer & mushrooms, nutrition tips, and delicious recipes visit www.MushroomsGoPINK.ca.”www.newscanada.com

S & R*NEWS ALERT*#2: Turn fall festivities into a fundraiser

“Fall is an ideal time to get back to cooking comfort foods, reconnecting with loved ones after summer trips and appreciating the beauty the season has to offer. Fall is the perfect opportunity to host a gathering, and since October is breast cancer awareness month why not support a great cause while you do it host a Cook for the Cure party. Whether it’s an intimate candlelit dinner or full-fledged family affair – here are a few tips to get your party started:

1. Host a party for a cause October is Breast Cancer Awareness month and a great time to turn entertaining into fundraising by hosting a Cook for the Cure party. Cook for the Cure, presented by KitchenAid asks guests to make a donation to the Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation in place of a traditional hostess gift. The size of the donation is up to your guests. Register your party at www.cookforthecure.ca and KitchenAid Canada will donate $50 to help the cause. All proceeds support research, education, community care, and advocacy to create a future without breast cancer.

2. Pick your theme A festive theme sets your fête apart. Whether you go classic autumn with rich colours or stick to a monochromatic look, once you determine the look the rest of the party will fall into place. Add fun touches like placing planters and urns outside to welcome guests and kick the party off on the right foot. Whether you go with casual or formal, trendy or traditional, a festive theme will help bring your seasonal party to life.

3. Set the mood Music sets the tone of the event. Spend time crafting the perfect playlist to put your guests in the party spirit.

4. Make it personal From customized drink skewers to personalized place cards, dress up your party with thoughtful details that leave a lasting impression. Mini pumpkins and gourds will add a pop of colour to your table. Write guests’ names on business card sized pieces of paper and attach with a pushpin and you’ll have place cards that serve double duty as a takeaway after the dinner.

More information is online at www.pinterest.com/KitchenAidCa and at www.facebook.com/kitchenaidcanada.” www.newscanada.com

*TM/© 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved.

Posted by on October 14th, 2012 2 Comments

NATIONAL GRANDPARENT’S DAY: There are quotes and precious memories – I say that with the joys and rewards of grand parenthood, everyday is our special day!*

Vol. 3, No.26, Tuesday, October 9, 2012

TITLE: “NATIONAL GRANDPARENT’S DAY: There are quotes and precious memories – I say that with the joys and rewards of grand parenthood, everyday is our special day!*

INTRODUCTION

Now that I am a “Nonna” (Grandmother in Italian) , I am more aware of what it feels to be grandparents. It is relatively new that grandparents have been given a special day to be acknowledged by their families. In the U.K., it is the first week of October. In Australia, it is later this month.  In North America, it is celebrated after Labor Day.  I feel well-suited to speak to my grandparent peers and also our adult children and their darling kids – our precious grand-kids. Hence my subject is the joy and rewards of being grandparents. My book of the week is  “Gifts of Being Grand: For Grandparents Everywhere” [Hardcover] by Marianne Richmond (Author).  (Editor’s Note: This is another of a series on holidays and special dates.) 

ANTOINETTE’S LIFE & TIMES*

My paternal grandparents:  Unfortunately I never met my father’s parents.  My grandmother died when I was a child and my grandfather lived in Italy and I never had the opportunity to meet him.  I understand that they were wonderful parents to my father and they were dearly loved.  My grandparents always sent gifts with loving notes.

My maternal grandparents:  My mother’s parents immigrated to Canada when I was a young teenager.  I had a good relationship with them and I feel blessed to have had them in my life.  I especially loved my grandmother.  I remember her as being a kind, loving, beautiful human being.  She had Snow White hair, wore glasses and always wore an apron when she was at home.  When I went to visit, she made me her special coffee.  Although the coffee was very strong and gave me heartburn, I never refused it.  Her smile warmed my heart. 

My parents (my daughters’ grandparents): My Mom and Dad were generous, kind and loving grandparents to all their grandchildren.  My mother was also fortunate to know her great grandchildren.  She had their photos on her kitchen counter. She gazed at them often. I could see that just thinking of them made her happy. She spoke of them with great pride.    

Me: Now I am a Grandma – “Nonna” in Italian. Beforehand, I thought that it would make me feel old.  But instead, now with my grandchildren, I feel like a kid again. When I’m having a bad day, the thought of my grandchildren puts a smile on my face.  When I’m with my grandkids, my focus is on them. I’m enjoying every minute I spend with my grandchildren. Indeed, I am proud to be “Nonna”; and I cherish my quality time with them.

THE AUTHOR: Marianne Richmond

Marianne Richmond is a self-taught creative writer and a talented artist. In 1991, she started her own publishing company called Marianne Richmond Studios.  Her greeting cards and gift books are distributed worldwide.  Married with four children, Richmond lives in St. Anthony, MN. 

SERIES/COLLECTION

Books/Articles:

To name a few, several are:

THE BOOK: “Gifts of Being Grand: For Grandparents Everywhere” [Hardcover] by Marianne Richmond (Author)

This book is for grandparents in the future and those already there. Richmond reminds us of our time as parents. This is nostalgia, but bitter sweet as some of us missed out on fully enjoying their time with them due to their being too busy with career, earning a living and raising a family. Her message is that we have a second chance. She uses poetry and illustrations to describe grandparenthood. Richmond recognizes the joys and rewards of this special relationship. It`s a time for patience, adventure and fun. This book can serve as reference material for grandparents everywhere. It can also be a celebration of and a tribute to being grandparents. If gifted, it would probably be a token of love and a treasured keepsake.

CONCLUSION 

It has been said that we love our grandchildren more than our own children. Not true … we are just more relaxed and have the time to enjoy it more.  

Grand means great – magnificent – splendid. The word, “grandparent” is properly named being a grandparent is all that and more. If you`re a grandparent, you’re lucky and blessed. 

Personal Comments

I say:

  • That it’s hard for me to say “NO” to my grandkids.  In all honesty, we, as grandparents, need to consider our children when we’re spoiling the grandkids.  They’re the ones that have to deal with them later. 
  • That seeing my grandchildren growing up brings back memories of my daughters. Due to demands of work and the household, I sometimes felt that I couldn`t be with them as much I wanted. It’s another story with grandkids.  The time you have may be limited, you should make it count – it’s really valuable.
  • That being a grandparent is not only fun and games. On the other side of the coin, there are grandparents, because of circumstances, who have adopted their grandchildren.  Although I would do the same if put in such a situation, it must be very difficult to do so.  The energy level is not the same.  To assume this responsibility at a later age puts everybody concerned in a difficult position.  

The Point 

Becoming a grandparent is an opportunity to love and be loved and a chance for joy and happiness. Don`t squander it. Enjoy it to the fullest!

ANTOINETTE’S TIP SHEET* 

Every grandparent should:

1.      Visit with your grandchildren as often as you can

2.      Make plans to take them to the park, the zoo, lunch, a picnic or a show

3.      Play games together – board games are fun

4.      Buy an age-appropriate kid’s movie to watch

5.      Attend their school shows, sport games, musical recitals

6.      Have a baking day with grandma

7.      Go for a walk

8.      Call the kids just to ask how they are

9.        (Even if they don`t give you directions how to be a grandparent), be loving and protective and you`ll be grand at it!

Sorry, that’s it – you see I got to go … I’m babysitting. What a joy!

And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*
Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
ALP
“Books are life; and they make life better!*”

PREVIEW (tentatively scheduled for Oct. 15th 2012): I was at the gym recently and a fellow was explaining to a young woman (a newbee at weights and workout machines) that discipline was essential if you want to get fit and in shape. It got me to thinking about (self-) discipline to being the key to success whatever the pursuit. Next week, I will upload a post on  discipline…as long as I stay disciplined enogh to write it!. Please come by to see if I managed to do it!

PREVIEW (tentatively scheduled for Oct.22,2012): On Oct.31, 2012, it will be Halloween.  I will do an update of my post titled, “Halloween Party, Costumes, Games: I say boo!*- UPDATE 2012″ (Editor’s Note: This is another of a series on holidays and special dates first published on October 30th 2011 )

P.S. Big News: There are big changes FINALLY coming to my blog – Please stay tuned.

P.P.S. #1 I have a TWITTER page. Consider becoming a follower? Visit www.twitter.com –   saveandread
P.P.S. #2 I also have a FACEBOOK page. Consider becoming a friend? Visit: www.facebook.com – Alp Save Andread – please check it out.
P.P.S. #3 I am on Linkedin. Consider becoming a connection? Visit  www.linkedin.com – Antoinette La Posta

CREDITS

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NEED SOMETHING FURTHER? TRY SAVE AND READ* (S&R*) BACKGROUNDER: ANTOINETTE’S 1, 2, 3 & 4

ONE – “I SHOULD HAVE SAID THAT!*” – QUOTES

S & R* QUOTE #1: Charles Dickens  It was the best of times, it was the worst of times; it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness; it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity; it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness; it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair; we had everything before us, we had nothing before us; we were all going directly to Heaven, we were all going the other way.” (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/wisdom/) 

S & R* QUOTE #2: Albert Einstein 

It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer.” (Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/wisdom/) 

S & R* QUOTE #3: Abraham Lincoln 

I do not think much of a man who is not wiser today than he was yesterday.” (Source: Wisdom Quotes) –  http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/wisdom/index2.html)

TWO – “IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
For today, my word/phrase(s) are: “grandparent”; “National Grandparent’s Day”

“Grandparents are the parents of a person’s own parent, whether that be a father or a mother.?” (Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grandparent

“National Grandparent’s Day is a secular holiday celebrated in the United States since 1978 and officially recognized in a number of countries on various days of the year, either as one holiday or sometimes as a separate Grandmothers Day and Grandfathers Day (see below for dates by country).” (Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_Grandparents_Day)

THREE – STUDY/STATISTICS:

Marian McQuade of Oak Hill, West Virginia, has been recognized nationally by the United States Senate – in particular by Senators Jennings Randolph;[1] and Robert Byrd – and by President Jimmy Carter, as the founder of National Grandparents Day. McQuade made it her goal to educate the youth in the community[clarification needed] about the important contributions seniors have made throughout history. She also urged the youth to “adopt” a grandparent, not just for one day a year, but rather for a lifetime.

In February 1977, Senator Randolph, with the concurrence of many other senators, introduced a Joint Resolution to the Senate requesting the President to “issue annually a proclamation designating the first Sunday of September after Labor Day of each year as ‘National Grandparents Day’.” Congress passed the legislation proclaiming the first Sunday after Labor Day as National Grandparents Day and, on August 3, 1978, then-President Jimmy Carter signed the proclamation.[2][3] The statute cites the day’s purpose as: “…to honor grandparents, to give grandparents an opportunity to show love for their children’s children, and to help children become aware of strength, information, and guidance older people can offer”.

Some people claim[weasel words] the origin of the holiday resides with the efforts[clarification needed] of Hermine Beckett Hanna of North Syracuse, New York, recognizing seniors and their importance as early as 1961. On February 21, 1990, New York Congressman James T. Walsh recognized the efforts[clarification needed] of Hermine Beckett Hanna in front of the U.S. House of Representatives, thanking her “for her important role in the establishment of Grandparents Day”.[4] (Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia) – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_Grandparents_Day)

Canada

“National Grandparents Day began in Canada in 1995. Motion Number 273 submitted in the House of Commons by Mr. Sarkis Assadourian read:

That, in the opinion of this House, the government should consider designating the second Sunday in September of each year as grandparents day in order to acknowledge their importance to the structure of the family in the nurturing, upbringing and education of children.[13]

United States

National Grandparents Day in the U.S. is the first Sunday after Labor Day, in September. It falls on September 9, 2012, then September 8, 2013.

The holiday is expected to grow in significance over the next decade and beyond as the number of grandparents in the United States rises from 65 million in 2011 to 80 million in 2020[16] as a result of the baby boom. Grandparents in America are also increasingly responsible for child care and support. In 2012 30% of children under five with working mothers were cared for on a regular basis by a grandparent.[17](Source: Wikipedia the free encyclopedia) –

FOUR – BONUS ARTICLES

S & R*NEWS ALERT*#1: Grandparents: Give your grandchildren the gift of an education

“They say it’s more fun being a grandparent than a parent because you can spoil the kids and then send them home. Birthdays are particularly exciting, with many grandparents showering gifts on their grateful grandkids. In fact, a BMO Financial Group study revealed that more than 70 per cent of Canadians give their grandchildren, godchildren, nephews and nieces an average of $100 in monetary gifts annually.

With the cost of a four-year university degree costing upwards of $60,000, grandparents can help by earmarking some of those cash gifts for post-secondary education. One of the most sensible vehicles is a Registered Education Savings Plan (RESP), which works best when opened as soon as that cute grandchild is born. Small chunks add up, with government grants and compounding returns adding significantly to total savings.

The government offers a Canadian Education Savings Grant of 20 per cent, up to a maximum of $500 annually, on all RESP contributions. An annual RESP contribution of $2,500 results in the maximum grant.

The grant is what sets RESPs apart. A grant is like free money, or you can also think of it as an immediate 20 per cent return on your RESP contribution, said Robert Armstrong, Vice President, Managed Solutions and Registered Plans Strategy, BMO Investments Inc.

BMO offers these tips for grandparents: 

Start early – Ask for the baby’s Social Insurance Number and open an RESP to get a head start on savings.

Up the ante – If the child already has an RESP, gift the money to the parent or open a separate RESP.

Think beyond cash – Including investments such as mutual funds, exchange traded funds (ETFs) and guaranteed investment certificates (GICs) in your RESP can maximize the potential for growth.” For more information on RESPs, please visit: www.bmo.com/resp. www.newscanada.com 

S & R*NEWS ALERT*#2: Toys or Tuition? Give great gifts to your grandchildren

“ One of the great joys of being a grandparent is spoiling your grandchildren. Watching them unwrap the latest toy sparks a light in your eyes, as well as theirs. Greater still and certainly longer-lasting is the pride and joy of watching your grandchildren play, and learn, and grow into accomplished scholars and professionals.

Since it’s a full-time job keeping up with changing tastes and the latest trends in toys, the next time a birthday or holiday rolls around, consider giving your grandchildren the gift of education. Registered Education Savings Plans (RESPs) are a simple and effective way to give students a leg up when it comes time to enroll in post-secondary education.

18 years from now, the costs of a university education, including tuition, room and board is expected to top $100,000, says Peter Lewis, a vice president with the Canadian Scholarship Trust Foundation (CST), one of the leading providers of RESPs in Canada. This is just one reason why it’s so important for families to invest in RESPs early and regularly.

According to the federal government, 70 per cent of the new jobs being created in Canada require a post-secondary education, he continues.

By investing in RESPs, you’ll also teach your grandchildren a very important lesson about the value of a long-term savings strategy for big expenses like a car, a home, or even their own retirement. So what’s the best way to climb the $100,000 mountain?

That’s the $64,000 question, says Lewis. It all depends on your financial situation and expected needs, so it’s important to speak with a knowledgeable RESP professional.

Professionals who specialize in RESPs can counsel you on all the details, including how registered plans can grow tax free , and the several ways the government will add to your investment and increase its value.

Piece by piece, it all adds up. They say it takes a village to raise a child, but who needs a village when there are grandparents?”www.newscanada.com

*TM/© 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved.

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“THANKSGIVING DAY: I like dinner, sales, offers – don’t you*” – UPDATE 2012

Vol. 3, No.25, Monday, October 1st 2012

TITLE: “THANKSGIVING DAY: I like dinner, sales, offers – don’t you*” – UPDATE 2012

INTRODUCTION
 
Now that fall has fallen, we in Canada are looking forward to OUR Thanksgiving holiday. This rite of autumn is on the 2nd Monday in October.  (Americans celebrate Thanksgiving Day on the 4th Thursday in November.)

Now, trying to figure out when everyone will be available, it got me thinking about the meaning of the holiday. My book of the week is: “Thanksgiving: The Biography of an American Holiday” [Paperback] James W. Baker (Author), Peter J. Gomes (Contributor). Hence, my subject is Thanksgiving, the American day.  (Editor’s Note: This is another of a series on holidays and special dates first published on November 20, 2011(Vol. 2, No. 26).
  
ANTOINETTE`S LIFE & TIMES*
 
The difference in the holiday north and south of the border is not only the date.

Canadians identify more with the European festivities, celebrating the abundance of the harvest and having enough food for the winter. Our holiday comes first to Canada since it is more north and the harvest comes earlier in the year. A huge feast, soup-to –nuts, is the central event.

Thanksgiving, American style, to some extent, is a bigger celebration than in Canada. The holiday extends longer than ours. Beyond a feast of never-ending courses and calories, this is the time to pay tribute to the pilgrims in the new land. It also means a family reunion, people coming from far and wide. It is further about watching football and later shopping on Black Friday. While I have heard that Thanksgiving is almost more important than Christmas Day, I think that that’s not so with Canadians. 

Personally, this day means getting together with loved ones for a big meal. Most of the time, I am doing the cooking. I will start early. It’s turkey of course – that is the main course. The stuffing is the usual side dish.  Further sides include: mashed potatoes and the vegetable, rapini, the Italian way. A big chef’s salad is next. Apple pie or pecan pie plus ice cream top it all off.       

But enough about me; there are many Canadians who travel to the United States. A friend of mine never misses shopping on Black Friday.  She plans a little trip every year south of the border to shop on this bargain day.  According to her, the bargains are unbelievable.  She gets most of her Christmas shopping done then. It’s too much trouble for me.  I really like sales like the next gal, but waiting in line for hours to get into the store and the big crowds is not my idea of fun. 

Update October 1, 2012

In years past, although it was not one of her celebrations, my dear mother appreciated being invited for Thanksgiving dinner. It was so joyful for us to be all together.

This year, I will again be the hostess. My daughters and their family will join us for this holiday. You see, my Mom passed away this past year. This is the first time that we will celebrate without my dear mother. I will be thinking of her during this family day.

THE AUTHOR: James Robert Baker (October 18, 1946 – November 5, 1997) 
James Robert Baker was an author, gay and proud, in a straight- back Republican California. He was talented and had a good literary eye, yet he did not achieve the success he was seeking in his lifetime. He is also a tragic figure as he committed suicide.

SERIES/COLLECTION

Books/Articles:
Some of his books are:
  • Adrenaline (1985) Signet Books/New American Library ISBN 978-0-451-13563-
  • Fuel-Injected Dreams (1986) E. P. Dutton ISBN 978-0-525-24417-
  • Boy Wonder (1988) New American Library ISBN 978-0-453-00597-5
  • Tim and Pete (1993) Simon and Schuster ISBN 978-0-671-79184-1
  • Right Wing (1996, only published on the Internet)
  • Testosterone (published posthumously 2000) Alyson Publications ISBN 978-1-55583-567-5
  • Anarchy (published posthumously 2002) Alyson Publications ISBN 978-1-55583-743-3
     

THE BOOK: Thanksgiving: The Biography of an American Holiday [Paperback] James W. Baker (Author), Peter J. Gomes (Contributor)

Thanksgiving is a happy day. In the USA, Thanksgiving is one very big deal. Baker understands this.  He wrote a book about Thanksgiving. I chose it this week. He examines the holiday from myths, historical origins to religious themes. Victorian thinking meets the pilgrims from the Mayflower and the colonial lands and also Native Americana. It goes beyond the superficial. Think of it in terms of turkey. He gets to the meat … right into the stuffing. You get EVERYTHING you wanted to know about the American Thanksgiving, but your mouth was too full to ask.  It works for me.  If you wondered about what is behind the big meal and hoopla, check it out!

CONCLUSION

Thanksgiving is the time to give thanks for a successful harvest, family, good friends and everything we have.

Personal Comments

I say:

  • That while Canadians and Americans celebrate differently, it still boils down to the same thing … giving thanks and being with family, even extended family, plus dear friends. 

The Point

Thanksgiving Day is an important day regardless where, why or how it’s celebrated.  Wherever you are, join with family and make it memorable!

Inviting acquaintances to the family meal is a good deed. It will be appreciated. Giving cans of vegetables and other foods to your local food bank is another. It will be appreciated. 

From all of us in Canada to all of you in the U.S.A. and all over the world, we wish you and yours, a VERY Happy Thanksgiving! 

ANTOINETTE’S TIP SHEET*
Everyone should:

1. Note that Thanksgiving is about taking pause to recognize the blessings received; it’s also about saying thank you.

1.1 Donate canned goods, etc. to your local food bank for those less fortunate.

2. Invite close relatives as this is an opportunity of family coming together to spend quality time.  

3. Create traditions – it’s great fun!  

4. Include friends as this is a good deed bringing much joy to the invited.

5. Put hurts aside … try to get along … it’s better together

6. Remember celebrations are not everyday … enjoy it!

7. Eat less the day before as the day of … is non-stop scoffing.

8. Watch sports on TV or play board games or some such.

9. Prepare for the Great Mall excursion that is Black Friday; to this end.

9.1 Rest up,

9.2 Wear comfortable clothes and walking shoes,

9.3 Check your wallet, 

10. Call or send a card to loved ones and dear friends far and wide.

Here are a few verbs for this day – choose from these in the appropriate order:  gobble, gobble, stuff, mash, chew, spend, watch, spend, eat, etc., and enjoy!*   

And that’s my thought of the week on books, what’s yours?*
Take it out for a spin and tell me if you agree.
ALP

PREVIEW (tentatively scheduled for Oct 9th 2012): Now that I am a “Nonna” (Grandmother in Italian) , I am more aware of what it feels to be grandparents. It is relatively new that we have been given a special day when grandparents are acknowledged. In the U.K., it is the first week of October. In Australia, it is later this month.  In North America, it is celebrated after Labor Day.  I feel well-suited to speak to my grandparent peers and also our adult children and their darling kids – our precious grand-kids. See you next week. I will be here except if I am baby sitting. (Editor’s Note: This is another of a series on holidays and special dates.)

PREVIEW (tentatively scheduled for Oct.22,2012): On Oct.31, 2012, it will be Halloween.  I will do an update of my post titled, “Halloween Party, Costumes, Games: I say boo!*- UPDATE 2012” (Editor’s Note: This is another of a series on holidays and special dates first published on October 30th 2011 )

“Books are life; and they make life better!*”

 P.S. Big News: Did you see my new Home Page … check it out! Please tell me what you think. There are more big changes coming to my blog – please stay tuned. 

P.P.S. #1 I have a TWITTER page. Consider becoming a follower? Visit www.twitter.com –   saveandread
P.P.S. #2 I also have a FACEBOOK page. Consider becoming a friend? Visit: www.facebook.com – Alp Save Andread – please check it out.
P.P.S. #3 I am on Linkedin. Consider becoming a connection? Visit  www.linkedin.com – Antoinette La Posta 

CREDITS

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The above is a new media production of Valente under its “United Author*” program.
*TM/© 2011, 2012 Practitioners’ Press Inc. – All Rights Reserved.
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ANNEX I: NEED SOMETHING FURTHER? TRY AN ANECDOTE OR A QUOTE:

S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTE #1: Plastic Presidency?
“Shortly after George W. Bush’s surprise Thanksgiving Day visit to troops in Baghdad in November 2003, photographs flashed around the world depicting the smiling president offering a platter with a huge, succulent turkey to US soldiers. Some time later, it was revealed that the turkey in the photograph was in fact a fake “model” which had adorned the end of the buffet line. Moreover, soldiers had been served their meals using standard cafeteria-style trays. Though the event was obviously carefully scripted, White House officials told the Washington Post that they had not been aware of a “trophy” turkey. Asked whether the turkey was genuine, Bush spokesman Scott McClellan wisely deflected attention to the White House Christmas tree which was about to be unveiled: “The tree today,” he said, “as far as I know, is real.”  (Source:  Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=16259)
 
S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTE #2: Thanksgiving Day Gift
“On November 25, 1993, the Miami Dolphins met the Dallas Cowboys in a memorable Thanksgiving day NFL football game. “Pro Bowler Leon Lett’s biggest lowlight came when he handed all-but-beaten Miami a holiday victory. With 15 seconds left and Dallas up by two, the Cowboys blocked a field goal, causing the ball to sputter and drop at the seven-yard line — apparently sealing a Cowboy victory. That is, until clueless Lett inexplicably slid into the pigskin, making it a live ball that the Fins immediately recovered. Miami nailed an easy field goal on the next play as time expired, stuffing the ‘Boys and giving Dallas fans a lot less to be thankful for.” (Source: Wisdom Quotes) ` http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=14407)
 
S & R* CHOICE ANECDOTE #3: Matt Damon: Feeling Old
“One Thanksgiving Day morning, Matt Damon was roused from bed by his triathlete brother at 5:30 a.m. to run a 5-kilometer road race. “It was kind of an eye-opening thing,” he recalled. “I started to feel old for the first time when I’m about two thirds of the way through a 5k and I’m going like, ‘I’m working it. I’m doing good,’ and look over and these two 8-year-olds passed me. They’re like talking to each other, not even trying…”(Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.anecdotage.com/index.php?aid=20786)

S & R* QUOTE #1: Mark Twain
“The perfection of wisdom, and the end of true philosophy is to proportion our wants to our possessions, our ambitions to our capacities, we will then be a happy and a virtuous people.”
(Source: Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/wisdom/index5.html)

S & R* QUOTE #2: Bo Lozoff
“The great teachings unanimously emphasize that all the peace, wisdom, and joy in the universe are already within us; we don’t have to gain, develop, or attain them. We’re like a child standing in a beautiful park with his eyes shut tight. We don’t need to imagine trees, flowers, deer, birds, and sky; we merely need to open our eyes and realize what is already here, who we really are — as soon as we quit pretending we’re small or unholy.” (Source:  Wisdom Quotes) – http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/wisdom/index5.html)

S & R* QUOTE #3: Stephen Sigmund 
“Learn wisdom from the ways of a seedling. A seedling which is never hardened off through stressful situations will never become a strong productive ant.” (Source: Wisdom Quotes) –  http://www.wisdomquotes.com/topics/wisdom/index4.html)
 
ANNEX II
SCHEDULE I
“IT WORDS FOR ME!*”
“For today, my word/phrase(s) are: “Thanksgiving Day”; “Black Friday”; etc.

Thanksgiving Day
“Thanksgiving or Thanksgiving Day, celebrated on the fourth Thursday in November, has officially been an annual tradition in the United States since 1863, when during the Civil War, President Abraham Lincoln proclaimed a national day of thanksgiving to be celebrated on Thursday, November 26.[1] As a federal and popular holiday in the U.S., Thanksgiving is one of the “big six” major holidays of the year (along with Christmas, New Year’s Day, Memorial Day, Independence Day, and Labor Day). Together with Christmas and the New Year, Thanksgiving is a part of the broader holiday season.”

Black Friday
“Black Friday is the day following Thanksgiving Day in the United States, traditionally the beginning of the Christmas shopping season.”

SCHEDULE II
STUDY/STATISTICS:

“The event that Americans commonly call the “First Thanksgiving” was celebrated to give thanks to God for guiding them safely to the New World.[2] The first Thanksgiving feast lasted three days, providing enough food for 13 Pilgrims and 90 Native Americans.[3]The first documented thanksgiving feasts in territory currently belonging to the United States were conducted by Spaniards in the 16th century.[8][9][10] Thanksgiving services were routine in what was to become the Commonwealth of Virginia as early as 1607,[11] with the first permanent settlement of Jamestown, Virginia holding a thanksgiving in 1610.[8]On October 6, 1941, both houses of the U.S. Congress passed a joint resolution fixing the traditionallast-Thursday date for the holiday beginning in 1942. However, in December of that year the Senate passed an amendment to the resolution that split the difference by requiring that Thanksgiving be observed annually on the fourth Thursday of November, which was sometimes the last Thursday and sometimes (less frequently) the next to last.[27] On December 26, 1941 President Roosevelt signed this bill, for the first time making the date of Thanksgiving a matter of federal law.[28 On Thanksgiving Day, families and friends usually gather for a large meal or dinner. Consequently, the Thanksgiving holiday weekend is one of the busiest travel periods of the year.[39 Since 1924, in New York City, the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade is held annually every Thanksgiving Day from the Upper West Side of Manhattan to Macy’s flagship store in Herald Square, and televised nationally by NBC. American football is an important part of many Thanksgiving celebrations in the United States. Professional football games are often held on Thanksgiving Day; until recently, these were the only games played during the week apart from Sunday or Monday night. The National Football League has played games on Thanksgiving every year since its creation; the tradition is referred to as the Thanksgiving Classic. The Detroit Lions have hosted a game every Thanksgiving Day since 1934, with the exception of 1939–1944 (due to World War II).The day after Thanksgiving is a day off for some companies and many schools. It is popularly known as Black Friday, because of the heavy shopping that day helps put retailers’ books back into black. Black Friday has been considered by retailers to be the start of the Christmas shopping season since as early as the 1930s.”

(Source: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)-  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thanksgiving_(United_States))

SCHEDULE III
S & R* NEWS ALERT* #1:Giving thanks around the world
“Thanksgiving isn’t just a North American tradition. People around the world gather with friends and family to reflect on blessings and appreciate the good things in life. Whether you own a little or a lot, you can always find something to be grateful for, says Mark Lukowski, CEO, Christian Children’s Fund of Canada. And a successful harvest is definitely worth celebrating, as seen in many of the countries where we work. Here are some interesting harvest celebrations from around the world: In Ghana (Western Africa), tribes celebrate the Yam Festival with song and dance. Yams are a common food in many African countries and are the first crop harvested. The Yam Festival is usually held in the beginning of August at the end of the rainy season. Other African tribes celebrate the Homowo Festival which means hooting at hunger with parades to mark the ongoing fight against famine. In Northern India, wheat is harvested either in late February or early March. At this time, they celebrate the Holi Festival, which lasts five days. During this festival, people dress up and others play games like throwing coloured water and red powder at each other. People build bonfires and afterwards, the ashes are rubbed on people’s foreheads in order to bring good luck for the coming year. To celebrate Thanksgiving, you can help someone in a developing country build their harvest by purchasing garden tools, vegetable seeds, and fruit trees through Christian Children’s Fund of Canada’s gift catalogue at:
www.ccfcanada.ca. ”
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S & R* NEWS ALERT* #2: Learn your personal exemptions for cross-border shopping
“Don’t spoil a cross-border shopping spree by finding out you have to pay unexpected duty at the border. One way to avoid such a surprise is getting to know your personal exemptions. These exemptions allow you to bring goods of a certain value back home to Canada without paying regular duty and taxes. Take note of these exemptions from the Canada Border Services Agency to save time and money at the Canadian border. After 24 hours – CAN$50, no alcoholic beverages or tobacco products (if more than $50, full duty and taxes are applicable);
After 48 hours – CAN$400;
After seven days – CAN$750.
You can bring one of the following amounts of alcoholic beverages free of duty and taxes as long as you are within the minimum ages, as prescribed by provincial or territorial authorities (18 years for the provinces of Alberta, Manitoba and Quebec, and 19 years for the remaining provinces and territories): 1.5 litres of wine; a total of 1.14 litres of alcoholic beverages; orup to a maximum of 8.5 litres of beer or ale. If you’re 18 or over, you can bring all of these types of tobacco products free of duty and taxes within your personal exemption:
200 cigarettes;
50 cigars;
200 grams of manufactured tobacco; and 200 tobacco sticks.
Remember, there are no exemptions for same-day travel. Anything you buy is subject to applicable PST, GST and duty. Also, you must declare everything you buy, regardless if any of the exemptions apply.
There are more tips for travellers at www.cbsa.gc.ca/traveltips.
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